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post 1444913203 05-30-2016, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By YogaBurn⏩
Try out some Leykis 101 on youtube. The short answer is no. Most likely she already had the past guy in mind before your relationship was even over. It sounds like her and the father are not together anymore and she is looking to introduce the kids to you so she can emotionally trap/guilt you into taking care of them for her. I would say just ignore her. She has a hidden agenda.
This x1000

Nothing difficult here OP. Be civil if you so choose but DO NOT meet with her.

Make up some excuse about work or something if it makes you feel better.

Leave it alone.
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post 1444913793 05-30-2016, 07:18 AM
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Is Shredu your ex wife op.
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post 1444914753 05-30-2016, 07:28 AM
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Misc answer:
Don't do it. Shes trying to get you to take care of her kids and play baby daddy for them. New guy she cheated on you with before you divorced has now kicked her to the curb and she realizes she needs a provider. might as well try to sucker you back in. dont be a cuck ******* op.


Real answer:
Up to you bro. Personally, I'm a "the past is the past, keep it that way" kind of guy but if you can see any form of positivity coming out of meeting her go ahead. Just understand she may have some form of an agenda. Hell maybe she just wants you to pound the daylights out of her again......but realistically it is because she feels alone and wants to find a guy to take care of her and NOT your kids.

I'd just make an excuse about how you are seeing someone so its a bad idea or you are too busy or just ignore her. But the other half of me would want to meet up with her and indirectly be a cheeky douchebag to her on purpose lol
post 1444914973 05-30-2016, 07:30 AM
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Do not message her back or meet up OP.
post 1444915563 05-30-2016, 07:36 AM
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"As far as I remember, you decided to close this door [number] years ago.

I loved you and I still like you enough to give this some thought, but there are no second chances."



In other words, don't be a cuck op. Unless you sleep on money, dgaf about anything, and don't mind raising someone else's children, don't go down that road. Have some respect for yourself. This isn't even worth thinking twice about.
post 1444915803 05-30-2016, 07:39 AM
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I recently did the same thing with an ex of 7 years.

Met up, caught up (which was nice) and took to pound town for a week. It was great and didn't spark any feelings in me. Just be careful boyo.

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post 1444916183 05-30-2016, 07:42 AM
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I wouldn't meet up with her. Don't know what her motives are, but I'd bet she needs something.

It sounds like you may still be having a tough time moving on. Do what you want, but she's still the same broad that divorced you 3 years ago. Don't **** up.
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post 1444916833 05-30-2016, 07:48 AM
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post 1444917863 05-30-2016, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Shut the fuk up, so what if he has ****ty relationship issues, dont need to go and insult OP.


Keep bitching and you will get negged. I already talked to the mod ITT and he has agreed to neg you if you step out of the line again bitch.



OP: Meet with her, get to know her kids. Provide for them if you like them, no shame on that.
post 1444918073 05-30-2016, 07:59 AM
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Shutting this down.

The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

The reality here is: OP found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick...

The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

OP has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


OP. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a winner.
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post 1444918693 05-30-2016, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted By ThePumpmaster⏩
She wants you to be her beta provider.

"Meet my kids"... just LOL.
Thought of this as well. She knows you were a good husband, now that she has kids and that dude is out of the picture she wants you to provide for her.
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post 1444919963 05-30-2016, 08:16 AM
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Ya bro, i just wouldnt wanna see you get played and used as the 'provider' to her kids cuz their father is a deadbeat loser she got with after you and then couldnt hack it. Definitely leave the kids of out the picture for the first while if you do decide to meet and hang out to avoid any sort of connection with them making it more difficult either way, whether youd like them or not. tough situation, best of luck regardless your choice.
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post 1445049223 05-30-2016, 10:00 PM
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Originally Posted By WillNotBreak⏩
Better let shred know about this temptation.
He left his ex for shred.
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post 1445057133 05-30-2016, 11:01 PM
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post 1445057593 05-30-2016, 11:04 PM
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Have some ****ing dignity OP.
post 1445057733 05-30-2016, 11:05 PM
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Didn't read anything but the first few posts.

You could probably meet up with her and hook up or even date for a bit again, but if you actually care about her (you might) I wouldn't, you'd be wasting her time she should be spending looking for someone who's serious.

I hate seeing single mothers so would hate for OP to take a few months of her time if he wasn't serious when she's looking for a dad/partner.

One of the few serious responses I bet you'll get. If you want to hook up just make sure you're clear to her about it.. or if she's really not a good person then do whatever you want lol.

Not a fan of divorces or people who are ok with divorces myself.
post 1445058683 05-30-2016, 11:13 PM
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