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08-12-2024, 09:08 AM
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Long distance relationships

Any advice? Talking to three diff girls. How to establish the relationship as dating?
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08-12-2024, 09:09 AM
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All long distance? Not worth it. Go NC
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08-12-2024, 09:10 AM
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All long distance? Not worth it. Go NC
What’s NC?

No contact?
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08-12-2024, 09:11 AM
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What’s NC?

No contact?
Yeah.
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08-12-2024, 09:14 AM
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Just keep pushing till you find someone local, the LDR sounds enticing if you are just craving a relationship but you'll regret it
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08-12-2024, 09:17 AM
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Just keep pushing till you find someone local, the LDR sounds enticing if you are just craving a relationship but you'll regret it
She will be texting him xxx's inbetween getting railed. The more local the better.
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08-12-2024, 09:18 AM
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Why would you waste your time?


Do you want PENPALS?


Who are fukking every dude near her (but you)?






Stop wasting your time
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08-12-2024, 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted By bananabucket⏩
Just keep pushing till you find someone local, the LDR sounds enticing if you are just craving a relationship but you'll regret it
Why regret?
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08-12-2024, 09:20 AM
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why would you waste your time?


Do you want penpals?


Who are fukking every dude near her (but you)?






Stop wasting your time
l0l!
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08-12-2024, 09:21 AM
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Why would you waste your time?


Do you want PENPALS?


Who are fukking every dude near her (but you)?






Stop wasting your time
Speaks the truth he does.

Complete waste of ur time
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08-12-2024, 09:23 AM
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Yeah I've been talking to this orange haired BPD slut single mom on IMVU for a little while. She sends me photos of herself playing dress up and her feet are dirty as fuk. She insists she isn't a "single mom" as I send her internet gold and we share a house on Second Life, but whatever
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08-12-2024, 09:23 AM
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Speaks the truth he does.

Complete waste of ur time
Fukking more than one at at time is a huge emotional trip. Dramatic and complicated. There's a reason its supposed to be one.
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08-12-2024, 09:24 AM
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Starting a relationship off at long distance is kinda wild to me. I understand if you've met in IRL and just because of life one had to move away or whatever and you decided to keep the relationship alive and head into a LDR, okay… but if you never met.. that's just a pen pal
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08-12-2024, 09:28 AM
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I sometimes like to chat girls I match with for a bit if they're long distance. It's good practice if nothing else. But lmao at actually thinking you'll ever date them.
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08-12-2024, 09:41 AM
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My friend from the army met his wife through LDR so….
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08-12-2024, 09:42 AM
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My friend from the army met his wife through LDR so….
Some people have met their SO on dating apps or social media.. doesn't mean it's ideal.
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08-12-2024, 09:49 AM
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Long distance relationships are great!

EXCLUSIVE long distance relationships are dog sh*t.

Have as many LDR's as you want. Make it clear that you're banging. Be okay that she's banging too. And f*ck eachother when you're in her area.

I've had a Brazilian and 2 French girl LDR's simultaneously before it's very nice
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08-12-2024, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
Starting a relationship off at long distance is kinda wild to me. I understand if you've met in IRL and just because of life one had to move away or whatever and you decided to keep the relationship alive and head into a LDR, okay… but if you never met.. that's just a pen pal
Exactly.
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08-12-2024, 10:01 AM
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Speaks the truth he does.

Complete waste of ur time
Tis makes sense

onward you go op.
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08-12-2024, 10:16 AM
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How far?? Nothing over 1.5 hour drive. Even that’s pushing it
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08-12-2024, 10:25 AM
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My GF lived in the area near me for about 2 years. Then I bought a house nearby (currently being built still), and then she moved to another state that's 1k+ miles away so she could live with her family (she has no income, no car, having hard time getting a job, doesn't want to burden me, I appreciate that). We're long distance currently and plan to meet up with each other every 2-3 months. Discord video calls and screensharing to watch movies/shows/whatever together. That's how we're gonna do it.

Just fap till you meet up eventually.
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08-12-2024, 10:29 AM
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My GF lived in the area near me for about 2 years. Then I bought a house nearby (currently being built still), and then she moved to another state that's 1k+ miles away so she could live with her family (she has no income, no car, having hard time getting a job, doesn't want to burden me, I appreciate that). We're long distance currently and plan to meet up with each other every 2-3 months. Discord video calls and screensharing to watch movies/shows/whatever together. That's how we're gonna do it.

Just fap till you meet up eventually.

Brutall if srs
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08-12-2024, 10:36 AM
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Brutall if srs
No not brutal. I love this situation tbh. I'm not going to keep "progressing" our relationship for years while she keeps failing at pursuing her career, builds up further student loan debt, never has an income, never drives. SRS. We're on standby while she gets her life together and hopefully becomes independent and successful.

EDIT: She really is trying, and there's multiple paths she's going forward with that are promising, but I'm not going to settle with a leech that slows down my finances and absorbs all my time.
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08-12-2024, 11:11 AM
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No not brutal. I love this situation tbh. I'm not going to keep "progressing" our relationship for years while she keeps failing at pursuing her career, builds up further student loan debt, never has an income, never drives. SRS. We're on standby while she gets her life together and hopefully becomes independent and successful.

EDIT: She really is trying, and there's multiple paths she's going forward with that are promising, but I'm not going to settle with a leech that slows down my finances and absorbs all my time.
Never works that way pal. You don’t have the vag. She s just going to leave you in time. Just leave her now before you get dumped srs
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08-12-2024, 11:56 AM
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Never works that way pal. You don’t have the vag. She s just going to leave you in time. Just leave her now before you get dumped srs
Lol
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08-12-2024, 12:01 PM
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all relations with long distance, bi polar broads or single moms is time wasted.

have them only for backup sex. do bench presses or go for a jog instead of worrying.
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