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Thread: The unthinkable happened... Wife wants divorce AMA

post 1559385251 08-22-2018, 04:02 AM
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hahahah lmao sucked in
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Hey man, women change.
I have just received court petition and she asking me to sign...
problem is that we have 2 young kids.
I think that is what women want. just kids and you can eventually f... off or conform to their habits and rules.

People change. They forget sacrifices you have deposited and become very selfish.

1. you're lucky there's no kids involved
2. you're free
3. did she have any hot friends you 'd like to... just do it

(plus I think if not all - most of them do cheat. I am not sure about mine though- I don't really care-thinking about it messes up your mind- just forget it and move on... start f....)
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
lol thought you were done here bro

who's the moron who reposted a law already posted ITT, and can't differentiate between property and income?

stick to RH circle jerks, not legal advice.
Listen you low IQ fuk...


Talk about not being able to read... I already posted he could very well not end up paying alimony. He still has to split 50% of assets and pay monthly child support.

This idiot thinks he can take the word of his cheating wife that she won't try for any of that. Delusional and naive... the exact personality traits that led to marriage to begin with.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
That's not 100% true. I know many couples who married young that are still going strong, after even a decade or 2.
I like your positivity through all of this, and you're right. Not all who marry young will end in divorce. People like to quote 50%, but that still leaves the other 50% doing just fine.

Sounds like she was checked out of the marriage long before you found her cheating.
Originally Posted By dhawkeye1980⏩
He is just the new flavor, guarantee she will fuk at least 5 guys at her dept if not more. Sorry boyo. Female cops are the biggest sloots
That's fuking hot!
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Reps for cliffs...


Also, most females don't swim, if it was her decision and sudden, you can almost always guarantee she just jumped to another raft.
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Originally Posted By dhawkeye1980⏩
He is just the new flavor, guarantee she will fuk at least 5 guys at her dept if not more. Sorry boyo. Female cops are the biggest sloots
hmmmmm....What's the age limit for being a cop?



Sorry OP bro...live like your name... 'Strong'. Try not to be some beta vindictive bish trying to get her back cuzz it will almost never work. Just be the man for your son. I wish you all the best brutha
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Cliffs through page 10:

OP's wife asked for divorce
OP tried to save the marriage, they have a young son
OP found out wife is cheating
OP went to lawyer who said that due to adultery in North Carolina no alimony will be paid to ex
OP is being positive about it all despite the situation
Divorce proceedings haven't begun

other details: wife is a cop and fuked another cop, OP has been out getting pity sex,
Chaos and apocalypse on us all
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post 1559394411 08-22-2018, 07:38 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
fuk this chit. Fukced up beyond belief there are so many people out there that do **** like this. Obviously there is something good going on if you've been married to the same person for a number of years, obviously some reason you stick around that long and I don't buy that she could be in denial about everything like she says. Likely just got swept up by the tingles from a new guy, which she knows will pass. Fukced up that people out there can throw away a decent relationship for someone who hasn't really done anything for them, with 0 fuks given.
Sounds about right. Thanks.
Originally Posted By mgftp⏩
Don't get married young / thread
It seems to work out for some.
Originally Posted By sabonis224⏩
When's the last time you had sex, and was is it a rare occurrence or do you still do it all the time?
We actually had sex once after she said she wanted the divorce, about two weeks later. Didn't know she had started seeing another guy.
Originally Posted By WafflesBrah⏩
ah yes another divorce thread. 2018 and cucks still get married thinking they found the "one". Lmaoooooo
You sound like a joy to be around.
Originally Posted By tunafishha⏩
How much of an incel do you have to be for your wife to cheat on your with an officecel? Sry though op. Feels like you guys got married way too early. I dont see myself settling until 35.
A) wife and other guy aren't officecels, learn to read
B) I am pretty far removed from being an incel
Originally Posted By Revived⏩
At least you can tell your son in the future that his mom was a whore if need be. I read all the pages of this thread as well.
Only going to do so if she continues to make things difficult.
Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
Of course it’s pretty common in today’s world but sorry to hear.

I would suggest trying to make things as amicable as possible as hard as that can be. I didn’t read the replies itt so I’ll have to go back and find the details if there are some...
There are details, and they are relevant to what you are saying. But thank you for your words nonetheless.
Originally Posted By Mr
Good luck with it all OP. Sounds like you have it under control as much as can be expected. Getting lawyered up with a rich dad to cover the bills if need be is about as good a way as you can go into it, once you have your mental game covered which you seem to.
Thanks. I have my moments emotionally/mentally, but overall I am good.
Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Pretty chitty I know so many miscers on here that married and got cheated on which ended in a divorce.

cyde
bobbydigitaloa
StrongFella
mettalicide

I'm missing the guy that proposed to his wife at an EDM concert. Fuark this gay Earth.
Never thought I'd be on this list. feelsbadman
Originally Posted By p100⏩
Be careful with the pity fuks. Maybe she can claim you also cheated if her friend sleeps with you before the divorce if finished.

Disclaimer: I am not a lawyer

lmao you can't include EDM marriage. It was too obvious from the beginning.
I am good, talked to lawyer.
Originally Posted By MiscInformed⏩
That co-worker better need extensive dental work in the near future.
Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
Why? He's innocent in all of this. On top of cheating, his wife is also a liar.
Yea, as far as I know he is innocent. As much as I would like to wring his neck.
Originally Posted By RealAesthetic⏩
sorry to hear that op, best of luck in court and your road to mental well-being recovery.

hope she chooses co-parenting over using the child as a pawn to get your money.
thanks man, I have my moments but I am ok. she has no choice but 50/50.
Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
Your wife is upgrading. Welcome to 2018. No loyalty.
Lol if I am being completely honest, she isn't. She just got bored and wanted something new I would assume.
Originally Posted By TimeTravelerBro⏩
Loyalty is a man made invention
Idk about that
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Originally Posted By canonhope⏩
Cliffs through page 10:

OP's wife asked for divorce
OP tried to save the marriage, they have a young son
OP found out wife is cheating
OP went to lawyer who said that due to adultery in North Carolina no alimony will be paid to ex
OP is being positive about it all despite the situation
Divorce proceedings haven't begun

other details: wife is a cop and fuked another cop, OP has been out getting pity sex,
I told him not to do anything STUPID while still being married. I now hope this comes back to fuk him in the ass. Idiot!!!!

Unless that pity sex is with his wife then I retract my statement.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Lol if I am being completely honest, she isn't. She just got bored and wanted something new I would assume.
Well i am glad you are taking the news so well. I guess it's a blessing in disguise. Imagine if she did this to you 20 years down the line.
Kindness is all that matters in life
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Originally Posted By float365⏩
the hardest thing to learn about women is the way they treat you after they start dating someone else/cheating. They go from loving you to hating you at the drop of a hat
Yea it was pretty crazy to witness her turn
Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
Lol you make double amount of money she does....

Pepper your ass for that there child support and possible alimony. The fact she cheated does not mean much she is the mother and she will most likely get custody of the child.

Also don't listen to what your lawyer tells you...often times lawyers make bull**** promises to get you to be their client knowing full well what they are saying is total bull****. Think about it if he told you sorry bro most likely shes gonna get custudy, you will have to pay child support, you may have to pay alimony, etc etc you would be like ok thanks and then you would want second opinion.. HOWEVER when he says o yah no problem she cheated you dont have to worry about cs alimony blah blah... then you are like cool i pick you to be my lawyer and he starts getting paid.

Think about this my brother in law got hurt on the job , he went to 3 different lawyers all of them told him he will get $200k-$300k if he sues. He asked me for advice and i was like no way based on injury you are telling me you will get $50-75k.....i knew this because his injury was alot less then my uncle who got $150k. He took advice of the lawyers ...stopped working... the lawsuit dragged on for two yewars...he changed 2 lawyers and he only got $63k which was not worth considering he used to make $60k a year. You think the lawyers cared NOPE....they got $25k out of the whole ordeal and they were happy....now if those ****ING LAWYERS told him the truth that he was only going to get $50-$75k they would have gotten $0 because he would not have sued. So dont believe everything your lawyer is promising you he will be happy to promise you the world and yes he will fight for it and drag out the divorce for as long as possible so that he can continue charging you $200-$300/hour.

TBH your best bet would be to sit down with her and try and workout something with her...if your two lawyers get into a battle all your savings will be drained and at the end chances are YOU WILL BE the one that gets ****ed because SHE IS A WOMEN AND COURTS FAVOR WOMEN NO MATTER WHAT.
Learn to read, I am going to be just fine. Fun all these misc lawyers, I spoke to a real one lol
Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
western women take too much for granted these days. they don't appreciate what they have. most expect so much - and offer so little in return. most are not even qualified to be wives. just to be pumped and dumped, kept casual before you find one worth marrying.

so what do you expect is bound to happen to most marriages. it'll only get worse in the future unless they change the law to something like if you get a divorce you are never allowed to get remarried. that would stop a lot of attention whores getting married in the first place just to post sh!t on IG and ******** for likes and validation
idk man, I guess I just hold out hope there are some good ones out there?
Originally Posted By IronILLinois⏩
sorry to hear OP. PM me if you ever need to vent.
I appreciate it
Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
Happens to all of us,

Good news is you're already in North Carolina

Hand everything over to your lawyer and go NC

God speed and God bless
thanks mayne
Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
So she thinks.

Coworker is going to have his fun and move on.

That chit happens to sloots 99.99999% of the time. Then she'll come crawling back to OP. Hopefully he stands his ground.
I agree. I assume this will happen. He still hasn't tried to make it 'official' with her
Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
1) why are you so surprised. divorces are common as fuk

2) sloots gonna sloot

3) you got cucked for a more alpha seed, must feel bad man

4) lmfao at getting married so young

that's about it. lesson learned don't marry young and don't marry a sloot. reap what you sow
1 - when a marriage is going well, you don't think it will happen
2 - i suppose
3 - I don't think you know the definition of cucked
4 - I don't really think there is an ideal age
Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
Yeah. No sympathy for a two timing whore. The OP better not take her back.
no plans to
Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
That’s really honest of her
I wish I could have watched that conversation happen
she was not honest at first. I had to press. It would have been interesting, that's for sure. She went nuts.
Originally Posted By tank2003⏩
How bad do you think the process will be? Do you think it will be amicable? If you file first, then that should give you a bit more leverage in the process
I will be fine. I have a lot of evidence against her.
Originally Posted By habibtizz⏩
No offence opie, but you come off as a huge tool. Makes thread on misc about divorce, gives 3 word answers to replies unless they're sucking his dink, tells people "learn to read, *******," and is surprised he is getting laughed at ON THE MISC for getting divorced/being married in the first place?

GL with your single goals of 2018. Hope all works out for your son, at the very least.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, no matter how shytty it is.
Originally Posted By Blueblob⏩
Sorry to hear that mane. Best of luck with everything, and thank you for your service
thanks mayne
Originally Posted By RaibeartBruis⏩
Brutal. 60% of OP's income is going to be going to her alimony. He'll be at at the store shopping for rice and beans because that's all he can afford, and he'll see his ex-wife's new boyfriend buying wine, caviar, and Magnum XL condoms - with his money.

Marriage in 2018 is pure cuckery.
learn to read. Spoke to a lawyer. And read up on NC state law. I won't be giving her money. Try again to rustle.
Originally Posted By Phobaphobia⏩
It's gonna suck for a while but you are the lucky percentage of divorcees who have some time on their side. You're still young at 27-28.
that's what I keep telling myself
Originally Posted By deathmetal1992⏩
Why are u married at 27?
My desire in life is to have a family and a long term companion. That's what matters to me.
Originally Posted By RealAesthetic⏩
he's a broken man right now you idiot, of course he's going to be upset when half these autists are saying "oh no wonder"
he obviously wanted some support, who wouldn't ?
half the people bashing op for getting divorced are next in line (if they actually find someone to love them)
I am sure these people have their own issues.
Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
I wonder...is the 180 so drastic because of the person? or just because you were used to one extreme of the emotion spectrum, and now receiving the other is such a disparity that it's more shocking?

Or is it actually an increased capacity for greater extremes?

this christ

re-categorizing this thread to non-FA vs FA miscers
I am not worried about those types of miscers
Originally Posted By reddanak⏩
Sorry to hear about the chit situation, OP.

In this situation, is it worth beating her to the punch and filing for divorce based on the infidelity you uncovered? Can't imagine it would hold up as well if you pull the infidelity card to try and save your ass should she try to swindle you in court.
I am going to be ok as far as this process goes
Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
I get the same feeling, as i am reading his responses he seems to be one of those cocky *******s that feels like he knows the best and ignores all the advice anyone gives him. Its ok though he is in war mode and he feels cocky af based on what lawyers and yes man friends around him have told him but when those lawyer fees start adding up and he starts learning more about the way things work he will learn.

I feel for the guy its terrible what happened to him and i want him to win but come the **** on thinks his rich dad and his lawyer will bail him out (LOL). You have billionaires ....read that billionaires getting cucked by family courts and giving women huge sums of money yet he thinks he knows everything. You have athletes with millions in the bank paying 20-30k a month in child support fees you dont think they could afford good lawyers?
How about you guys use one another's anal cavities as cask holsters then?
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Originally Posted By canonhope⏩
Cliffs through page 10:

OP's wife asked for divorce
OP tried to save the marriage, they have a young son
OP found out wife is cheating
OP went to lawyer who said that due to adultery in North Carolina no alimony will be paid to ex
OP is being positive about it all despite the situation
Divorce proceedings haven't begun

other details: wife is a cop and fuked another cop, OP has been out getting pity sex,
Sounds right, "other details".... of course
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
Well i am glad you are taking the news so well. I guess it's a blessing in disguise. Imagine if she did this to you 20 years down the line.
He won't have to imagine because he won't stop getting married LoL

He's gonna provide for at least 5 to 7 random worthless MF's before it's all over.
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Originally Posted By RealAesthetic⏩
oh yeah brah, i'm sure op is feeling confident and cocky as fuk right now -- with the love of his life cheating on him and wanting a divorce and all
you're right on the money with that one I bet
This, I am only trying to be because I believe it is the best way to handle the situation instead of wallowing in self-pity
Originally Posted By irollurmom⏩
This seems like a trend for young military guys. **** sucks
can't say you are wrong
Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
You dont understand thi???

Its like when someone ****s you over and you get up with confidence and you want to whoop their ass feeling like you will destroy them... Someone steps on your shoes or cuts you off in traffic you feel that manly energy surging through your body saying i am going to ****ing destory you not knowing if that person in that car is 6'5 heavy weight boxer champion or not?

you never had that feeling ?
you seem like you may need to calm down
Originally Posted By RealAesthetic⏩
that's not something you experience when your heart is broken

do you even empathy ?


he's not feeling confident and cocky, he's trying to reach out for support while also trying to remain optimistic in an unfavourable situation
this x 1000
Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
So would you do it all again or are you on the no marriage bus?
It is what I desire in life, to have a family, so probably
Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
When I got out of a very LTR recently I'm glad I didn't make a thread, judging by some of these responses

I just had doughnutking and some age:48-multis chatting to me about it in a random thread, they were all very compassionate and respectful. That is why I have all the time in the world for the age 48 multis compared to some of these long term miscers lol
I am not worried about the negative people. I know they are hurting from something going on in their lives.
Originally Posted By TimeTravelerBro⏩
Sloots can cheat on anyone doesn't matter if you're tall or handsome eventually they will cheat.

Oh and negged
lol k
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Haven't read thread yet but I'm sorry op.I've been there and it sucks.
appreciate it
Originally Posted By AlwaysFocus⏩
Fuark why are people such *******s and cheat. Should be a chargable offense srs
it technically is. adultery is a chargeable offense, it is just never seen through these days
Originally Posted By HayZues
I got negged by a few morons In here for trying tip aware OP how delusional he is for thinking he coming out of this unscathed.


Of course the lawyer fed him exactly what he wanted to hear... to get himself on retainer... naive fool.
I'm delusional? You just seem to hate being wrong. Get over yourself.
Originally Posted By BuckNakedinBama⏩
Strong username to situation ratio.

Hang in there. Don't get irrational or (obviously don't get violent) or lose your temper or raise your voice when arguing.Assume EVERY interaction you have with her is being taped to be shown to a court.
just like I have taped every interaction with her? huehuehue
Originally Posted By skeetzer⏩
idk having a child seems pretty awesome even if you end up divorced.

not bad op, at least you found someone who would agree to marriage in the first place
I'm gonna make it
Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
Sorry to hear this OP. Almost everyone where I work over 30 years old is divorced , and they survived it .
I work daily with one coworker that divorced twice by the time he was in his mid forties .
He said he wishes he never married the second phyco sloot , but like I told him, look at the great kid you got out of the deal .
It’s unfortunate getting divorced ,but you’ll recover and prosper . And at some point she’ll look back and realize what she’s lost when it’s to late
thanks for your words man
Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
lol thought you were done here bro

who's the moron who reposted a law already posted ITT, and can't differentiate between property and income?

stick to RH circle jerks, not legal advice.
at this point, these miscers just make me laugh
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I think it's mostly the person. If they're someone that can attach quickly, tend to be impulsive and emotionally volatile, I think they can also detach just as quickly. And women just tend to fit that criteria more (emotional instability) to varying degrees.

It's also kinda shocking in the sense that it seems like they love you more than you love them, and are so incredibly invested in you, and then they can just move on and attach to a new guy very quickly. I don't think it means it wasn't 'real'; it was real, it's just more fleeting than for an emotionally stable person whose feelings are gradual and increase over time with trust, respect etc.
that's exactly what happened to my wife, she was super obsessed with me from the start. she has done the same with this new guy
Originally Posted By PKneyr⏩
This is good news, better now than later. Back to banging young sloots now OP.
way ahead of you
Originally Posted By PisseninMisc⏩
All I can say is sorry bro. You're doing a pretty good job of acting cool, but let's be honest you must be hurting like a motherfuker inside. Hitting up some pitty pussy is not going to make the fact that she completely betrayed your trust any easier. But time will heal it. Hang in there mane.

Made me sad to read you have a kid. Even if she's a really good mom it'll still suck for your child. Focus on what's best for her and don't let the court stuff ruin your relationship with her beyond repair. She is a cheating kunt, but it would be best for your kid if you stayed on friendly terms.

Sloots gon sloot.
thanks brother. slots indeed slot
Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
RIP OP, stay strong bruh

Would chat with and be compassionate and respectful/10
hmm whenever bro
Originally Posted By UACdarknova⏩
So was she smashing your coworker before you had the fight or after?

Sorry if already answered but I'm not reading every response.
I am not sure if it was happening before the fight or not
Originally Posted By Cadet4life⏩
mirin your level head and confidence. stay strong OP.

i hope everything ends well in your favor and your son's.

sloots goin to sloot
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Tell me about it...



Already have girls sympathy messaging me, saying if there is anything they can do to help, to PLEASE let them know



No, I did not. Even still, I was able to collect evidence since she stated she wanted the divorce, so I will be ok.



Not when she fukked another guy



Huh?



Prick. If you are in a seemingly great marriage you don't assume it will happen to you.
Listen dude, evidence big infidelity means nothing in a court of law..that's your problem..you think that matters..no it is a shame but means absolutely nothing..dudes like you get married without even being adults
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Your head looks rather small, did you get skull mogged by the other cop?
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Originally Posted By doiliftbro⏩
**** that bitch. anytime you feel any kind of doubt or think you want to get back with her just imagine some other dudes dick filling her pssy. then rage **** her best friend, her sister, her mother, her cousins, her brother and her father. assert your ultimate dominance over her. when she gets remarried, **** her new husband
this might be taking things a step or two too far
Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
He is not at that stage yet imo because its not like the marriage was not working and they are getting divorce

SHE ****ED HIM OVER she went and ****ed another guy while they were together and then randomly asked for divorce when OP thought everything was going great. He is at a stage now where he feels like i am going to SHOW her she aint getting **** that bitch.... he definitely doesnt sound like the guy whose heart is broken and hes not moaping around he is clearly propped up and ready to fight he has shown by getting a lawyers immediately, getting evidence, and planning on using his dads money to make sure he dont get her money. Thats not the attitude of someone who is at the stage of being heartbroken that is attitude of someone that is ready to fight because he is PISSED.

Imo heartbreak will set in later on he just found out about this.

But we can agree to disagree
Do you know me? Are you inside my head? I am pretty heartbroken. I am simply trying to cope.
Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Sorry brother but the infidelity has no effect on the outcome of your divorce in NC.

Unless you successfully sue the guy for alienation of affection.
you are mistaken
Originally Posted By MBisonSon⏩
Wait you're telling me that doesn't matter in court?

That's CRAZY.
you are mistaken
Originally Posted By FoulSmell⏩
Pics of ex-wife??
not going to risk screwing up legal proceedings
Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
Pretty simple.
you are mistaken
Originally Posted By AestheticNoz⏩
Remember her lawyers are going to try and get as much out of this as they possibly can. This is the woman who also agreed to spend her life with you and then slooted it up so I'd be taking everything she says with a grain of salt.

Hope everything goes well for you mang I am rooting for a fair deal.
she can't afford a lawyer. I already spoke to one. I have evidence. I am good
Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Pics
not going to risk it
Originally Posted By Ochosiete⏩
got through 2 pages and wanted to chime in already, first thing i noticed its your age, im 31 this year and have no intentions of touching marriage at all, fuk that... i have way too much invested in my home and investment accounts to go all in on "marriage".... and yes i do have a gf, been with her for a very long time but i dont want to make this post about me...

i saw you posted she cheated and that will help you in court?.. how?.... i know plenty of co-workers who's wife have cheated and they got taken to the cleaners in court in regards to child support and alimony.... and im in law enforcement.... what exactly do you have that will favor you in court??
proof of infidelity. it matters in NC
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Originally Posted By PowersKenny⏩
Listen dude, evidence big infidelity means nothing in a court of law..that's your problem..you think that matters..no it is a shame but means absolutely nothing..dudes like you get married without even being adults
Where did you get your law degree from? also, do you live in nc?
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
Your head looks rather small, did you get skull mogged by the other cop?
actually I have a really big head lol
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Where did you get your law degree from? also, do you live in nc?
You think a judge is going to rule against a female cop?
Where did you get your law degree?
Do you live on earth?
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Don't know why everyone was hating on HZC for the info he was dropping. Some of you guys seriously rage at the dumbest things.

I wish OP all the best, but he won't be leaving unscathed at all. Division of Property will still happen - regardless of what your lawyer said. The only major change you see in regards to this is due to salary in one's position.

This is why I fully support Joint Accounts.

Good luck OP.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Where did you get your law degree from? also, do you live in nc?
. Law degree from real life experience...real degree in finance...I live wherever I want only telling you the truth .. accept it or don't..I'm not your enemy the ex wife of yours and the system are...my advice keep quiet, carry a big stick
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Originally Posted By PowersKenny⏩
. Law degree from real life experience...real degree in finance...I live wherever I want only telling you the truth .. accept it or don't..I'm not your enemy the ex wife of yours and the system are...my advice keep quiet, carry a big stick
. Yes NC I'm not scared...but also go lots of other places
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So sorry to hear about your recent life changing event. Best of luck to you!
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Are you in NC? I want to be on your side bc I know the struggle..don't come at me..I spot Truth
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