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post 1705398221 08-23-2024, 08:47 AM
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Guys in 30s who haven't had serious relationships yet

How's it going to feel knowing that every single girl in her 30s will have already had multiple long term relationships, they will have had "the one that just got away" they will have been closed to getting married to multiple men

all of this- while you've been struggling to just find a girl to date

every cute thing you think of, the previous guy had done it, but better...
post 1705398361 08-23-2024, 08:52 AM
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Had a girl pushing me for kids on the first date I ever went on at 27. Felt weird man.
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post 1705398511 08-23-2024, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted By FA*******
Had a girl pushing me for kids on the first date I ever went on at 27. Felt weird man.
That would get me diamond hard.

OP why you going for 30s and above, if you can attract younger go for it.

Most women in that age bracket are bitter as fuk, ran through or a single mom.
post 1705435551 08-24-2024, 04:29 AM
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Originally Posted By LuigiMiami631
That would get me diamond hard.

OP why you going for 30s and above, if you can attract younger go for it.

Most women in that age bracket are bitter as fuk, ran through or a single mom.
I don't go for 30 year olds lol 27 is about oldest i would go for
This was just a question for guys that are attracted to older types of women with this kind of baggage
post 1705436681 08-24-2024, 05:30 AM
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I am 'the one that got away' for a few girls. I just genuinely think that having a girlfriend won't make someone's quality of life better, and if it does, it won't be long before that girl disappears and the guy is worse than he was to begin with.

Anyway, I am happier and better off alone for now - I'll meet a nice girl when the time is right.
post 1705437061 08-24-2024, 05:58 AM
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you'll never be 15 and in love

lying on the grass on a warm summer night, watching the stars, carelessly chatting

not worrying about rent, bills, student loans

only worry in life is how you're gonna cheat on that history test on monday

you'll never take a young, tight, hot-bodied girls virginity, pulling out to cum all over her back and have her look in your eyes and say "I love you"

you'll never have a girl around every day after school, pretend to be doing homework together, but instead just **** like rabbits

you're in your 20's now

gotta get a good job

gotta be a serious man now

all the good ones are taken

maybe a nice girl will eventually settle with you

they have already felt all those new exciting feelings before, and are usually jaded and bitter

you missed what it feels like to have not a care in the world other than making your girl happy
post 1705437151 08-24-2024, 06:08 AM
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What do women in their 30s have to do with anything?
post 1705437401 08-24-2024, 06:26 AM
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Just date younger.
That said I’d rather a 30 year old women who isn’t a child even if she has some skeletons. God knows I do.

I went out last night after a comedy show. I’m 35 and I literally was talking to a college chick. Apologized because I realized I didn’t want to be there and just got up and left. Left cash for our drinks and went home to watch Smackdown on record.


Unfortunately, 20-30year old girls are so vapid, I’d rather put up with a girl my age. It’s draining trying to talk to the younger women without wanting to just call them clowns.

I did almost marry someone when I was 28 so I was in a pretty good relationship when I was a little younger
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post 1705440821 08-24-2024, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted By LuigiMiami631
That would get me diamond hard.
It's not like they wanted my baby batter cause I'm such a Chad. It's more like "I have a life plan that includes getting pregnant before getting age 31.5, and I need to stay on schedule."
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post 1705441961 08-24-2024, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted By mrdot
How's it going to feel knowing that every single girl in her 30s will have already had multiple long term relationships, they will have had "the one that just got away" they will have been closed to getting married to multiple men
It wont feel like anything cause I wont even get that far.
post 1705442141 08-24-2024, 09:48 AM
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25 and younger crew or be alone crew

LOL at settling. There are worse things than being alone and OP just described all of them. LOL at pairing off with someone who already experienced all of those things with another guy. Maybe I'm too prideful but I'd rather just rope right now and call it a life.
post 1705442201 08-24-2024, 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted By SSM12
Just date younger.
That said I’d rather a 30 year oldwomen who isn’t a child even if she has some skeletons. God knows I do.

I went out last night after a comedy show. I’m 35 and I literally was talking to a college chick. Apologized because I realized I didn’t want to be there and just got up and left. Left cash for our drinks andwent home to watch Smackdownon record.
-Wants a woman who isn't a child
-Went home and watched Smackdown

LMAO
post 1705442611 08-24-2024, 10:03 AM
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if you are in this boat you need to be dating multiple women at once, otherwise you'll definitely feel insecure
post 1705443371 08-24-2024, 10:34 AM
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Just date young?


I mean a vast majority of men aren't Chad smashing 10/10s. A vast majority of men 17 - 30 have at most 7 lays.
post 1705443801 08-24-2024, 10:49 AM
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Just date younger. It's the social norm to date a girl 7 years younger and that's the ideal anyway.
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Originally Posted By SSM12
Just date younger.
That said I’d rather a 30 year old women who isn’t a child even if she has some skeletons. God knows I do.

I went out last night after a comedy show. I’m 35 and I literally was talking to a college chick. Apologized because I realized I didn’t want to be there and just got up and left. Left cash for our drinks and went home to watch Smackdown on record.


Unfortunately, 20-30year old girls are so vapid, I’d rather put up with a girl my age. It’s draining trying to talk to the younger women without wanting to just call them clowns.

I did almost marry someone when I was 28 so I was in a pretty good relationship when I was a little younger
20 - 30 girls are so vapid? Sounds like you were around the wrong women. That's a you problem.

I knew plenty of early 20s women who had great personalities.
post 1705455771 08-24-2024, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******
It's not like they wanted my baby batter cause I'm such a Chad. It's more like "I have a life plan that includes getting pregnant before getting age 31.5, and I need to stay on schedule."
It hit me today... chit went a lot like this.

Imagine you've never held hands with a woman before, then some phuckin stranger you've never met starts acting this way.

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post 1705470471 08-25-2024, 06:39 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
20 - 30 girls are so vapid? Sounds like you were around the wrong women. That's a you problem.

I knew plenty of early 20s women who had great personalities.
Fair. Part of it is a me problem. I have zero patience for bs anymore because my job, though easy, is draining. So when I’m out with someone(especially on a weeknight after work), I’m generally already over it.

I shouldn’t have generalized because you are right, I have found a few that I can connect with on a real level.
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