funny that, sure seems that a lot of the vanilla lads judging the chocolate chaps for the lack of fathers in their community suffer a lot of DIVORCE in their own vanilla community, seems a bit of a pot/kettle to me

Didnt watch the video but can attest to this. Vanilla dad thought fukking his coworker was more important than his wife and 3 kids and parents got divorced when I was 7. Lol

Talk is cheap, bro. These questions are nice of course, but to be honest, they don’t apply to many fathers because, sadly, many fathers are not very good fathers—or even good humans. The same can, of course, be said about mothers. Bad or weak character is a human problem and not something specific to parenthood, just to be clear. It just so happens that parenthood really exposes who you are as a person.

Asking parents these heavy, insightful questions will just feel ridiculous if the person you’re asking is not honorable or has lived a selfish life.

I think it would be much more interesting and useful to think of 7 important decisions your father made and ask him what he felt and thought in those situations before making those decisions. If he regrets them etc. This approach works regardless of whether your father was a good man or not.