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08-11-2024, 04:36 AM
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Someone aware me on jealousy
A bit of a novel.
I always seen jealousy as an indicator of success, if others were jealous of me it means I possess something or have traits qualities that they desire and resent or hate me because of it.
Yet apparently disgust can be a part of jealousy and anytime I expressed disgust toward someone really fat and ugly they always tell me I'm "jealous" of them.
Most of the people I know or have known have shown signs of jealousy towards me, and I will admit I am pretty great… I used to be better looking than most other people, I excel at most everything I attempt, I am close to my family, people gravitiate to me as a natural leader, etc.
The definition of jealousy doesn't seem to be clear, some sites use it the same as envy except with resentment or hate involved, usually stemming from the jealous person's insecurity or feelings of inadequacy.
I get told on face book groups that people are jealous of me when I announced I was playing a certain game 14 hours a day and members of the group voiced their anger/irritation toward me and which some told me these members were jealous of me, I experience the same thing on the misc, when I declare my success with different things certain members will try to bring me down.
Obviously if I had no redeeming/admirable qualities and succeeded at nothing, nobody would be jealous of me, should I be using this as an indicator of success?
Someone aware me.
I always seen jealousy as an indicator of success, if others were jealous of me it means I possess something or have traits qualities that they desire and resent or hate me because of it.
Yet apparently disgust can be a part of jealousy and anytime I expressed disgust toward someone really fat and ugly they always tell me I'm "jealous" of them.
Most of the people I know or have known have shown signs of jealousy towards me, and I will admit I am pretty great… I used to be better looking than most other people, I excel at most everything I attempt, I am close to my family, people gravitiate to me as a natural leader, etc.
The definition of jealousy doesn't seem to be clear, some sites use it the same as envy except with resentment or hate involved, usually stemming from the jealous person's insecurity or feelings of inadequacy.
I get told on face book groups that people are jealous of me when I announced I was playing a certain game 14 hours a day and members of the group voiced their anger/irritation toward me and which some told me these members were jealous of me, I experience the same thing on the misc, when I declare my success with different things certain members will try to bring me down.
Obviously if I had no redeeming/admirable qualities and succeeded at nothing, nobody would be jealous of me, should I be using this as an indicator of success?
Someone aware me.
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08-11-2024, 04:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Componentav⏩
Its been a while since I brushed my teeth.
Didn’t read
When was the last time you showered and brushed your teeth?
When was the last time you showered and brushed your teeth?
Why aren't you red?
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08-11-2024, 04:39 AM
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Jealousy means that someone is scared to lose something and you feel threatened - for example social status. Jealous people will flat out sabotage your efforts.
Envy means you admire and want something someone has - looking at a fitness model train and feeling motivated by this and going out to train yourself is an example of positive envy.
Envy means you admire and want something someone has - looking at a fitness model train and feeling motivated by this and going out to train yourself is an example of positive envy.
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08-11-2024, 04:41 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Was specifically waiting for your reply boyo, repped.
Jealousy means that someone is scared to lose something and you feel threatened - for example social status. Jealous people will flat out sabotage your efforts.
Envy means you admire and want something someone has - looking at a fitness model train and feeling motivated by this and going out to train yourself is an example of positive envy.
Envy means you admire and want something someone has - looking at a fitness model train and feeling motivated by this and going out to train yourself is an example of positive envy.
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08-11-2024, 04:42 AM
#5
Originally Posted By Componentav⏩
On recharge for negs.
because I actually brush my teeth daily
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08-11-2024, 04:43 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
So if I'm surrounded by jealous people does this mean I am on the right track oh wise one?
Jealousy means that someone is scared to lose something and you feel threatened - for example social status. Jealous people will flat out sabotage your efforts.
Envy means you admire and want something someone has - looking at a fitness model train and feeling motivated by this and going out to train yourself is an example of positive envy.
Envy means you admire and want something someone has - looking at a fitness model train and feeling motivated by this and going out to train yourself is an example of positive envy.
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08-11-2024, 04:49 AM
#7
Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
I'd suggest if you're surrounded by jealous people you're surrounded by the wrong people.
So if I'm surrounded by jealous people does this mean I am on the right track oh wise one?
The people you hang out with should bring you up, not try to bring you down.
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08-11-2024, 04:54 AM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Which reinforces my belief that I should be living alone.
I'd suggest if you're surrounded by jealous people you're surrounded by the wrong people.
The people you hang out with should bring you up, not try to bring you down.
The people you hang out with should bring you up, not try to bring you down.
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08-11-2024, 04:56 AM
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08-11-2024, 05:04 AM
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
Jealousy exists everywhere. If people who are high in social status are generally jealous of you that's a good sign.
So if I'm surrounded by jealous people does this mean I am on the right track oh wise one?
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08-11-2024, 05:08 AM
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It's a nice spin I guess to find positive affirmation in a negative emotion from somebody else, but there are probably better ways to measure your success. I don't like to find pleasure in another person's unhappiness. Also it's hard to be sure why someone doesn't like you, I have found in my personal experience
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08-11-2024, 05:13 AM
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Originally Posted By resoog⏩
If some bum off of the street insulted you, you wouldn't care about it as much as if a peer or someone who you think is above you, insulted you.
It's a nice spin I guess to find positive affirmation in a negative emotion from somebody else, but there are probably better ways to measure your success. I don't like to find pleasure in another person's unhappiness. Also it's hard to be sure why someone doesn't like you, I have found in my personal experience
People don't even notice those they don't feel threatened by in some way, shape, or form - even if it's just aa perceived slight.
The truth is that if someone who is successful, cool and popular has an issue with you, it's most likely because they see you as a threat to their hegemony. Likewise, if you don't have successful, cool and popular people hating you, you're probably just a beta.
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08-11-2024, 05:39 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
The majority of people that have been "jealous" of me would attempt to mislead, deceive, or confuse me with bad advice, the same people would wait like snakes until I'm showing a believed weakness to initiate a confrontation with me when they believe they could win… Its so much more sneaky than insults or direct confrontations (unless I was showing weakness), snakes is the best way to put it.
If some bum off of the street insulted you, you wouldn't care about it as much as if a peer or someone who you think is above you, insulted you.
People don't even notice those they don't feel threatened by in some way, shape, or form - even if it's just aa perceived slight.
The truth is that if someone who is successful, cool and popular has an issue with you, it's most likely because they see you as a threat to their hegemony. Likewise, if you don't have successful, cool and popular people hating you, you're probably just a beta.
People don't even notice those they don't feel threatened by in some way, shape, or form - even if it's just aa perceived slight.
The truth is that if someone who is successful, cool and popular has an issue with you, it's most likely because they see you as a threat to their hegemony. Likewise, if you don't have successful, cool and popular people hating you, you're probably just a beta.
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08-11-2024, 06:36 AM
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08-11-2024, 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Envy means coveting something someone else has and feeling resentful at them having it. Wanting to be like someone and working for it is inspiration, not envy.
Jealousy means that someone is scared to lose something and you feel threatened - for example social status. Jealous people will flat out sabotage your efforts.
Envy means you admire and want something someone has - looking at a fitness model train and feeling motivated by this and going out to train yourself is an example of positive envy.
Envy means you admire and want something someone has - looking at a fitness model train and feeling motivated by this and going out to train yourself is an example of positive envy.
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08-11-2024, 06:54 AM
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
So if I'm surrounded by jealous people does this mean I am on the right track oh wise one?
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08-11-2024, 06:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Well that's your definition and of course being as proud as you are, your definition trumps someone else's.
Envy means coveting something someone else has and feeling resentful at them having it. Wanting to be like someone and working for it is inspiration, not envy.
Of Course it's envy, you see someone has a quality that you want, so you imitate them to gain it - it's still envy.
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08-11-2024, 07:35 AM
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Jealousy has a negative connotation associated with it while envy is neutral.
Also jealousy has degrees for example i can be jealous that my best friend has a great wife and kids, but there is no hate or anything negative involved in my jealousy.
I just admire his positive outcomes, maybe you need new or better friends if they are so negative.
Also jealousy has degrees for example i can be jealous that my best friend has a great wife and kids, but there is no hate or anything negative involved in my jealousy.
I just admire his positive outcomes, maybe you need new or better friends if they are so negative.
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08-11-2024, 07:46 AM
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08-11-2024, 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
So you just get to make up your own dictionary? Is that how this works? Wiseoldape's dictionary for the severely mentally ill, foreword by Johnvee.
Well that's your definition and of course being as proud as you are, your definition trumps someone else's.
Of Course it's envy, you see someone has a quality that you want, so you imitate them to gain it - it's still envy.
Of Course it's envy, you see someone has a quality that you want, so you imitate them to gain it - it's still envy.
Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
Get a job.
The majority of people that have been "jealous" of me would attempt to mislead, deceive, or confuse me with bad advice, the same people would wait like snakes until I'm showing a believed weakness to initiate a confrontation with me when they believe they could win… Its so much more sneaky than insults or direct confrontations (unless I was showing weakness), snakes is the best way to put it.
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08-11-2024, 08:23 AM
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Not sure because jealousy is never an emotion I've felt (srs) I was born devoid of it along with many other emotions but I can see it in others and its destestable.
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08-11-2024, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Lool
So you just get to make up your own dictionary? Is that how this works? Wiseoldape's dictionary for the severely mentally ill, foreword by Johnvee.
Get a job.
Get a job.
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08-11-2024, 08:29 AM
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I ain't a dictionary bish
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08-11-2024, 08:31 AM
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came to post this. That was a great song.
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08-11-2024, 04:32 PM
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The great ErnieMcCracken said that "life isn't about felling good, it's about making other people feel bad."
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