Perhaps, but I'd bet $250 you're not even in the top 40%. Can just tell by the opee you probably haven't even had your cheek kissed in over a year. excluding your mom.

LMAO!

I think online dating is what you make of it. For me pulling up an app on my phone while I take a dump is way easier than trying to go out and sift through a billion people to find a decent single female. When online just follow the rules; only face pics-she is probably overweight,most of the time you can tell by the face. And in group pictures she is the ugly one. When I match with attractive girls and they message me I think its a red flag almost, and that is generally because she has kid(S), or its a bot but they are pretty easy to spot

Ok that's a plus. The key to being alpha is telling women how easy everything is for you.
How did that midterm go?
-girls- oh my gawd it was so hard, im gonna fail this class. How did you do?

-alpha male- easiest midterm ever. I wish it was harder. ( although it was actually very hard)

Few points here:

1). It's true that most 18 year old girls will not be interested in dating the majority of 30 something year old men. Any guy who thinks that men automatically get better with age is coping hard. However, the relevant point here is that certain men in their 30s will always have an easier time dating younger in comparison to their female counterparts who, even if attractive for their age, will struggle to keep the attention of a younger guy for anything more than sex. Whether biological or cultural, this is just a fact.

2). I obviously don't know you, but do you not see a lack of congruence between your claim that you are a decent Christian girl who goes to Church, and the ease with which you throw around misc lingo such as 'stupid kunt,' '*******' 'sloots,' etc? I'm an atheist so I couldn't care less, I'm just stating that perhaps this tendency of yours contributes to people's perception that you're trolling.

ITT attaching numbers to people from a 1-10 scale in relation to appearance, that is derived from no definite and subjective criteria, to assess dating compatibility between 2 people

You're over thinking it.

I don't know why everyone here is so worried about dating.

I have an idea everyone.

Just get off of all of the dating sites for exactly 2 months. You will feel relieved afterwards.

You don't need a female.

Why the fuk is this thread 16 pages in a day? (Inb4 hurr durr 50 posts per page master race)

Cliffs?

Cliffs:

Silencespeaks needs dicking.

Regardless of what women say they want, the vast majority will either accept or actively pursue casual sex in an online setting.

The main arguments are:
For men - it's more difficult to get noticed/replies with online dating. Definately true when comparing to gender. However, you have numbers on your side and don't have to deal with rejection face to face. Blackopscell experiment is a good example of how if you live in a big city you can succeed no matter what you look like.

For women - it's more difficult to find somebody who wants a relationship. This one might be true in other areas, but I found that there were many more guys on dating apps looking for relationships/dating than they are just sex. Because the pool is larger some people get unlucky. I also think apps like tinder have an algorithm to show you the most attractive/swiped people in your area as soon as you join, so perhaps it's because women match with these guys first and thus get soured by the experience. It's probably easier to find a relationship online than it is irl since you can ask them before you even meet.

^^^^ Dude dropped a dime, that wasn't picked up.

I was watching a video of a transgender women the other day, and she was saying that once she started HRT her sexual attraction went from being primarily visual, to primarily being interpersonal. She felt the most sexually attraction via communication/body language/context, etc.

It's well known in the sex industry that women primarily consume literature, and men primarily consume images. Erotic literature establishes context and the character of the man, because just describing the sex generally isn't appealing to women.

I remember a PUA brah stating that a man saying the wrong thing, is like a woman going from a Victoria Secret model to an obese middle aged woman before your very eyes. I've experienced that (saying the wrong thing to a woman, and witnessing her body language towards me completely change).

Couldnt find dudes post so im inserting his subject material into your quote.

The reason to that is deeper imo. You know what would happen if women admitted dating was easier? Lots. They dont want to relinquish or obfuscate their power

Men would stop working as hard
They may need to level the playing field - which would cut down their options - their options also force men into working harder
Price on their poosy would go down - itd no longer have the allure of this big amazing prize only for you big boy

Imo a subset of all that i just mentioned is the attention and ego assuaging she gets when she complains its hard - "oh none of your options are doing it for you? Here i am, im superman. Look at all the things i can do for you and how good i am". The aforementioned stuff are bigger factors

I personally believe the imbalance causes a huge load (pun intended) of issues in regard to society.. But it wont change

Most guys are vicious wk's doing anything for poosy, and then letting all else slide (which, again, goes into the frame were talking about - that poosy being super special - and that you're rewarded with for being such a king)

I still find it just ridiculous. that literally, EVERY women will never admit it and always curb the subject. liike you said, they aren't delusional, they know what is going on. its more about power and solipsm more than anything.

its like logic completely escapes them when it comes to dating.

most intelligent aware women, will even never admit it is easier. here is how the convo usually goes:

man:"women have it WAY easier in dating"
women: "no, men and women have different problems in dating"
man: "ok, but you did not even answer my question. which sex has it easier?"
women:"its not as simple as that. for a women, its easy to get sex, but its hard to find a relationship. its becuase there aer so many creeps and men just after sex out there"
man:"what are you talking about? I know plenty of men, including myself who would love to be in a relationship with a women. the problem is we barely get any matches, and when we ask women out, we hear crickets. and its not like we are neckbeard basement dwellers?
women:"Well, I NEED to be attracted to the guy, you know, thats a crucial part to the relationship, and all women have different types, so just because one women doesn tlike you, doesnt mean another will"
man:"ok, but I told you I barely get any responses, along with a lot of decent men I knowso there seems to be a general trend of traits that women seen to universally go there"
women: "yeah, I mean, it helps to be taller and sometimes women have racial preferences, etc etc"
man:"so yo u just admit that you need to be attracted to a man in order to consider him, and that what attracts you to a man are things like height, face, race, etc"
women:"yes, but like I said, those are MY preferences, every women has different ones"
man:"but if thats true why do certain men with certain physical traits have FAR more sucess than other men with other physical traits. take the example of online dating expirients. and if women have different preferences, where are all the women that like the type I represent as their preference. And why does CHAD over there always have tons of women knocking on his door that are into the type the he presents. obviously that type is more prefereable, to the point where dating is like breathing for him and nearly impossible for other men"
women:"hey, my friend is dating a short guy. see? see? women have different preferences"
man: "wait, you didnt even get back to my original point. which sex has it easier? obviously it seems like its your own pickiness that is making it harder for you, when in fact you could easily get sex or a relationship, with a guy taht is reasonable at your level. so technically it is easier for women.
women:: "no, I need to be attracted to the person"
man: *explodes*

It’s hard for both sexes in 2018. Online or off.

I was sitting next to an average at best looking girl on the train. She was playing with tinder. Almost every swipe was a match. She got more matches in 2 stops than most men will get all time.

On the other hand, all my female friends got off them because 99% of the messages were rude, crude and dik pics. Chit they wouldn’t say if the girl was next to them IRL.

Then women get so many options that they aren’t rushed to make a choice. Having to wade through 1000 messages is not easy. LOL

In past eras, women had at best 5 men to chose from.

Now they have the world (literally, how many men would travel to see a girl?).

Men certainly have it harder though because less can get their foot in the door to begin with.

Pro tip: once you do, dont message like a 12 yo horndog. They get plenty of vulgar messages as it is. And get off the app ASAP. Don’t talk for days because she will move on quickly. Get a number, get a date by the 5th message or so.

And, holy chit, I feel sorry for the 20 something daters that grew up only in the digital age. Brutal. Everyone is an attention whoring Instagram model.

At least at my age you can actually communicate with women.

O.m.g. that is Hella cute!

lol, have fun spending hundreds of dollars on trips and steaks for some young bish who's not even really attracted to you to maybe have sex with you. As a good looking 23 year old all I have to do to smash prime 18-23 year olds is invite them to my place to drink cheap liquor and watch netflix or hulu, (both shared accounts I don't pay for)

This thread, man.

This is completely false. Most women choose to be alone rather than engage in casual sex.

Man I only got 30 messages in my inbox yesterday and they day before that I got 50, this online dating thing is on the downturn.

OMG ITS SO HARD HAVING TO WADE THROUGH ALL THESE OPTIONS I JUST CANNOT DECIDE DATING IS JUST SO HARD (women)

vs.

I DON'T EVEN HAVE ANY OPTIONS TO WADE THROUGH (men)


i Cannot believe that people like you actually exist that have these kind of thoughts. where do you come from? who conditioned you to believe this? the mental gymnastics to avoid something so blatently obvious, I don't even....

“Men certainly have it harder though because less can get their foot in the door to begin with.”

Guess you missed that part of my post.
I already said men have it harder.

I said women have to wade through messages and that is why they are able to flake more. It’s a good problem to have obviously.

This pretty much confirms that online dating from females is easier there is no question about it.


However i would not say it is easy because girls are just wired diferently then us guy. For a guy to want to date a girl she only has to be attractive but for girl to date a guy they have to have a connection and alot more counts.


For a guy it doesnt matter where girl works at, how many friends she has, if she is a introvert...none of that matters as long as they are attracted to her. For a girl all that matters to determine if she will have feelings for a guy and you cant really tell all that by just looking at someones tinder profile.


What i am trying to say is that dating in 2018 sucks for both genders and its only gonna get worse imo...

Says the guy that doesn't have any hobbies and thinks it's "weird" to talk to people.

It is, because it's exhausting to find something more valuable than garbage online

so, girls are pickier whom they choose to enter a relationship with, so therefore they have it harder than men.


funny thing, last night I got invited to a free all you can eat buffet. there were so many options from chicken alfredo, filet mignon, fois gras, king crab legs, etc. but I Really wasnt "feeling" any of them, so I went home and starved instead. When I Got home, I complained to the family on food stamps next door that finding a decent meal is just impossible around, and when he got pissed at me for being picky I said "I DONT HAVE IT EASIER THAN YOU, WE JUST HAVE DIFFERENT PROBLEMS, I HAVE TO ENJOY MY FOOD OK????"

very very low iq cope as per usual, no just because women get alot of matches does not make online dating easier considering the vast majority of the matches they get are absolutely repulsive to them

it's like if a male tries tinder and gets thousands of matches except 95% of them were fatties, how is that having an easy time in dating?

keep being low iq victims tho

Bro they will NEVER admit it. Think about it - that would mean their relationship problems largely cannot be blamed on external factors but their own poor choices and behaviors.

Gonna take a wild guess the over-the-hill Misc females are arguing and saying why we're wrong and the WKs coming to their defence.