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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Well I guess it's more risky for a Female Miscer to meet a Male Miscer for safety reasons, since there are some freaks on here. idk enough about spade other than he's a 40 year old slim dude who likes to write his name on teenage girls asses to post to a bunch of socially awkward 20 year olds. He seems pretty harmless. He's not like the ones on here who are like Elliott Rodger.If I’m attracted to them, sure.
01-12-2019, 03:12 PM
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Originally Posted By DPeezy13⏩
thats the only reason i clicked on this **** lol... cmon miscWhy is this thread 33 pages ?
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01-12-2019, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Could just probably be an age thing. Might just be past the point this introversion being a phase borne from lack of exposure. Which really is the only thing i can relate to. Would be cool if you met with a miscer though. Just so theres an idea about how things play out with you.I’m fine in groups too, but yeah I don’t enjoy it.
And do you really not understand the difference between introversion and sociopathy??
An introvert enjoys being alone and gets energy from solitude. An introvert can socialize fine but it’s draining for them to continually give attention to people, so afterwards they need time alone to rest and recharge.
And just out of politeness they might fake enjoying a social interaction when they really don’t. Extraverts can actually experience that too when they’re in social situations they don’t really want to be in. Like say you are at a family reunion and your distant relative comes up and starts telling you details about her medical problems.
You probably don’t really want to hear that, but you’ll fake some interest just to be polite, and then try to end the conversation in a polite way after a reasonable ammount of time. Same for introverts but for introverts that just applies to a much larger portion of social interactions.
Very different from a sociopath, who has no morals and is not a good person. They will lie, cheat, steal, and manipulate to get what they want, and use people and discard them without any empathy or remorse. So they act fake to manipulate people and get what they want. Very different from faking social interest just out of politeness.
And do you really not understand the difference between introversion and sociopathy??
An introvert enjoys being alone and gets energy from solitude. An introvert can socialize fine but it’s draining for them to continually give attention to people, so afterwards they need time alone to rest and recharge.
And just out of politeness they might fake enjoying a social interaction when they really don’t. Extraverts can actually experience that too when they’re in social situations they don’t really want to be in. Like say you are at a family reunion and your distant relative comes up and starts telling you details about her medical problems.
You probably don’t really want to hear that, but you’ll fake some interest just to be polite, and then try to end the conversation in a polite way after a reasonable ammount of time. Same for introverts but for introverts that just applies to a much larger portion of social interactions.
Very different from a sociopath, who has no morals and is not a good person. They will lie, cheat, steal, and manipulate to get what they want, and use people and discard them without any empathy or remorse. So they act fake to manipulate people and get what they want. Very different from faking social interest just out of politeness.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
It's not an age thing, but like many personality traits, the way it expresses itself can change with age.Could just probably be an age thing. Might just be past the point this introversion being a phase borne from lack of exposure.
01-12-2019, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Mind blown that you had to explain that.It means doing something slightly outside of your comfort zone, in order to potentially expose you to things that may actually increase your well being or happiness.
Myself, for example. I’m highly disciplined and routined, but being more impulsive (within reason) has actually improved my life. It’s the opposite problem to most people.
Myself, for example. I’m highly disciplined and routined, but being more impulsive (within reason) has actually improved my life. It’s the opposite problem to most people.
01-12-2019, 05:02 PM
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01-12-2019, 05:05 PM
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01-12-2019, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I don't really see how it applies to you in the context that has been talked about here. I think of getting out of your shell as doing something you want to do, but are afraid to try. Like me in going out to eat alone. But pushing someone to do something they don't even want to do? Unless it's because they're unhealthy or something, like losing weight, exercising, etc. I'd say nah that's not it. It makes me laugh to think of people pushing alcohol on someone. Are we in high school?Ok explain specifically how it applies to me then.
Drink? Or what
Drink? Or what
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01-12-2019, 05:28 PM
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Aside from this turning into a chat thread, nothing has changed here.
-No pics of SS
-SS will not change her ways
-SS seems content
-SS is semi trolling ya'll
Nothing much more to see here.
Mind=Blown this is a 20 page thread even with 50 posts per page. How do you feel about your misc fame Silencespeaks?
-No pics of SS
-SS will not change her ways
-SS seems content
-SS is semi trolling ya'll
Nothing much more to see here.
Mind=Blown this is a 20 page thread even with 50 posts per page. How do you feel about your misc fame Silencespeaks?
01-12-2019, 05:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I absolutely hated that. I actually punched somebody so that they could stop bothering me about it.It makes me laugh to think of people pushing alcohol on someone. Are we in high school?
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01-12-2019, 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I'm not talking about alcohol at all, I'm just speaking in the general sense.I don't really see how it applies to you in the context that has been talked about here. I think of getting out of your shell as doing something you want to do, but are afraid to try. Like me in going out to eat alone. But pushing someone to do something they don't even want to do? Unless it's because they're unhealthy or something, like losing weight, exercising, etc. I'd say nah that's not it. It makes me laugh to think of people pushing alcohol on someone. Are we in high school?
And actually it is often some activity that you don't "want to do". You immediate instinct may be not to want to do it, but it may end up being beneficial. An example may be public speaking, attending a meetup alone to meet a group of strangers, or booking a last minute flight. Experiences like that are not things you may immediately "want to do" as an introvert; in fact you might resist them by default - but may end up enjoying and being glad you did it in the long run.
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01-12-2019, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
Yeah, peer pressure. So glad I've always had a strong will and don't give in to peer pressure. Hoping my son has that as well.I absolutely hated that. I actually punched somebody so that they could stop bothering me about it.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Oh, I agree that the things you mentioned can be beneficial to someone who's afraid or intimidated by doing that stuff. I just don't think that pertains to SS. I'm also speaking to the posters who've insisted that you have to drink to be fun and not boring. If someone is boring without alcohol then they're just a boring person. You'd have to keep them buzzed/drunk 24/7 in that case.I'm not talking about alcohol at all, I'm just speaking in the general sense.
And actually it is often some activity that you don't "want to do". You immediate instinct may be not to want to do it, but it may end up being beneficial. An example may be public speaking, attending a meetup alone to meet a group of strangers, or booking a last minute flight. Experiences like that are not things you may immediately "want to do" as an introvert; in fact you might resist them by default - but may end up enjoying and being glad you did it in the long run.
And actually it is often some activity that you don't "want to do". You immediate instinct may be not to want to do it, but it may end up being beneficial. An example may be public speaking, attending a meetup alone to meet a group of strangers, or booking a last minute flight. Experiences like that are not things you may immediately "want to do" as an introvert; in fact you might resist them by default - but may end up enjoying and being glad you did it in the long run.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
This is what I found so amusing about spade's advice. You have someone who clearly lives for his relationships to be one quick dopamine hit to the next, and has no LTR relationship with anyone, telling SS (who has already been in a LTR via marriage once) how to find a mature LTR. You can't make this stuff up.I'm also speaking to the posters who've insisted that you have to drink to be fun and not boring. If someone is boring without alcohol then they're just a boring person. You'd have to keep them buzzed/drunk 24/7 in that case.
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01-12-2019, 11:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I see this a lot here. Legzz pretty much I think was the same way. All the ones who are divorced here, you, legzz, Katya etc. are so nice and feminine, yet I can't believe that everyone has so much trouble finding a relationship after 40. Well yeah, actually I do, since all my aunts that got divorced, never remarried. I already know for me it would be impossible. If you guys are having trouble, what chance do I have? I think zero.Well Spade was married too. But he’s divorced now.
Yeah I had a long marriage plus multiple relationships before that too. Actually never had any issue with relationships and always had boyfriends and then got married pretty young at 26.
Honestly never expected to have any trouble at all with dating after divorce. Because I never had any trouble with dating before. Really came as a surprise that it’s been so difficult.
And I didn’t date at all for a long time after my separation/divorce. But during that whole time I just assumed in the back of my mind that once I was ready to date, I would quickly find a new relationship.
Yeah I had a long marriage plus multiple relationships before that too. Actually never had any issue with relationships and always had boyfriends and then got married pretty young at 26.
Honestly never expected to have any trouble at all with dating after divorce. Because I never had any trouble with dating before. Really came as a surprise that it’s been so difficult.
And I didn’t date at all for a long time after my separation/divorce. But during that whole time I just assumed in the back of my mind that once I was ready to date, I would quickly find a new relationship.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
You're talking like you think women have a limited shelf life. Do you really believe that?I see this a lot here. Legzz pretty much I think was the same way. All the ones who are divorced here, you, legzz, Katya etc. are so nice and feminine, yet I can't believe that everyone has so much trouble finding a relationship after 40. Well yeah, actually I do, since all my aunts that got divorced, never remarried. I already know for me it would be impossible. If you guys are having trouble, what chance do I have? I think zero.
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Originally Posted By HYMENATOR⏩
In my experience. I always remember in my sociology book back in the day was a quote saying something like "it's more likely for a woman over 34 to die in a terrorist attack than get married". Never forget that.You're talking like you think women have a limited shelf life. Do you really believe that?
Also, almost every female I know that used to have easy access to boyfriends in their youth, cannot find anyone. This goes for my best friend also, and she is super nice and fun person.
I never had any boyfriends even when I was young, not so much to do with my looks, but more to do with being weird, so I am not delusional about my prospects if it ever came down to it.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Lol why you posting useless novels?In my experience. I always remember in my sociology book back in the day was a quote saying something like "it's more likely for a woman over 34 to die in a terrorist attack than get married". Never forget that.
Also, almost every female I know that used to have easy access to boyfriends in their youth, cannot find anyone. This goes for my best friend also, and she is super nice and fun person.
I never had any boyfriends even when I was young, not so much to do with my looks, but more to do with being weird, so I am not delusional about my prospects if it ever came down to it.
Also, almost every female I know that used to have easy access to boyfriends in their youth, cannot find anyone. This goes for my best friend also, and she is super nice and fun person.
I never had any boyfriends even when I was young, not so much to do with my looks, but more to do with being weird, so I am not delusional about my prospects if it ever came down to it.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I like hearing stories like this, and hope it is true. I just never see it.I wonder why retirement communities are so famous for their shenanigans then?
My colleague who divorced in her mid to late 40s seemed to go on quite a few coffee dates through Match.com and then committed to a new relationship with someone who is age appropriate. They appear to be very much enjoying their lives together now.
My colleague who divorced in her mid to late 40s seemed to go on quite a few coffee dates through Match.com and then committed to a new relationship with someone who is age appropriate. They appear to be very much enjoying their lives together now.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
i guess becaue if youre 78 with 5 years left youre just tryna make sure the viagra isnt wastedI wonder why retirement communities are so famous for their shenanigans then?
My colleague who divorced in her mid to late 40s seemed to go on quite a few coffee dates through Match.com and then committed to a new relationship with someone who is age appropriate. They appear to be very much enjoying their lives together now.
My colleague who divorced in her mid to late 40s seemed to go on quite a few coffee dates through Match.com and then committed to a new relationship with someone who is age appropriate. They appear to be very much enjoying their lives together now.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
No but I just think about my lonely widow days ahead of me if my only person in this world dies, as you know I am the cup is always half empty kind of person.TBH I get the retirement community stories from the national press (rise in STDs among seniors) and have a very limited number of people who have separated in my social circles, probably more in work circles but tbh I try to stay out of that
Has your relationship status changed Cass?
Has your relationship status changed Cass?
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
TBH, the older you get, less time you have to waste. So if I were out there, I doubt I'd be like "oh, my gaawd, need to save myself to the right person". If I have that attitude, I'll be dead before anything happens.i guess becaue if youre 78 with 5 years left youre just tryna make sure the viagra isnt wasted
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