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post 1544091051 02-17-2018, 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Maestro
what if its a lesbian couple?
lipstick lesbian couples would be ok in my book, not ugly butch dykes that resemble me more than they do women.
post 1544091251 02-17-2018, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Ed_Norton_fan
What if the mother dies during childbirth. Or parents die in a car crash? Plenty of reasons for kids to be adopted
I work in a hospital and those are cliche hollywood reasons for a child to be orphaned. The vast majority of the time its because the mother lived in a state where she had to jump through too many hoops to get an abortion, and didn't want the kid, or she was a junkie and and deemed unfit to have a kid.

and its not like foster homes are rare or house very few kids. Some of them in larger cities have as mant kids as a k-6 elementary school. If a gay/lesbian couple wants to adopt one of those kids then let them, its sure better than never having a parent at all.
post 1544091541 02-17-2018, 08:39 AM
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Originally Posted By TitusVI
If two gays are gay then both like dick. So if they adopt a son then chance is higher of sexual abuse instead if at least one parent doesn't like dick. If that makes sense.
and what if they adopt a girl?
post 1544091741 02-17-2018, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By TitusVI
If two gays are gay then both like dick. So if they adopt a son then chance is higher of sexual abuse instead if at least one parent doesn't like dick. If that makes sense.
so then lesbians would abuse their daughters, by your stupid logic.
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post 1544091871 02-17-2018, 08:45 AM
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Lol at ‘gays’ op
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post 1544094191 02-17-2018, 09:28 AM
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Damn. Proud day misc.

I've been here since 2009, and I can say that even only a few years ago I've been in threads where the mass majority of posters held views like the OP and I was getting negged for saying it's fine for gay couples to adopt.
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post 1544094381 02-17-2018, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted By hydraides
I'm not homophobic but how is it fair for a baby child to be adopted by two men?

A Mothers love and female parental figure I would say is a childs need

LGBT idiots, It is selfish for gays to do this

Maybe it would be ok if the child was say nearly a teenager and lost their parents.
OP, if you feel that way, why don't you and your wife adopt every child that is in the foster system? Better you raise them than those gays.
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post 1544095361 02-17-2018, 09:47 AM
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Adoption is one way to potentially reduce abortion. Ever thought about that OP?
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post 1544095481 02-17-2018, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne
if a baby is adopted by two men, it is because that mother you speak of- did not want it and they did.
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post 1544095821 02-17-2018, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By 7rmr
Damn. Proud day misc.

I've been here since 2009, and I can say that even only a few years ago I've been in threads where the mass majority of posters held views like the OP and I was getting negged for saying it's fine for gay couples to adopt.
Lmao there’s this thread that I think about quite often that still kills me, some horrible mother put her child in the dryer(awful) and kid died. But there was a thread on the misc about it and there was just post after post of jokes about the situation..pretty horrifying really, but misc has changed A LOT
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post 1544096251 02-17-2018, 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted By 7rmr
Damn. Proud day misc.

I've been here since 2009, and I can say that even only a few years ago I've been in threads where the mass majority of posters held views like the OP and I was getting negged for saying it's fine for gay couples to adopt.
Being a good parent has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

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It looks bad for someone to have same sex parents, they're most-likely going to get bullied if not picked on, but there's no studies actually proving same sex couples can't raise children just as well as heterosexual couples can. I think there's studies that say the opposite because same sex couples get along better.
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My homo neighbors have a kid. It took them years and at least $10k to get one.

The kid they got was 5 years old and had been starved and beaten by his bio parents his entire life. He still hides food around the house and has major behavioral issues.

But really, having gay parents, that's just so unfair and wrong, right. Maybe you want this damaged child? Fukk outta here.
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post 1544097401 02-17-2018, 10:19 AM
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post 1544097701 02-17-2018, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By 7rmr
Damn. Proud day misc.

I've been here since 2009, and I can say that even only a few years ago I've been in threads where the mass majority of posters held views like the OP and I was getting negged for saying it's fine for gay couples to adopt.
The misc is entirely emotional. Some days I feel this way and others they feel that way. They just go after the higher repper and agree with them.

If a mod started this thread everyone would have agreed with the mod.

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We all know that a two parent home consisting of a biological mother and father provides the best opportunity for children to thrive but the subject is orphans.
When it comes to orphans we're often speaking of children who have already experienced some type of abuse or trauma in their life.

I don't buy into the belief that a single mother or father can raise a child just as well as a hetero couple so I would be hard pressed to believe that a homosexual couple could do anymore better so the question becomes what's best for the child.

No home or a homosexual home?

I would have to go with a homosexual home but then again it's not my kid so I can only pretend to care so much.
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Originally Posted By GotNext
How many kids did you adopt? None? Then SHUT THE FUK UP
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Your post lacks fundamental understanding of the adoption process. Every set of parents that apply for adoption are thoroughly vetted and undergo extensive interviews with social workers. You can't even legally adopt a child until he/she has been living under your roof with close monitoring for an extended period of time. This applies to both straight and homosexual couples/singles. It's not the grocery store, you can't just go in and pick a kid without any investigation into your life and your ability to care for a child. They don't preferentially adopt children out to homosexual couples. If a homosexual couple was able to adopt a child, that's because they're the best option that child has.

But this is the misc where some people just **** out of their mouth without thinking.
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Originally Posted By 20Mavs11
The misc is entirely emotional. Some days I feel this way and others they feel that way. They just go after the higher repper and agree with them.

If a mod started this thread everyone would have agreed with the mod.

Do not take any "debates" on the misc as concrete evidence of positive "Change".
This. Op perhaps should have been a little smarter and said

'All things being equal it is preferable for an adopted child to have a male and female parent'

That's at least arguable
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post 1544099591 02-17-2018, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted By WorldClassDBag
Was op always red or was he negged into the red?
Started green. Started this thread. Went head to head with BOZZ. His CP probably went something like this:

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Get the fuk over it. Would rather see a child raised by two intelligent and caring people, regardless if it's a gay or straight couple.
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while i do think a child is best suitted to be raised by a mother and father figure, having 2 parents is better than having 0

not to mention i also think 2 gay parents is >>>>> 2 lesbian parents who would deprive the child of a father figure.
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Originally Posted By 300BLK
It looks bad for someone to have same sex parents, they're most-likely going to get bullied if not picked on,
This is my only hesitation about the situation, but ultimately as the world changes and it becomes more common (through adoption, surrogacy etc) it will have less stigma attached to it.
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Originally Posted By deathstroke
lipstick lesbian couples would be ok in my book, not ugly butch dykes that resemble me more than they do women.
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Look at all the homophobes in this thread. Fukn lol.

At least the kids will have a home and not be brough through a chitty foster care system that is absolute dog chit.
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