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Thread: "Men gain value with age" is taught so society doesn't burn itself down, am I wrong?

post 1571225191 01-15-2019, 07:42 AM
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
But that girl is actually retarded, Ashin. "I don't use to talk with people my age" is full retard.Also, 28 isn't that far from 20.
Lol
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post 1571226211 01-15-2019, 07:58 AM
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Age 26 and I legitimately do incomparably better with girls than when I was 18-23. Doesn't seem to be a myth srs, although I think being in shape and having a full head of hair (NRW1) is extremely important to keep slaying.
post 1571227691 01-15-2019, 08:16 AM
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Originally Posted By RisenV⏩
That is older you absolute idiot, do you even know what the term older means?

Yeah here are the facts



Women prefer older men, that's how they've evolved and that's how they will stay forever. The point of my posts isn't to say you can just hit 30 and slay, the point is that it's not a hinderance and can actually help you provided other things are in order

I don't care about your neg, feel free to neg that other girl who said the exact same thing as me, you didn't because you're just doing thot logic where you're butthurt because you're post glow and thus have to try and get back at men who don't want used up roasties like you.

Sorry hun, men prefer young, fertile and glowing women, maybe you can open up your own cat store with the expertise you are currently acquiring.
Lol I’m much younger than the woman you’re white knighting. I’m probably younger than you also.

Doesn’t change the fact that women do not want to date men much older than they are. Within 7 years is a very small gap, and I already said a small gap is fine.

Also, 80% of those marriages I mentioned only have a 2-5 year gap, which is pretty much nothing.

LMAO at roasties, just lmao at you.

Why am I the only one in this thread you’re attacking personally? Like you know anything about my personal life? Unlike you, I have a boyfriend and a sex life.

Go deal with your mommy issues somewhere else. Where’s the logic in attacking me for disagreeing with you?

The emotional one here is you.

PS nature evolved women to be the selectors. It doesn’t matter what men want so much as what they can get.
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post 1571227881 01-15-2019, 08:20 AM
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where are my 50 year old single chad miscers
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post 1571228391 01-15-2019, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
which is exactly what I said ages ago before some kunt stupidly dismissed it

women want men of their own age who they can see potential in, as they age.

can a woman reply to this telling me im right to shut you stupid *******s up
You are 100% accurate.

Vast majority of young women I know want a hot young guy with potential.

The fairytale is literally to “build a life together” and watch your prince turn into a king.

Some women will want the resources up front but it’s the minority tbh.
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post 1571228661 01-15-2019, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Hardlifter9⏩
Can't remember if I had any confidence as a late teen but I certainly had no assets/money yet female attention was nuts. Fast forward to now when I do have all of those things, but just a veryy marginal drop in looks is night and day in female attention (for the worse). My close friends have identical experiences. Killing it at life but just a tiny drop in their looks has plummeted dating compared to before.

Most guys aren't distinguishable when it comes to personality and confidence. Height/body is well overrated. The decision to go on that first date and/or a 2nd date if online dating comes down to physical attraction. You have to have really poor communication skills or be a complete wierdo to mess it up otherwise. And unless you're unemployed with no education, the rest is barely relevant.
Not reading the last couple pages, but Ik you are stuck in the medschool grind and you probably feel like you are gonna be an old man before you finish lmao. But srs female attention isn't the end all of "mens value". Like I said it comes down to Lifestyle, status, and money in no particular order. Female attention is just 1 part of lifestyle IMO which comes down to playing the field or getting married. First couple years of college are fukin lit in terms of lifestyle- you take 1-2 hard classes and the rest are fillers and you get to chill with the squad in the dorms and lift heavy. You can still have relatively high "status" as a pre-whatever student.

But let me tell you when you finish school/residency it gets hype real fast. Right up to getting my first real paycheck I was kinda stuck floating bills, but getting that first 40 hour paycheck was an incredible feeling and it only gets better from there. Suddenly you are stacking up money, paying down debts, and your retirement accounts are stacking up without even thinking about it. I moved to a spot where I am within 2-4 hours of some of the best skiing in the nation. I'm 15 minutes -2 hours away from the best mountain biking in the nation. Typically work 6-8 days in a row then have 3-6 days off to travel, go back to see my family, or just chill at home.
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post 1571251721 01-15-2019, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Hardlifter9⏩
If you're a guy in his 30s, you pretty much have to be into single moms or something of that type. And personally, no issues with that. Just saying that those are the options for guys in their 30s.
I must've missed the memo. I turn 32 next month and every girl I've hooked up with or dated in the last 2 years was 25-29
post 1571264021 01-15-2019, 03:12 PM
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This thread is depressing as ****
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post 1571264381 01-15-2019, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Curlbrahhh⏩
This thread is depressing as ****
BRB killing myself when I turn 30
You must not have read any of this thread- plenty of people refuting what OP said.
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post 1571264461 01-15-2019, 03:18 PM
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I'm just waiting til I'm 35 and the 18 yos will start flocking.

Misc wills it.
post 1571264721 01-15-2019, 03:22 PM
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you guys actually think that bezos couldnt **** most young girls with his money? do you know how many rich people (politicians, investment bankers) pay for ****philia action? they pay the girls and theyre fine with that. happens all the time. Now how many IG models will go to ***** for 25k? probably upward north of 70%
post 1571264931 01-15-2019, 03:24 PM
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so you guys put your self worth on how many chicks you can bang?
post 1571265101 01-15-2019, 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
so you guys put your self worth on how many chicks you can bang?
no, they put their self worth on their income. After that, how many chicks they can bang. Its the misc and your join date is 2011 - the ****?
post 1571265111 01-15-2019, 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
so you guys put your self worth on how many chicks you can bang?
Not just chicks but young chicks.

Pretty pathetic existence but that’s the misc
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post 1571265331 01-15-2019, 03:29 PM
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Fuk, InstandLoser is unbanned. It's only a matter of time before he infests this thread with his negativity and inceldom.
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post 1571265691 01-15-2019, 03:34 PM
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Wat?

Im 28 and better looking than I've ever been

Oh, and I'm smarter and have more money than I ever have

Only thing I'm worried about from aging is my hair, as I started losing some of it

Still matching and getting dates with girls 18-21 and dated a 19 year old over a year ago
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post 1571265881 01-15-2019, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Not just chicks but young chicks.

Pretty pathetic existence but that’s the misc
well chicks above age 23 that are good looking are rare so thats not surprising.
post 1571265991 01-15-2019, 03:37 PM
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
well chicks above age 23 that are good looking are rare so thats not surprising.
Not only rare in general, but rare to find single
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post 1571266191 01-15-2019, 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted By MiamiLife305⏩
Not only rare in general, but rare to find single
when they are single, theres a reason.
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Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
it's not taught, it's just the way it is

you gain confidence, wisdom, and status with time
this. nobody had to tell me about my value increasing. It just did.

Also, I don't think that saying "men value with age" meant guys in their 50s or even their 40s. Remember back in the day people married right out of high school and had tons of life milestones behind them before they ever reached 30.

So if you were a man with decent career built up by the time you were in your 30s, you could do well with the younger ladies. Also, remember back then there wasn't this current phenomena of people marrying within their education-social-career status.

A doctor would think nothing of marrying a younger teacher or secretary.
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Haven't banged a 20-something chick since I was 20-something crew

It's my experience that normal couples pair up with similar age. 20 year old chicks who bang 40-50 year old dudes are gold diggers, pure and simple.
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Originally Posted By Vexidi⏩
Haven't banged a 20-something chick since I was 20-something crew
youre married though right?
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Originally Posted By Vexidi⏩
Haven't banged a 20-something chick since I was 20-something crew

It's my experience that normal couples pair up with similar age. 20 year old chicks who bang 40-50 year old dudes are gold diggers, pure and simple.
I'm on the same boat re 20 year-olds, but I banged a 30-something year-old on Saturday, and a 40 year-old on Sunday. Variety is the spice of life, m8.
Take it easy Christian
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Even from the perspective of evolutionary biology, it makes sense that women are most attractive when they're young because women are only fertile up to a certain age. Men, on the other hand, aren't necessarily shooting blanks until they're over 70. They also typically gain financial/social resources with age, & living to an older age as a man used to be indicative of better genes.
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
and a 40 year-old on Sunday.
would rather fap
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
would rather fap
I'm sure you would.
Take it easy Christian
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
youre married though right?
Yeah, got me on a technicality.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Lol no

35 is old as fukk to a woman in her early 20’s

All of this can be disproven by walking outside and seeing how many early 20’s girls are dating dudes 30+.

It’s pretty rare.

Your best chance with girls in their 20’s is when you are also in your 20’s, point blank period.

The guy you are talking about is the exception to the rule, not the rule as the misc likes to pretend.
This. But I think it's natural to focus on the 1 in a 100 exception and think "I'm going to be that guy" rather than be realistic.
Any quick walk outside shows how it actually works.
Originally Posted By RisenV⏩
Sucks to be you then, but let's not act like the career or accolades or status that comes from these things is what hinders you.

The time it takes and your lack of college/uni social circle is what ****s you, NOT that getting older has made things harder, it's just your life choices.

Not sure why we'd expect a 60 hour a week doctor to slay as much as Thad the frat guy who parties 60 hours a week.

Anyways, men like you should be using legit paid for dating services where you have a stream of fresh pussy coming your way, if you're making well into the 6 figs and not spending at LEAST few hundred if not thousand dollars on dating services, you're doing it wrong.
Time does hinder. But looks do slightly fade off with age, for virtually all guys as they progress through their 20s. Even if you keep your hair, don't wrinkle, age well & stay in good shape.
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
I'm on the same boat re 20 year-olds, but I banged a 30-something year-old on Saturday, and a 40 year-old on Sunday. Variety is the spice of life, m8.
Tricky! I did a double take. lol Happy belated to the Mrs.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
So facts are irrelevant now?

Lmao.

Statistics indicate a strong pattern. But every miscer thinks they’re going to be the exception to the rule. Some will be, sure but the rule isn’t disproven by the exception and the rule is that most women will want a guy closer to their age who is on track to be successful over some old guy who is successful, but who they don’t find physically attractive and have little in common with.

Miscers also severely underestimate the amount of money you need to date the hot gold diggers as a middle aged man.

That paid off Toyota Camry isn’t gonna do it lmao.
I always found it funny how guys underestimated just how much money it takes to even approach that sort of lifestyle. It's not even 1 in a 100. And even in my profession, which is literally the most secure path to making 250-750k+ a year, it's not that common to make that sort of money.

Originally Posted By inb4everything⏩
Looks in the West is another factor like stated earlier.

A good way to know that you're in your peak is when your facial buccal fat has decreased (babyface has matured) and your hairline has formed that "V" shape (Norwood 2) masculine look. Also a deeper brow ridge which gives your eyes a squinty look, at least more compared to before where your eyes look more surprised and "goofier" in your teens.

I have a Norwood 0.5-1, with temples filled with baby hairs, smooth cheek fat, my dad is 60 but looks 40, and people always comment I look 18-20. One girl even told me on a dating site to hit her up when I am 35 as she rejected me lmao. This guy I know at the same age has a great hairline V shape and looks early 30s even though he's 25 and is doing pretty well with women...I can tell he is at his visual peak. His dad's bald so I know his youth won't last as long as mine.

I've been a lot of forums lurking and it seems true despite my wishful thinking that most women do not give af about money.Even looking around, most are with guys in same social circle, whether it's an athlete circle, small town circle, business circle, or just a plain circle. You're better off learning to become a high sexual energy clown that makes friends easily everywhere. I will say that from observing "Chad" online profiles on threads, it's quite cookie cutter...lean, fit, travel, 7+, but look mature (whether that's a 20s guy or an ex-babyfaced late 30s guy), and "great" photos.

My observations which make sense to me now at least.
Well you had a surgeon in this thread say how little money/status matters, so...
Originally Posted By EoR⏩
Nothing has changed in thousands and thousands of years. It's all there because it works. Social media is not an accurate depiction of when you step outside and interact with humans. Women in their early to mid 20s are not looking for someone their age, well not in my country or any that I've visited. Males anywhere from mid 20s to early 40s have many options based on their social value and physical attributes. I've had women not interested in me because I was their age, it's fairly common.
Maybe some miscers live in odd places. It's just a fact, older men with their sh*t together have the leverage, while women in their youth have the leverage over people their age. The power shifts dramatically, but if you're some slob thinking: "Oh boy easy pickin's!" you will be disappointed.
Time for a trip outside, to the mall maybe.
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