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Thread: Redditor posts his transformation after 4 years of marriage and 2 kids

post 1523683261 10-24-2017, 09:15 AM
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I've ended up making all of my significant life changes to become more healthy after getting married and having a kid, lol. So it isn't like having a family is a death sentence to weight loss or gains.


For the people saying fatties shouldn't lose weight too fast... How fast is too fast? Like.. 40lbs in 9 months? Because that's what I'm on pace for November... Want to make sure I'm not going to fck myself up.
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Originally Posted By PeaceWithin⏩
For the people saying fatties shouldn't lose weight too fast... How fast is too fast? Like.. 40lbs in 9 months? Because that's what I'm on pace for November... Want to make sure I'm not going to fck myself up.
You're not going to. Follow practical, simple advice. 40lbs in 9 months is perfectly fine. That's slow if anything
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Originally Posted By Griggz⏩
Strong cope on all of the married dudes who have gotten fat and blaming the 9-5 with kids in here.

You're just as pathetic as the people blaming muh thyroid.


Bunch of lazy mother ****ers who can't change their eating habits if you don't have time for the gym.
Can confirm. Was an out of shape, fat dad after kids. While the kids are a stressor, the main culprit was food.
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post 1523684541 10-24-2017, 09:28 AM
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Wow. But he might be happier? Has the misc accounted for that?

I pray he doesn't get divorced.
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post 1523685461 10-24-2017, 09:38 AM
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Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
Genetics is one of the biggest cope people have come up with to explain their lack of discipline and willpower. If we're not talking about D1 or pro sports genetics are not why youre not reaching your goals. Ive met the women that barely put on weight. Do you know why they didnt get fat as fuk? The same reason theyve never been fat. THEY WERE VAIN AS FUK. This is especially true of a lot of super hot crazy women. If everytime someone got to know you they realized you were bipolar schizo daddy fukd me false rape allegations trash you would try to be hot as fuk to make people overlook those short comings too.
I think my argument and other's arguments are now on different tangents.

My argument was that genetics plays a role in body composition. This was in the fact how men and women carry their weight. I used family as an example, as well as women who are carrying children. How people store fat will vary.

I think the argument going on this and the last page was in regards to eating lots of calories gets you fat. I'm not disagreeing with that, 8,000 calories is 8,000 calories. You will get fat from that.

As per the D1 athlete example, I also don't disagree with you there since those athletes have to push their bodies to an extraordinary level. They will always burn what they consume (also not arguing this).

My last line reading my reply was worded incorrectly; that's all.

However...I don't know where you're going with your last sentence.
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post 1523685811 10-24-2017, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Griggz⏩
Strong cope on all of the married dudes who have gotten fat and blaming the 9-5 with kids in here.

You're just as pathetic as the people blaming muh thyroid.


Bunch of lazy mother ****ers who can't change their eating habits if you don't have time for the gym.
Its not laziness its stress.. And some are more prone to stress eating then others.

Get off your high horses, its called real life, put down the weights for a brief moment and put yourself in someone elses shoes.. I'm a yoyo stress dieter to the extreme.. Father passed away 3 years ago, hard gained 50 lbs.. Lost it all a few months later.. Had a daughter, gained 30 .. Lost it all..

And as shocking as it is to some of your thick headed turds none of it was due to my laziness, as i was still in the gym couple times a week..
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post 1523686271 10-24-2017, 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Griggz⏩
Strong cope on all of the married dudes who have gotten fat and blaming the 9-5 with kids in here.

You're just as pathetic as the people blaming muh thyroid.


Bunch of lazy mother ****ers who can't change their eating habits if you don't have time for the gym.
You can't always put staying in shape as your top priority. That's real life for you. You can eat less without going to the gym, but that's not going to make you look good; you'll just be skinny fat. Also, 9-5 really isn't a "demanding job." When people talk about demanding jobs, they're talking about 10-12 hours a day and weekend work.
Take it easy Christian
post 1523686521 10-24-2017, 09:50 AM
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Sorry Boyos but this isn't an aging/metabolism problem but a poor diet and laziness problem.

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post 1523686581 10-24-2017, 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
You can't always put staying in shape as your top priority. That's real life for you. You can eat less without going to the gym, but that's not going to make you look good; you'll just be skinny fat. Also, 9-5 really isn't a "demanding job." When people talk about demanding jobs, they're talking about 10-12 hours a day and weekend work.
Can someone point out where I said, "staying in shape is your top priority."? I said if you don't pick up poor eating habits then you don't gain weight.
post 1523686651 10-24-2017, 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted By FryDude⏩
Wow. But he might be happier? Has the misc accounted for that?

I pray he doesn't get divorced.
Why would getting fat make you happier?
post 1523686721 10-24-2017, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
The guy admits to drinking a lot of beer. Is beer a requirement for sustenance when you're a father or something?
This,

consuming beer and excessive amounts of junk food aren't necessary, that's just cope for being a fat piece of chit.
post 1523687121 10-24-2017, 09:57 AM
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post 1523687281 10-24-2017, 09:58 AM
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lmao at you *******s...dude was a skinnyfat twink in the first place...
post 1523687311 10-24-2017, 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Griggz⏩
Can someone point out where I said, "staying in shape is your top priority."? I said if you don't pick up poor eating habits then you don't gain weight.
Ok. You're right that poor eating habits are the cause for weight gain. On the other hand, it's usually not that hard to reverse 40 pounds or so of weight gain, so it's not the end of the world.
Take it easy Christian
post 1523687371 10-24-2017, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Twerk4it⏩
Why would getting fat make you happier?
Wealth. A loving wife. Kids. Eating great food all day.
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Originally Posted By FryDude⏩
Wealth. A loving wife. Kids. Eating great food all day.
But you could have all that and not deteriorate in health/looks.

Getting fat cause you have a wife and kids now does not sound like a happy situation.
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Originally Posted By Twerk4it⏩
Why would getting fat make you happier?
Fat cells are hormonally active and release peptide hormones that act on the brain to modulate behavior. The most famous one is leptin, which is a satiety signal, but new research is documenting the existence of one called copin. High levels of copin have been shown to suppress activity in the prefrontal cortex, inhibiting logical thinking, such as "oh schit, maybe being a fat slob is bad for my health" in an effort to preserve emotional health.

Also, I was about to say he's a poor role model for his children, but then I remembered he's a Redditor, so the kids are screwed regardless.
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STRONG hate towards white men dating asian women.
dafuq is going on in here. I have dated a few asian sloots and I am a white man. I dont see an issue with it at all.
I dont understand why people just immediately assume dude is beta/thats all he can get/shes a sloot/shes self loathing
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There is NO reason for a man to gain weight because HIS WIFE has kids.

None at all.

At least women have an excuse, even though my wife is back to her pre-pregnancy weight 2 years after the birth. Women get a couple years or two to recover, men should be back in shape around the 4-6 month mark (understandable to gain a little in the first three months due to lack of sleep).
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most people don't actually care that much about weight gain lol

shocking I know
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Originally Posted By ZenBowman⏩
There is NO reason for a man to gain weight because HIS WIFE has kids.

None at all.

At least women have an excuse, even though my wife is back to her pre-pregnancy weight 2 years after the birth. Women get a couple years or two to recover, men should be back in shape around the 4-6 month mark (understandable to gain a little in the first three months due to lack of sleep).
Adding onto your point, women also have no excuse to KEEP the weight from pregnancy other than laziness or lack of motivation.


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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
most people don't actually care that much about weight gain lol

shocking I know
Most people do care at first, then they just let themselves go after they give up trying.
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Mirin the fatman cope beard. Probably thinks he's a viking now. And why the fook is that kid Asian.
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Originally Posted By Zuggie⏩
Its not laziness its stress.. And some are more prone to stress eating then others.

Get off your high horses, its called real life, put down the weights for a brief moment and put yourself in someone elses shoes.. I'm a yoyo stress dieter to the extreme.. Father passed away 3 years ago, hard gained 50 lbs.. Lost it all a few months later.. Had a daughter, gained 30 .. Lost it all..

And as shocking as it is to some of your thick headed turds none of it was due to my laziness, as i was still in the gym couple times a week..
You sound like an emotional woman
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Originally Posted By Twerk4it⏩
Most people do care at first, then they just let themselves go after they give up trying.
Seems rather pathetic, especially coming from users on a bodybuilding forum.
Originally Posted By arn710⏩
You sound like an emotional woman
They're the equivalent to the body positive movement females you constantly see on twitter/********. People who have accepted failure due to being lazy and refuse to better themselves.
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Originally Posted By litljay⏩
Can confirm. Was an out of shape, fat dad after kids. While the kids are a stressor, the main culprit was food.
i agree. it's a pain in the ass to eat healthy and stay within your macros. you have to practically cook two meals; one fore the kids and the other for yourself. it gets worse when your kids are picky eaters
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Originally Posted By Griggz⏩
Seems rather pathetic, especially coming from users on a bodybuilding forum.



They're the equivalent to the body positive movement females you constantly see on twitter/********. People who have accepted failure due to being lazy.
I can understand where people are coming from when they want to prioritize other things later on in life like work, family, etc especially as they lose energy as they age, BUT, your body is literally how you interact with the world. It's directly related to how you experience life. Usually when people put physical health lower on the totem pole they are simply not thinking clearly in the big picture.

Imagine spending all this time working to save up money for you kid's college fund, but your kid has a sh!tty childhood because when he's 5-13 you couldn't play with them or bring them anywhere because you were a fat fuk.

Or imagine being 40+ and you're walking slow as a snail, have back problems, can't even play basketball or go for a jog because your knees are shot, etc.

Then being 80 and it takes you 30 min to walk across the street... if you're lucky. You might be getting spoon fed in a wheelchair.
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