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post 1512927931 07-21-2017, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
i swear most of the people i know just get on the roller coaster as the pawls ratchet them onward

meet girl, be exclusive, get engaged, get married, buy house, have kids, buy bigger house, trade balls for minivan, get divorced, start life over again at 40

LOL

if you don't sign away your life with a contract or an impregnation, you can sidestep a life of chit where external forces dictate your every move

fukk all that noise
thats not how life works except in cautionary tales. I have 2 kids and the freedom to do whatever I want. The only overhead is the overhead cost of kids which is nowhere near what the 200K that people write in papers and covering her bills for a few years while she stays home. Thats nothing compared to the upside.
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post 1512929651 07-21-2017, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted By jafomofo⏩
thats not how life works except in cautionary tales.I have 2 kids and the freedom to do whatever I want. The only overhead is the overhead cost of kids which is nowhere near what the 200K that people write in papers and covering her bills for a few years while she stays home. Thats nothing compared to the upside.
i personally know a decent number of people who had this happen, male and female... you're just part of the population that hasn't experienced it or experienced it yet... lots of divorces happen when the kids are out of the house or about to be out of the house
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXGZu4yxjW0
post 1512929821 07-21-2017, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted By somfking⏩
money doesn't make 99.999% of people happy like most people think it will. its intangible things that make people the most happy. the sooner you realize that the better off you'll be in life. srs.
I'll beg to differ there. If I was a millionaire and didn't have to worry about money all of my stress would disappear overnight.
post 1512930201 07-21-2017, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By somfking⏩
money doesn't make 99.999% of people happy like most people think it will. its intangible things that make people the most happy. the sooner you realize that the better off you'll be in life. srs.
I grew up poor and miserable. Was much, much happier when everything was financially taken care of later in life. This only applies to a drastic increase in wealth.
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXGZu4yxjW0
post 1512930231 07-21-2017, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By FastBack6⏩
I'll beg to differ there. If I was a millionaire and didn't have to worry about money all of my stress would disappear overnight.
You might think that but there are an awful lot of rich people in therapy.
post 1512931491 07-21-2017, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted By redmelly⏩
You might think that but there are an awful lot of rich people in therapy.
I guarantee there are far more poor people with problems. People on the whole have problems but poverty tends to amplify these. People who haven't had to live in poverty don't understand.
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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post 1512933271 07-21-2017, 01:27 PM
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thats good that op doesn't got any kids... he's too immature and irresponsible
post 1512933351 07-21-2017, 01:27 PM
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My wife and I were down with no kids for the longest time. I got the itch for one. She got pregnant. We are both happy to have her. Greatest thing in my life. Wish I had another one but wont. Kids are amazing and I didnt appreciate them until I had my own.

Might suck if you were poor with multiple kids. Not sure. Always been upper middle class so cant relate.
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post 1512934201 07-21-2017, 01:34 PM
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I just want a ladyboy(s) and once im rich might get a surrogate mother to have a kid
post 1512934261 07-21-2017, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By jafomofo⏩
thats not how life works except in cautionary tales. I have 2 kids and the freedom to do whatever I want. The only overhead is the overhead cost of kids which is nowhere near what the 200K that people write in papers and covering her bills for a few years while she stays home. Thats nothing compared to the upside.
ok, how many hours are ya gonna work today and then what are you gonna do after?
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post 1512934861 07-21-2017, 01:39 PM
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Having a harpy shriek in my ear about keeping up with the Joneses and ****ing around in the Rat Race does not sound fun at all.

I'm gonna do it on my own terms. At least I get to sleep in.

Extra money to save and invest with.

It's not even about being a Bachelor and fukking around. I just wanna do what I want to do. Cant let someone else drag me in another hole. Too risky.
post 1512936291 07-21-2017, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
how many Lifetime movies have you watched over the years would ya say?
Zero.

Funny that should be on your mind though, lol.
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=150655983&p=1000366043#post1000366043

Read my science fiction novel:

http://www.amazon.com/Echelon-Adlerian-ebook/dp/B00RCFFTKC/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1419640250&sr=8-1&keywords=Echelon+the+adlerian
post 1512936441 07-21-2017, 01:51 PM
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it is all fun and games until some couples have to raise a kid with a serious syndrome, those things are not that uncommon you know

of course you would still love them but their life is going to be hell for the most part + the potential blaming yourself for it

have seen it IRL and it scared the **** out of me

not to mention that you are not always in control of how he/she ends up as an adult, could be a complete bum with no ambitions - genetics is a mysterious and scary phenomenon

main reason I am afraid of kids, might want to adopt

cope all you want guys but you never know, may theory of probability and nature have mercy on you lol
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post 1512950761 07-21-2017, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted By seanb1979⏩
I guarantee there are far more poor people with problems. People on the whole have problems but poverty tends to amplify these. People who haven't had to live in poverty don't understand.
Relationships are more responsible for making people happy than money.
post 1512998271 07-22-2017, 02:32 AM
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if you're financially set it may work out fine with marriage n' family. but OP definitely has a point, look at divorcing rates etc.
men also almost never get sole or even shared custody once its over. i worked in that office (don't know the name in english, sry) where they decide on these kinda things and men always finish last. goodbye money, goodbye seeing your children growing up, welcome alimony and don't forget the humiliation in general.

i truly wish the married brahs here all the best and i'm sure it can work out perfectly. but society has changed and marriage is not what it was once. im not against marriage but very critical. the risks - in my humble opinion - far outweight the benefits.
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post 1512998961 07-22-2017, 03:01 AM
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My lineage ends with me, thank god. I wouldn't be so cruel as to forcefully bring another human into this chit existence to suffer and be a wageslave and die.
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post 1568800461 12-16-2018, 01:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
it is what most people want in life and what makes some of them truly happy, but I am with you OP, I am happiest and most content with life and make the most progress on myself when I am alone. I have come to the realization my path in life is without a significant other or children and its been phenomenal. Loving the bank account growing with every paycheck and not worrying about money or giving anyone else attention or planning around someone elses schedule.
how do you feel now?
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Originally Posted By DPeezy13⏩
how do you feel now?
Strong bump

I dunno about him, but I still feel great lol
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post 1568801071 12-16-2018, 01:17 PM
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Ded at duck tale gif lol
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass⏩
Married, we both don't want kids.

TFW dual income in a low cost of living state.

I'm good but thanks for your input.
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Originally Posted By Uptown83⏩
My wife and I were down with no kids for the longest time. I got the itch for one. She got pregnant. We are both happy to have her. Greatest thing in my life. Wish I had another one but wont. Kids are amazing and I didnt appreciate them until I had my own.

Might suck if you were poor with multiple kids. Not sure. Always been upper middle class so cant relate.
lmao at having a daughter in 2018. U dun goof
post 1568801231 12-16-2018, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
Never have to upgrade houses unless you create a literal hoe harem and you can't eat a bowl of cereal without splashing milk on a sloot

Guy at work spent over 100K on private school before high school for his kids lmao

lmao!

what a deal


cliffs:
marriage and kids:



no marriage, no kids:

Marriage is a scam. It's built in a way so that you're stuck with one female your entire life.

How any of you think that having 1 female your entire life is fun is beyond me.

But yeah have fun with the scam.
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tax breaks
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you wrong op
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Its not for me (at least at this point in my life) but to each their own OP... Raising a kid is just like any other hobby. It costs alot more money but from what I hear, its much more rewarding and provides alot more enjoyment.

$200k over 18 years isnt all that crazy, i spent $60k+ over the past 2 years on my car hobby which I only get to enjoy a few hours a week.


As for marraige/divorce, thats pretty simple... know who your marrying/dont marry a whore and get a pre-nup... Yes theres still a chance for divorce, but following these steps, there is a 99.9% chance youre going to make it.
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30 years old here.

Don't want kids. Would rather spend my money seeing the world, driving expensive cars, dining at expensive restaurants and having free time to do whatever I want..then eventually die knowing I lived the life I want.


You can be the best parent in the world, and your kid can grow up to be a drug addict criminal..and you will have to live with knowing the last 20+ years of your life was for nothing. Kind of a gamble I suppose.
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Originally Posted By jackamo2887⏩
30 years old here.

Don't want kids. Would rather spend my money seeing the world, driving expensive cars, dining at expensive restaurants and having free time to do whatever I want..then eventually die knowing I lived the life I want.


You can be the best parent in the world, and your kid can grow up to be a drug addict criminal..and you will have to live with knowing the last 20+ years of your life was for nothing. Kind of a gamble I suppose.
only the truly wealthy can have kids without feeling it financially, but they still take a freedom hit unless they're chitty parents and dump their kids on others to raise them
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no wife ,no kids, no mortgage , no gf

i stuff money away

but i do get lonely, that's the trade off

the quality of today's woman is pitiful

i mean, they can't even be cordial


me at the bank

"ty, have a good day "

her reply


"hmmmhmmmm"


walked away smh
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
no wife ,no kids, no mortgage , no gf

i stuff money away

but i do get lonely, that's the trade off

the quality of today's woman is pitiful

i mean, they can't even be cordial


me at the bank

"ty, have a good day "

her reply


"hmmmhmmmm"


walked away smh
i don't understand the feeling of loneliness. I get stressed out if i'm not alone enough. GFs are a complete waste and I refuse to ever have another one, but I hang out with a gal or two a week. the secret they don't want you to know is that the ideal intimate exposure to women is at most 5 hours a week.

when i finish my cut next century I'm gonna be raging with my brehs and women of ill repute but i sure as fukk don't want any of them in my house
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Its all about finding a non crazy wife

You both work. Have a house just big enough. Fuel efficient car. Dont have your kids in private school.

=Money for vacations/hobbies
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lol at the people who are thinking at 60 they will be single no kids sailing their yacht around the Mediterranean with a couple of hot 20 year olds in tow. (chance < 1%)

Realistically going to be eating a sandwich on a park bench at lunch with no one to talk to and nothing to do before you go to the cinema to watch a movie and cry when a love scene comes up (chance 90%+)
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