Need advice boyos


I met a girl through an online game she's 27.
We got talking and decided to meet in person
She has a lot of tattoos and even though she goes to the gym a lot she's slightly overweight.
She's shy and a bit awkward (probably why she decided to meet me off an online game because she's awkward and too shy nerdy etc to use dating apps irl)

We spent a weekend together and it was fun. (She lives far away)

Since then we have still been talking and she's really into me

The problem is I just don't see myself with her long term

But on the other hand I'm an incel and I feel better being with her than being lonely

I'm not sure what to do?

I feel bad for wasting her time as she made it clear she wants a long term relatingship and she's also 27 so time is short for her

Yea so we basically dated from June 2019 until January of this year, but kept in contact afterwards.
She msgs me yday that she's talking to somebody else.

This is the first time this has happened to me, and I feel like absolute chit

Any miscers dealt with the girl they loved moving on so quick after a breakup? Bear in mind, we broke up like 20 times during the relationship but always got back together

Want some things about me and my wife? Read my answers below!

I'm used to woman being very forward with me, so i dont know how to read this.

She's my coworker (i know, i know), 36, intelligent, grounded, former d1 soccer player. we're good friends, talk all day at work & text all the time for months.

invite her to a cinco de mayo party at my friends house probably 10 other people, all couples in their 40s, we're in our 30s.
throughout the night when i'm talking to people she would walk up & knee me in my quad or shoulder check me to get my attention probably 15 times or more. kept pinching my nipples because they were hard. made me slow dance with her. etc. we stayed the night. she slept in a twin bed, i slept in the floor beside her.

she took me home the next morning. texted me all day until my friends wife told me to invite her back over to watch ufc, so i did. she left me on read, not a yes or no, didnt even continue the conversation we were already having. she never texted again the whole weekend. so go into work today, we didnt speak a word to each other. i caught her looking at me several times out of my peripheral, but never made eye contact. and when i say we talk all day every day for months, this is the first time we've gone even a day without talking this year.


i should also add, i haven't even tried to go on a date in over a year.. i just have a regular rotation of a few girls. But i actually dig this girl. But really needed her to make the move so it doesn't make my workplace awkward.

Ever since I got shredded and my cheekbones and jawline have exposed, I’ve been getting free stuff from women.


The girl from Chipotle will let me get by with a free meal.
The girl at the register will give me the employee discount.

In general, girls are smiling, making themselves available to me, being in close proximity, hair flipping and at the gym they’re saying they hope to see me again.

But today was something else.

I went on my first date in a while on Cinco de Mayo. The place is packed with a “2 hour wait” so we decide to go next door to a dive bar. The moment I walk in, there is a white girl staring at me like I’m the second coming of Jesus. She’s like, where have I met you? And i’m like… we haven’t. And she’s like, I know you from somewhere. She thinks my name is “Jimmy” and I insist that I’m not Jimmy. Nevertheless, she tells the bartender to put my drinks on her tab. She was sitting in front of another guy who was pretending like this whole thing wasn’t happening. My date and I had a drink and then left for the restaurant, not paying a dime.

When we arrive at our restaurant they seat us at a big table for 4 that can seat 6, but we are only 2. Less than 5 minutes later, a group of 4 black women are seated at a small table of 4, limitation of 4x I wouldn’t mind a more intimate seating arrangement so I offer to switch tables. The black women are so happy and the switch was made. One of the black women was listening into our conversation and brought up how I’m a lawyer and her cousin is a lawyer after “screwing around with basketball cause he’s 6’7” and now she wants to pay for our food and drinks.

Just like that everything is paid for because I’m “Jimmy”, these women will rationalize anything if you have “Pretty Privilege”


My date and I probably spent $100 tonight but didn’t pay a dime.


Get shredded and goodwill will follow.
“Pretty privilege” or “Chad status” as you guys call it (even though I wasn’t being alpha) is real.

Back in the day white dudes were strong AF, they weren’t afraid to put these hoes in check if they got out of line. They’d discipline a hoe with a slap here and there

E.g

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Nowadays 99% of white boys will say a man should never hit a woman under no circumstances and y’all wonder why western hoes these days are out of line, yet women over in Russia are still submissive and respect their men


Cliffs - white men these days are beta cucks that alllowed sloots to act like entitled Hoes


Look at how pathetic the modern white man is, willing to rescue a sloot he doesn’t even know and risk his own life the moment another man DEFENDS himself from her attacks

Howdy, joined a while ago then took a break but wanted to ask you all a question. I met this girl probably 4yrs ago and is one of those world traveler kind of chicks so it is not uncommon for us to go 6mos without meeting up for whatever. Shes back in the country (I think for good) and when she was in town a couple of years ago she came over to my apartment, wearing sweats. Obviously that should have set off alarm bells she was down to do the indoor olympics but for whatever beta reason, I didnt really try. Now & again she'll send flirty texts to me but then act flaky when I try to get her to hang out. She either thinks Im gay or is just messing with me. What would you all do? Sincerely, -a red

So im back on the dating apps after a few years and one thing im noticing is there's quite a few that want to move the chat to WhatsApp.

Why though? Am i missing something?

Wth is the difference in just using your cell# instead of yet another dam app?

I remember years ago it used to be Snap.

Im also an oldcell, so cut me some slack.

What to put in headline.
What to put in profile.

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HELP!

What should I do about this?

I am a 24 year old boy with six wives who are all 24 years old!

Before I met them, they were all platonic friends with each other to the point that they are all inseparable from each other. They are basically a sisterhood.

Then I became a platonic friend to all of them.

After that, they all became my wives.




Here is the problem:

Whenever I piss any one of my wives, the 6 of them all band together against me. They all gang up on me. They also bully me and whenever one of them bullies me, they all gang up on me.

How do they gang up against me? All the 6 of them work together in wrestling me in our huge bed in an aggressive and dominating way.

Apparently, they have more loyalty towards each other than to me. This is because all of them were already platonic friends with each other even before I met them and they are all girls but I am just a boy so they have more loyalty towards each other than towards me especially for the fact that girls have more things in common than they do with boys.

Help me! The sisterhood always tries to dominate, humiliate, and punish me in our huge bed!

HELP! PLEASE! HELP!!!!

Been years since I’ve been on here llol it ain’t what it used to be damn.

Anyway. Finally met a girl I’m ready to marry and have kids with so it’s quite serious. My GF has been acting off the last couple of weeks and I just don’t know why. She’s been having some sexual issues and trouble getting aroused also. She was staying at my place this past weekend. Anyway I don’t use any social media but she does. I just have a Tk Tok account so she can share videos with me. She was showing me something oh her phone in her Tkk tok and it popped up “someone you may know ,CJ” CJ is a guy she used to hook up with before she met me and according to her haven’t spoken in like a year and a half. I asked why would he pop up there if you guys haven’t spoken and she said she didn’t know. I said okay. The next morning around 11 am we are laying in my bed at my place and she went to use the bathroom, she said the my cat came in the bathroom when she was using it and she showed me the pics she took of the cat , she scrolled too far to the left and a picture showing her butt in my bathroom from 8am appeared, taken when I was sleeping. She’s like oh I took those for you but you said your phone was dead last night so I didn’t send them. I said ,my phone never was dead and why would that matter if it was you still could of sent them. She said she didn’t know…. I said that’s so weird to take nudes when we are together ? imagine if the roles were reversed and you saw my dick from your bathroom and I never sent you the pic and you just saw it accidentally on my phone ? And she rarely ever randomly sends sexual pictures to me maybe like twice in the last 6 months. What are your thoughts on this?

Just banged someone's wife because thats his thing. His whore of a wife was screaming all night long. LOL at marrying thots and hos in 2023

I think people overestimate how far game can carry you.

Game is only going to improve your chances with women who have a slight interest in you. It’s just going to be enough from pushing them from a mild interest into being all over you.

It’s not going to work on women who aren’t into you. You’re not going to have some chick who doesn’t give you the time of day or is just friendly into throwing herself at you.

This is why you need to just choose the women who chose you.

Obviously you still must shoot your shot and initiate things, but women who are into you will make it easy for you. They will do the bulk of the work. When you do the bulk of the work as a man, it’s usually not rewarded.

Went to a pool party with some mutual friends, and this one girl came up to me and touched my back and arm multiple times.

Eventually I returned the favor and it was all over.

This was so much nicer than me repeatedly throwing myself at these chicks who aren’t into it.

It’s the women who ultimately do the choosing. Just pick the ones who choose you!

Been dating 6 months with a nice girl. No sloot, good father relationship, never goes out, we don’t have the same hobbies but we do like watching Netflix and walking/hiking

She is my first real gf for this long and a part of me likes her very much but the other part of me wants to explore more and have more fun before I’m 30. I am scared of commitment and scared I won’t find anyone like her again.

I broke up 2 days ago and she was devastated and I felt so much guilt. I did experience some freedom all weekend hanging out with the guys but I missed her so much. We ended up meeting the next day and it turned into a “break” for a week or two and then last night she wanted an answer now.

We are back now and I know everything will not be th same cause I hurt her but I know she still likes me. Said we can take it slow and not think long-term too much. Neither of us wants to marry anytime soon. I do want to meet other women but at the same time I care about this girl. Is it better to just keep going day by day? I am still enjoying my time but also feel like I could b missing out on other opportunities. 6 months is not a long time though.

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Dear bros with long happy relationships, how do you do it?

I know its supossed to be hard work, but how do you at least keep the spark going?
Im on 6 years and just tired of everything.
Shes a great girl but I'm worried if Im making a short sighted mistake.

Never had a relationship last this long, and Ive been getting away with a fair ammount of cheating so far
My friend asked me: If I had a 6 year old relationship with another girl, what would be different this time around?
I had no answer for that question, I said well the same could happen honestly

So tell me, are these feelings normal and how do you preserve the fun?

So I recently met this cute girl at a party. Crazy dance moves. Was hit on by alot of guys that night.
Got her insta, then got her number. Then started chatting on whatsapp. She seems interested, texted back quite frequently.
Asked her to grab some coffee on the weekend. She said she wants to but only has time next week and not this weekend (told me all the things she is up to), but in general she would like to me meet me.
Asked her if shes fine with meeting in the middle of the week and she said yes. I thumbed that up, but didnt text any further. That was yesterday morning.

Im not much of a text guy and I dont want us to run out of topics if we eventually meet up, so I try to keep it to a minimum.

Thing is that there are quite a few days in between a potential date. There is no specific day that is set in stone yet and Im worried that she will lose interest when I go no contact.
At the same time I obviously dont want to come off as needy and dont want to run out of conversation topics.

I thought about waiting until sunday and then suggest a specific day for a date.

Usually I dont really give a fuk, this girl is my type tho so I begin to overthink.

Hopefully not a long read.

Still reeling over breaking up with the girl. We lived together.
I have been occupying my time (actually quite busy as I have my isht together) but it’s been tough none the less.

She was a hbb accountant, amazing in the home where we matched up great. Cooking, eating, gym, same cultural background, desire for family and kids.
She grew up rough - parents low income family, arguments etc moved out at 18 and made something of her life.
Work brought us to the same location so we decided to live together. All was well.

Ive tried to describe it the best of my ability.


2 big issues she had though. Family and marriage.

1) Marriage - she wanted it asap (she was 28), and I mean like asap a few months. I explained to her that id date for 2 years, but compromised on a year because we were aligned on future goals, and she was great.
Despite this, for reasons I cant pinpoint on (perhaps the family upbringing), she did not believe me. So on a weekly basis it was not a comment about marriage, but a an anxiety towards it which resulted in arguments. I tried my honest best to reassure her that I would propose to her (like genuinely I was whole heartedly in this) but she couldn’t go a weak without bringing it up.

2) Family - as mentioned above she did not have the best one. So any interaction with my own family was one of skepticism. If there was a certain behaviour or ‘rude’ comment it was passed as an insult - and this turned into a competition akin to a ‘choose me or choose them’ scenario.
She expects a man to always stand up for his wife and be by her side etc. I am on the ball with this. But she expects in blindly and doesn’t believe my explanations. This is where it began to agitate me.
I will give an example, she met my dad and on the second encounter he was talking to her a bit (still new awkward encounter as two people are still getting to know each other) and asked her about what she thinks about money and how she would spend it in the future, then he spoke a bit about real estate. I noticed the awkwardness and intervened from across the kitchen and said ‘obviously the plan is to invest in the normal wise things like real estate.
Now she took this as an insult, and as a moment where I needed to shut my father down there and then, and advise him and whoever else that she is my woman and they need to respect that.
My explanations did not satisfy her and were met on deaf ears. In my 30 years of knowing my father, I explained that he is not evil and did not mean any harm, but was just awkwardly asking if she is sensible with her money. I apologised she felt talked down to, and explained there was no ill intent there truly. She did not believe me.

I can list a bunch of similar examples.
A combination of oversensitivity and anxiety on the basis of upbringing is my impression. And that kind of a core thing in an individual was difficult to make amendments to.

Naturally issue 2 tied into issue 1 because time drifted on and so on. So we ended it after a year of living together. Got to the point of where she wouldn’t want to invite my family to a wedding (she only ever wanted super small no fuss wedding in a church - which is ironically enough amazing). Overreactions to things that didnt deserve overreactions. I do not surround myself with evil people, and as long as someone has a good heart, I can forgive if something is said or done provided its not a habit or its not crazy like drugs or murder or insulting wildly etc etc.

I tried to explain it in the best way I could as a neutral point of view.

I just cant help but think back if this could have been avoided. Could I have eased her anxiety after 6 months and proposed, could my bros wife have invited her for a coffee a few times to break the ice quicker and neutralise awkwardness, could my family coddled her a bit more when I knew this is what a personality like hers needed….

Kills me knowing that at the end I could not marry an individual like that who had a very different definition of love than mine. But at the same time I wonder if I could have altered the course and killed things before they became issues

Pussy!

What happened to this subforum? why is there only 13 Posts?

I want to have a whine about my love life but cbf writing a novel for some gay dying Indian forum where no sick kunts are even gonna see it

Like you bring a woman to your place and she's impressed with all this technology you have. From glow-in-the-dark stuff to motion sensing lights. Chemistry/physics/biology.

In the world of plants, there are naturally-occurring blue colored plants, and genetically modified blue roses. You can Wikipedia blue rose, to find out about that. But what nobody has yet done, is make a tree or so where each leaf has a genetic probability of color. Like 1/4th probability of 4 different colors, would love to make or purchase that.

She’s 32 and has slept with 11 people.

She lost her v at 19, longest relationship was 5 years.

Is 11 too high of a number?

https://nypost.com/2023/01/23/im-dat...year-old-girl/

Is this creepy. What made the 26 year old to wanna date the 8 year old looking girl? What about her made him attracted to her?

This isnt illegal, but chit just feels wrong. How do they fuk? If they are in public, what do people think? Would you fuk a 23 year old girl that looks 8 years old??

I went to a Russian Massage rub and tug today.

It was the place across the street where I worked. I walk in and ask for the hottest Russian blonde girl there, Lana.

I walk into the room and undress and start jerking off. When Lana walks in the room, I didn’t waste anytime fondling those natural TATas . They are worth price of admission. I told her to take her top off since they were busting out of her right shirt . I starting sucking kissing her boobs making her hot

She was in her mid 20’s and is very attractive. C cups (natural) nice peach butt, young milf body , bud natural boobs , medium build , perky ass , blonde hair , blue eyes

Lana started out with a solid massage, making sure to pay special attention to the boys. I reach around and start rubbing her leg and make my way up. She allowed me to caress her vagina , finger banged her for a little bit to get her hot bothered until the sweet whisper of flip over. we LFK and I’m sucking her tounge

She asks what would you like “Everything”. she said "let me get comfortable" and got rid of her slacks/yoga pants. She proceeded to hop on the table and provide a great cbj. Good suction, took her time. i couldn’t take it anymore so I just grabbed her and took her mish and pounded away into oblivion. She had her legs wrappped around my waist and I ****ed the **** out of her . She was moaning enjoying me pumping away . She was nice and wet and I blew in the bag.

She is a good responsive girl , she said I made her climax which made me feel good and I felt great as well. She offered water at the end and had me on my way. $200 well spent

is she playing games with me?

We've been separated for 8 months now, but she still keeps contact with my sister and they even meet from time to time.

We were together for 4 years. Had some amazing moments together, but also terrible ones. She was my best friend as well as my gf and we had a lot of things in common. Always wanted to be with me and around me - very clingy to be honest, but I didn't mind that too much. We fought often - separated a few times and got back together. Things were quite unstable, because she was super emotional and would blow up & disrespect me - then I would just leave. Then she would accuse me of "abandoning" her and try to make me feel guilty. Eventually she would say she misses me and we would get back together, because I love her.

We broke up, because I couldn't take the drama anymore and we were in constant battles for control. I felt like she wanted to have the upper hand always. I am a very balanced person, but I can NOT allow someone to stand above me and try to dominate me. Whenever I would show some backbone we would have fights. The way it ended was pretty bad though and we both broke each other's hearts.

We never fought over something serious. There were no lies/cheating involved. So I would always brush things off and say "hell, let's give it another shot, we'll probably work it out" and we will have a good time together until the next drama/episode hits.

After we separated she tried to get my attention in different ways, but mostly by attacking me indirectly on social media - either posting pics/stories of herself or liking/sharing stories with quotes for abusive relationships (accusing me of being the worst guy ever and a narcissist). Funny thing is - when we were together I was the best guy ever/ perfect in any way, etc., but when we broke up I was the complete opposite all of a sudden.

She did want us to work things out, but didn’t want to apologise for anything. Instead she was blaming me for everything. I felt like she was trying to manipulate me, so I didn’t give her that chance then.

All this time I was just waiting for an apology from her and even told her that a few months ago, but she didn't respond to me.

At one point I had enough and blocked her, because I couldn't take it anymore and it hurt me seeing her posting pics.

About two days after I blocked her she sent me this super long message, where she basically admits she was in the wrong for almost everything and apologized in great detail. She said she didn't send this before, because she thought she already apologized (which is total bull**** though). This is the first time she admits to being wrong about so many things and really caught me off guard. I didn't expect this from her and this brought back some feelings and now I feel worse. One important thing to note is she did mention "even though things between us are unfixable and we will never be together again" - but I'm not sure if she really means that or just wants me to feel like I'm losing her.

I responded neutral, but with a positive tone - basically thanking her for saying all this and that I needed to hear it. I told her I also made some mistakes myself and apologized for that. Then I said that we both hurt each other substantially, but she awoke some kind of hope for change. But if she thinks that things between us would be better off only in the past - I would understand her and wish her only the best.

When I sent it she read it right away, but it's been 7 days now and still not response from her. I get the feeling that she just wanted to clear her conscience, although my friends tell me that if that was the case - she wouldn't have written such a long and detailed letter, but instead just a very basic apology and goodbye. They also say she's playing with my feelings and she knows it, and probably wants me to chase her now.

I really don't know what I should do - should I reach out or keep waiting? I really want an answer from her, whatever it is. Even if she wants to completely end things I would do my best to move on. But now I'm stuck here waiting and it's really hurting me. Is she trying to manipulate me? Hurt me on purpose?

Would it be a bad idea to message her asking for an answer? Calling her? I know it would make me look desperate, but I just want an answer, so I can finally move on with my life.

Not sure what to do here brahs, please give me some advice.

- 4 year relationship full of drama/fights
- broke up with gf 8 month ago, because couldn't take it anymore
- she tried to accuse me of being the ultimate bad guy & narcissist this whole time
- I couldn't take it anymore so I blocked her
- she sends me a huge apology, basically admitting she was in the wrong this whole time and cause most of our problems - which gave me hope that things might finally change
- I responded neutral, but with a positive tone, suggesting we might have some hope
- no response from her is killing me, because she brought back some feelings with that long apology message
- I really want an answer from her (whatever it might be), but not sure if I should reach out to ask for it (could make me seem desperate)