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08-12-2024, 09:51 AM
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Ghosted by fiancée
So I was engaged to this sloot since January 2023. Everything was going well and I saw no signals or signs or anything. Then come in May and I get a phone call from a third party saying that the engagement is being called off and the girl doesn’t want to go along with the marriage anymore. No reasons were provided. I can’t help but be pissed off. I can’t force someone into a marriage but they could’ve atleast provided a reason and apologized for wasting my time. There is just no closure. I feel extremely pissed off that someone could just waste someone’s time like this. Just wanted to vent brahs
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08-12-2024, 10:44 AM
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damn that is rough. how about some backstory? how long you were together? did you chase her at the start of the relationship? how was the mutual attraction level before the ghosting in your opinion?
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08-12-2024, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By mryamamoto⏩
damn that is rough. how about some backstory? how long you were together? did you chase her at the start of the relationship? how was the mutual attraction level before the ghosting in your opinion?
It was an arranged marriage. We are both from a Muslims. She lived back there and I lived here in the states. I went over there and got engaged and filed for her fiance visa and did a ****ton of paper work. I even kept them updated on the visa status and procedures. I would talk to her on a weekly basis and we got along very well. What happened is that her brother passed away in October of 2023. Maybe that could’ve influenced the decision but why delay until May of 2024? I was talking to her about planning. The honeymoon trip just the week prior before they decided to break it off. I just found out she got engaged again to someone else. Felt like I got taken for a ride. My only issue why couldn’t you have atleast apologized for wasting my time and give me some closure. I don’t appreciate being ghosted. Entire family was shocked and anyone I tell this about is also shocked. I just don’t trust anyone anymore ded fkn srs.
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08-12-2024, 07:57 PM
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That is terrible. We live in dark times where you run a huge risk by putting your faith in others. You must now think that things happen for a reason, and maybe this marriage was simply not meant to be.
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08-13-2024, 10:58 AM
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Sorry to hear bro.
I'm guessing she either couldn't handle the confrontation herself or it wasn't even her decision. At least she didn't waste anymore of your time/money/etc and went through with something that wasn't going to last.
At the end of the day, it doesn't really matter and the closure will come from within in time.
I'm guessing she either couldn't handle the confrontation herself or it wasn't even her decision. At least she didn't waste anymore of your time/money/etc and went through with something that wasn't going to last.
At the end of the day, it doesn't really matter and the closure will come from within in time.
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08-14-2024, 05:29 AM
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Really sucks man. I get the pain of being cast aside. As others have already said ITT, you are the only person that give you closure. Trust me.
Anyhow who wants to be with someone who ghosts?
You got this bro
Anyhow who wants to be with someone who ghosts?
You got this bro
08-14-2024, 06:29 AM
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Originally Posted By SaltyCaptain592⏩
Oof, that sucks. Sounds like she got recruited to be a suicide bomber.
It was an arranged marriage. We are both from a Muslims. She lived back there and I lived here in the states. I went over there and got engaged and filed for her fiance visa and did a ****ton of paper work. I even kept them updated on the visa status and procedures. I would talk to her on a weekly basis and we got along very well. What happened is that her brother passed away in October of 2023. Maybe that could’ve influenced the decision but why delay until May of 2024? I was talking to her about planning. The honeymoon trip just the week prior before they decided to break it off. I just found out she got engaged again to someone else. Felt like I got taken for a ride. My only issue why couldn’t you have atleast apologized for wasting my time and give me some closure. I don’t appreciate being ghosted. Entire family was shocked and anyone I tell this about is also shocked. I just don’t trust anyone anymore ded fkn srs.
08-14-2024, 06:30 AM
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BBC strikes again.
08-14-2024, 11:01 AM
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just disregard man … find someone else… but if you really wanna know..have your mom call her mom…let your dad call her dad
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08-14-2024, 11:14 AM
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Her family found someone they consider to be superior to you so they arranged for her to marry him instead. Sorry brah.
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08-14-2024, 12:23 PM
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Worshipping the wrong prophet was your first mistake
08-15-2024, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted By AlBHappy⏩
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Worshipping the wrong prophet was your first mistake
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08-22-2024, 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted By SaltyCaptain592⏩
That sucks to hear, did you even get to see what she looked like under the hijab? You should sue, both for the ring to be returned but also the full cost of a sheet, if you had already pre-prepared one for your wedding night and cut the hole out of it already. Honestly, if you play your cards right, throw in the time spent cutting and even the price of the scissors you used. Then just keep the sheet around for the next arranged marriage you get yourself and you'll have made out like a bandit.
It was an arranged marriage. We are both from a Muslims.
Originally Posted By BuckNakedinBama⏩
Hate to say it, but this is true. The correct term is, "Out Goated" as odds are OP had offered two goats for her hand in marriage and some undercutter came in last-minute and upped the ante to three. Careful to all you Muslim fathers out there, make sure you're not getting goatswingled and they show up with those crappy pigmy micro goats on the wedding day, Jihads have been called for less. You have to get the full sized normal goats.
Her family found someone they consider to be superior to you so they arranged for her to marry him instead. Sorry brah.
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08-22-2024, 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted By SaltyCaptain592⏩
Maybe someone over there comforted her while she was grieving and she fell for him? Wouldn't blame yourself OP. Especially the circumstances you describe.
It was an arranged marriage. We are both from a Muslims. She lived back there and I lived here in the states. I went over there and got engaged and filed for her fiance visa and did a ****ton of paper work. I even kept them updated on the visa status and procedures. I would talk to her on a weekly basis and we got along very well. What happened is that her brother passed away in October of 2023. Maybe that could’ve influenced the decision but why delay until May of 2024? I was talking to her about planning. The honeymoon trip just the week prior before they decided to break it off. I just found out she got engaged again to someone else. Felt like I got taken for a ride. My only issue why couldn’t you have atleast apologized for wasting my time and give me some closure. I don’t appreciate being ghosted. Entire family was shocked and anyone I tell this about is also shocked. I just don’t trust anyone anymore ded fkn srs.
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08-23-2024, 01:22 AM
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08-25-2024, 10:19 PM
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That’s awful man, sorry to hear it. Really bad look on her part (to say the least). Not worth your anger or wasted energy anymore. All I can say is work on letting go asap and figure out how to get through this in a healthy way for your own good.
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08-26-2024, 06:04 AM
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08-27-2024, 01:21 PM
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Only one way to settle this. Time for a honor killing.
08-27-2024, 06:20 PM
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Originally Posted By squat_blaster⏩
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09-07-2024, 05:18 PM
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Did you at least smash?
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