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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I’m sure many people get into relationships and marriages for other purposes like services or finances or kids. I think companionship is actually a much more genuine purpose. It’s not transactional. I’m not looking for a man to provide anything for me or do anything for me. Just simply want his companionship, to spend time with him, enjoy who he is as a person, bond through shared time together.
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Originally Posted By ****liGirl⏩
cliffs? why is everyone suddenly calling out silence?
because she constantly post about her divorce and how FA she is,so im trying to find out why. No one is triggered.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I like my lifestyle other than being single. I do really want a relationship and really miss male companionship and sex.

So I like being alone in the sense of rarely socializing and just doing my own thing. I am just lonely for a man so I don’t like being alone in the sense of being single.
Taking into account everything i listed in the OP, how do you expect to solve your problems(no b/f or companion). You're making it next to impossible, especially when you consider everything you added to the list.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I like my lifestyle other than being single. I do really want a relationship and really miss male companionship and sex.

So I like being alone in the sense of rarely socializing and just doing my own thing. I am just lonely for a man so I don’t like being alone in the sense of being single.
How old are you?

As women age they have to put forth a really good 'sell' in order to attract a decent man who isn't desperate. A good looking successful man with $$$ and freedom isn't gonna just give that up on a lazy woman in her 40s who wallows in loneliness when there's grade A 22-25 year olds out there.

What would you say you bring to the table in terms of a relationship? What do you have to offer?
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I almost spit out my soda. Amazing.
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I do understand that not wanting to socialize part. I went out with my old coworkers maybe over a year ago. So it was supposed to be in a bar next to my house (I thought great I can just make an excuse and leave whenever) but they decided to go to a location where I had to depend on someone giving me a ride. It was awful and the whole time I was just waiting to go home. Never again. Why do something you don't enjoy? And then you feel bad because you wasted all that time.
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I am close in age to SS, I used to be way more social that I am now, used to read a ton and don't as much anymore, definitely don't swallow but missionary only would kill me. I guess I have never been FA, but I get the lifestyle.

Oh and I do have a partner, who is mid 40's and checks all my boxes of companionship and loyalty and sex and is female so I have no issues with life.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
If you look at older happy couples, they are focused on companionship and sharing life together, rather than what one can provide for the other.

I’m sure many people get into relationships and marriages for other purposes like services or finances or kids. I think companionship is actually a much more genuine purpose. It’s not transactional. I’m not looking for a man to provide anything for me or do anything for me. Just simply want his companionship, to spend time with him, enjoy who he is as a person, bond through shared time together.
You've misunderstood me.

I actually pointed out how people bond with each other, I have not advocated a transactional relationship. Please re-read my post.

Happy couples; laugh together, watch TV and films together, talk about topics together (a documentary, 'thought experiments', film, TV series, philosophical questions, etc), etc.

Couples lives are always filled with stories (in the early years at least) of them spending time, bonding together, and they often have 'inside jokes'.

You offer no mutual joking, no discussions, no cooking for each other (eg. one person is ill in bed, and the other person cooks and helps them out), etc.

Physically being together doesn't create the kind of bonds that create happy LTRs IMO, which is what you seem to want.

People often need to share experiences, and values, in order to bond strongly (IMO and IME).

Sex and physical proximity is nothing more than a FWB (IMO), any guy can find that with any woman... It doesn't require any deep bonding, shared experiences, etc. It's interchangeable.

What isn't interchangeable is the life you build with someone, the share experiences you build with someone, the 'inside language/jokes', sharing thoughts with one another, etc. That's not interchaneable, that's built over time.

You seem to offer something that is easily found (and, to be honest, can be brought. ie. the girlfriend experience, or trophy wives).
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Absolutely. I think most of us are curious as to why she's happy being like that... If she's happy, good for her. But most people would not be OK with a lifestyle she currently has.
That's the paradox. SS is happy because she doesn't buy into the recent need to live some crazy cool lifestyle. It's an old school mentality, and how people used to think. Most people today are chasing some fantasy goal that you only see in the Movies/TV. Social media has only made it worse.
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Originally Posted By UACdarknova⏩
How old are you?

As women age they have to put forth a really good 'sell' in order to attract a decent man who isn't desperate. A good looking successful man with $$$ and freedom isn't gonna just give that up on a lazy woman in her 40s who wallows in loneliness when there's grade A 22-25 year olds out there.

What would you say you bring to the table in terms of a relationship? What do you have to offer?
22-25 year olds do not want dudes in their 40’s. We really don’t even want dudes in their 30’s for the most part.

Misc is delusional per usual.

This notion that there are no men dating women their own age is frankly rather retarded and could be easily disproved by walking outside.

If she wanted men her own age she would be fine. And if she’s good looking she can get away with younger too.
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Originally Posted By AK5426⏩
Silence=Female car salesman /thread
That's exactly the conclusion I came to, after reading this thread.

They seem to be the male and female equivalent.

Mind blowing.
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
People often need to share experiences, and values, in order to bond strongly (IMO and IME).

Sex and physical proximity is nothing more than a FWB (IMO), any guy can find that with any woman... It doesn't require any deep bonding, shared experiences, etc. It's interchangeable.
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I always thought SS was a dude, or is that just her legs with Brad Pitt in the background lol

Swear I heard him/her say he was a twink gay dude
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I like my lifestyle other than being single. I do really want a relationship and really miss male companionship and sex.

So I like being alone in the sense of rarely socializing and just doing my own thing. I am just lonely for a man so I don’t like being alone in the sense of being single.
well it seems to me that if you want a man you have no choice but to start socializing.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
22-25 year olds do not want dudes in their 40’s.

Misc is delusional per usual.
You literally couldn't be more mistaken. Strong location to post ratio.
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Originally Posted By digitalchi⏩
because she constantly post about her divorce and how FA she is,so im trying to find out why. No one is triggered.



Taking into account everything i listed in the OP, how do you expect to solve your problems(no b/f or companion). You're making it next to impossible, especially when you consider everything you added to the list.
Because she's convinced herself that she'll only be happy when some perfect person comes into her life. That way she doesn't have to change her behavior, someone else can solve the problem for her. Long-term sustainability, not even once.
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja⏩
That's the paradox. SS is happy because she doesn't buy into the recent need to live some crazy cool lifestyle.
She's said that she is depressed because she's alone, in multiple other threads.
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Originally Posted By digitalchi⏩
No drinking
no green leaf
no anal
doesn't swallow
missionary only
no instagram
no ********

The more she post about her personal life the more it makes sense. Im assuming she cooks, reads, watches Greys Anatomy and cares over her plants. This isn't all bad but god damn.

Will she be FA all 2019...time well tell
My interest just increased.

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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
That's exactly the conclusion I came to, after reading this thread.

They seem to be the male and female equivalent.

Mind blowing.
Nah. SS doesn't have his arrogance.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
Missionary only?

Lmao. Must have a flat ass.
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Originally Posted By RedRusty⏩
Nobody is triggered. People are just curious. Pretty much human nature.
I think people are fascinated by how a middle-aged woman could come across as such a typical miscer. To be fair to her though, she doesn't hate men, so she's not an exact equivalent.
Originally Posted By RedRusty⏩
Nah. SS doesn't have his arrogance.
Car salesman may also be legitimately mentally ill. I'd say she's more like a more mature and far less annoying eod... which also may sound pretty damn insulting, but I don't mean it that way.
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Originally Posted By UACdarknova⏩
You literally couldn't be more mistaken. Strong location to post ratio.
This isn’t even worth debating. Walk outside and tell me how many girls in their 20’s you see with middle aged men, rather than dudes closer to their own age.

Case closed, unless you’re talking about “sugar babies” aka prostitutes.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Always like what? I’ve always been very introverted if that is what you mean. When I was married I was focused on my ex and just enjoying life together with him.
There was no compulsion towards a family? No love for socializing with other couples? No happiness or joy or elation of any kind in your life?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No I think you misunderstood. I like and do everything you described except TV and cooking. And if it was really important to the guy then I’d do that too for him.
stop explaining yourself so much lol do what you want in life it's nonbody's business.
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Originally Posted By UACdarknova⏩
This x 1000. You will never build a successful relationship based only on the fact that you both breathe and are humans under the same roof. You need something to connect through.
That connection isn't something you can always explain so not sure what answer you're looking for out of her. She wants to find someone she clicks with naturally without having to audition for relationships like parts in a movie. Not a hard concept to grasp. Its a difficult thing to achieve and if you aren't a social person you're gonna need some luck but it's not impossible.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
This isn’t even worth debating. Walk outside and tell me how many girls in their 20’s you see with middle aged men, rather than dudes closer to their own age.

Cased closed, unless you’re talking about “sugar babies” aka prostitutes.
Maybe not as many men in their 40s but successful men in their 30s can literally stumble blindfolded into young women and do very well.

However, I think you're missing the point. If she's literally offering nothing other than "companionship" - then a man who also wants "companionship" can get that same company from a younger tighter body. Companionship basically means no real connection or bond, just another human to sit around with.
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