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post 1579537151 05-06-2019, 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Does not compute.
Entertainment meaning when they have some down time at work or what not, they'll whip it out and look at it as a group and talk and laugh about the matches and people on there. Read their profiles, laugh at the ridiculous messages they get from dudes, etc...

The stigma of Tinder as a hook up app has them super suspicious of every guy on there. Since they aren't looking for just hook ups, any guy on there has to dig out of a deep deep hole via messages/text/first dates to prove that they are looking for more than just quick sex.
post 1579538991 05-06-2019, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
Entertainment meaning when they have some down time at work or what not, they'll whip it out and look at it as a group and talk and laugh about the matches and people on there. Read their profiles, laugh at the ridiculous messages they get from dudes, etc...

The stigma of Tinder as a hook up app has them super suspicious of every guy on there. Since they aren't looking for just hook ups, any guy on there has to dig out of a deep deep hole via messages/text/first dates to prove that they are looking for more than just quick sex.
It's not the stigma, it's the men that use it constantly asking for hookups. Pretty much every woman I talk to have hopes of meeting someone decent and after the first day realize there's a 1/1000 chance of that happening.

I say in my bio I am looking for a real connection.
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post 1579541201 05-06-2019, 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Oh I’m not claiming to be a housewife type or motherly type. I’d be bored and unhappy in those roles.

Just talking about basic affection and courtesy. I mean you don’t have to be Martha Stewart to pick up a bowl and wash it. That’s just normal basic stuff. Even more so when you’re in love with someone so you want to show affection and do stuff for them.
not claiming to be the motherly type?
Even with your penchant for robbing the cradle?
post 1579541251 05-06-2019, 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
Entertainment meaning when they have some down time at work or what not, they'll whip it out and look at it as a group and talk and laugh about the matches and people on there. Read their profiles, laugh at the ridiculous messages they get from dudes, etc...

The stigma of Tinder as a hook up app has them super suspicious of every guy on there. Since they aren't looking for just hook ups, any guy on there has to dig out of a deep deep hole via messages/text/first dates to prove that they are looking for more than just quick sex.
Why are they on Tinder then, go on Hinge or something and stop wasting everyone's time.

Inb4 Tinder isn't a hookup app - sorry it has that brand, clearly.
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post 1579541551 05-06-2019, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
It's not the stigma, it's the men that use it constantly asking for hookups. Pretty much every woman I talk to have hopes of meeting someone decent and after the first day realize there's a 1/1000 chance of that happening.

I say in my bio I am looking for a real connection.
Thanks for being honest. Reps.

After hearing news stories and people IRL talk about the peeps they met from Tinder and what not, it does make me have my guard up a little. It is nerve racking meeting a stranger from an app. Who knows if they're crazy, rapist, weird, etc. That goes for men and women. This is part of the reason why when a guy/girl finds someone that's "normal" they get snatched up real quick.
post 1579541581 05-06-2019, 12:20 PM
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
Entertainment meaning when they have some down time at work or what not, they'll whip it out and look at it as a group and talk and laugh about the matches and people on there. Read their profiles, laugh at the ridiculous messages they get from dudes, etc...

The stigma of Tinder as a hook up app has them super suspicious of every guy on there. Since they aren't looking for just hook ups, any guy on there has to dig out of a deep deep hole via messages/text/first dates to prove that they are looking for more than just quick sex.
On Tinder
Not looking for hookups.
tell them to pick one.

Everyone knows tinder is a hookup app. Period.

Also, they sound like a bunch of time wasters or attention seekers.

nothing about that sounds like a quality woman to me and they also sound kinda dumb if they are actively on an app that they know contains mostly men looking for hookups but don't want that.
There are other options for online dating.
post 1579542991 05-06-2019, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
On Tinder
Not looking for hookups.
tell them to pick one.

Everyone knows tinder is a hookup app. Period.

Also, they sound like a bunch of time wasters or attention seekers.

nothing about that sounds like a quality woman to me and they also sound kinda dumb if they are actively on an app that they know contains mostly men looking for hookups but don't want that.
There are other options for online dating.
That specific example was from a few years ago when Tinder was still the primary phone app and otherwise you were using something like Match.com. I think the novelty of Tinder in the first couple of years led most all single 20 somethings to be on it, regardless of their end game. Nowadays I got not clue what people use or the nuances of the online dating world.
post 1579543001 05-06-2019, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
Also, they sound like a bunch of time wasters or attention seekers.

nothing about that sounds like a quality woman to me and they also sound kinda dumb if they are actively on an app that they know contains mostly men looking for hookups but don't want that.
There are other options for online dating.
I sense that Jimmy has a very low bar for what he considers a quality woman. Quality women either don't get on Tinder at all, or delete it quickly. They don't jerk off to the attention they get from horny creeps online.
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post 1579543931 05-06-2019, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Why are they on Tinder then, go on Hinge or something and stop wasting everyone's time.

Inb4 Tinder isn't a hookup app - sorry it has that brand, clearly.
Cause Tinder is mainstream and easy to laugh at. I think some people goes over the top just so they can make it on r/tinder.
post 1579544121 05-06-2019, 01:00 PM
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Went on badoo again they all ignore or are difficult ewww all the same
post 1579544261 05-06-2019, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
Went on badoo again they all ignore or are difficult ewww all the same
Starting to think you are DLB.
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post 1579546841 05-06-2019, 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Starting to think you are DLB.
They are all the same Lool what’s DBS?
post 1579547361 05-06-2019, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
Went on badoo again they all ignore or are difficult ewww all the same
Why isn't this troll banned, reported him 3 times already.
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post 1579548131 05-06-2019, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
They are all the same Lool what’s DBS?
That would be because I’m not a troll you dumbass as I’ve shown myself and proved the stuff I’m saying go learn what a troll is then come back to me numnut
post 1579548191 05-06-2019, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
That would be because I’m not a troll you dumbass as I’ve shown myself and proved the stuff I’m saying go learn what a troll is then come back to me numnut
You are definitely a troll.
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post 1579548461 05-06-2019, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
You are definitely a troll.
Why because I have an opnion on women? Tell me how I’m a troll exactly
post 1579548821 05-06-2019, 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I sense that Jimmy has a very low bar for what he considers a quality woman. Quality women either don't get on Tinder at all, or delete it quickly. They don't jerk off to the attention they get from horny creeps online.
Compared to what I see on here I feel like my standards are astronomical, but I also don't get caught up on any one detail and make a broad sweeping judgement about a person, like "quality women don't get on Tinder." For me, a quality women is Attractive, intelligent, friendly/caring/nice, enjoyable to be around, trustworthy, and has some passion/career they are pursuing.
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post 1579549121 05-06-2019, 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
Why because I have an opnion on women? Tell me how I’m a troll exactly
So... you drop in here randomly to insult people for dating and wasting time on women, all while trying new dating apps and failing miserably?

I mean, for your sake I'd really hope you're a troll - otherwise you'd truly be the most pathetic, mentally ill, creepy loser that I might have ever seen on this forum (and trust me that is bad, considering you're being compared to the likes of carsalesman).
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
And then he always gets mad and acts like he wants a relationship before we hang out. So then we argue and go NC on each other and don’t talk for weeks/months until he pops up again.

So not even sure what my question is but just would like some thoughts. I honestly can’t take him seriously but at the same time I feel kind of weird rejecting him every time for something that I actually really want in general. So sometimes I wonder if I should say yes and just go for it even though I know it won’t work.
So the obvious question is - would you want a relationship with him assuming he ended up being reliable?
And the follow up question is - when he does inevitably end up being unreliable, will it bother you psychologically?

Seems like a mess of a situation to me tbh, because I think you'd be knowingly disingenuous if you agreed to some sort of relationship with him. Because in the back of your mind you'll expect him to flake, and will never really commit to anything. Unless you set up some precedent or agreement to date for 6 months exclusively, and then commit more if he proved to be reliable. Again, seems messy.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
So... you drop in here randomly to insult people for dating and wasting time on women, all while trying new dating apps and failing miserably?

I mean, for your sake I'd really hope you're a troll - otherwise you'd truly be the most pathetic, mentally ill, creepy loser that I might have ever seen on this forum (and trust me that is bad, considering you're being compared to the likes of carsalesman).
Because all women do is reject and ignore or time waste and it’s depressin as f. U c k is all I’m saying yes I go on dating apps to see if anything has changed but it’s the same ****
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I have screenshots of me asking bout there interests asking genuine questions and they just ignore lol if I could post the pics on here I would
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Originally Posted By peter19996⏩
Because all women do is reject and ignore or time waste and it’s depressin as f. U c k is all I’m saying yes I go on dating apps to see if anything has changed but it’s the same ****
If you aren't a troll, contribute something meaningful instead of just whining and bitching like a little crybaby. Go away and don't post again unless you have something valuable to contribute. Nobody wants to hear your incessant whining.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
If you aren't a troll, contribute something meaningful instead of just whining and bitching like a little crybaby. Go away and don't post again unless you have something valuable to contribute. Nobody wants to hear your incessant whining.
Whatever
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
And then he always gets mad and acts like he wants a relationship before we hang out. So then we argue and go NC on each other and don’t talk for weeks/months until he pops up again.

So not even sure what my question is but just would like some thoughts. I honestly can’t take him seriously but at the same time I feel kind of weird rejecting him every time for something that I actually really want in general. So sometimes I wonder if I should say yes and just go for it even though I know it won’t work.
idk if i was you id give it a shot, is he unreliable because he gets upset when you dont want a relationship and then goes NC or is there more to him being unreliable? If hes only disappearing because he doesnt want to just date casually then id not make any mention of it, and just hang out with him and see what happens.
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Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
I understand what you are getting at, but I still don't think it is difficult to find women in America with those traits.
A large percentage of women have those traits. Most men fail to realize they themselves aren't worthy of somebody dedicating time and energy to nurture and serve.


I'm relatively convinced that men who complain about how low quality women are, tend to be low quality themselves.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah unreliable with disappearing and also with not wanting to actually hang out. Most of our conversations go like this:

NC for extended time

Him: I love you

Me: lol no

Him: I want a relationship

Me: lol no

Me: can we just hang out and see how it goes?

Him: will you stop talking to other guys

Me: you talk to other girls too

Him: I’ll stop if we start dating

Me: it’s not realistic but let’s just hang out and see

Him: I love you and I want you to be mine

Me: let’s meet up tomorrow and talk and just see

Him: NC

NC for extended time

Repeat
You are seriously retarded if you are attracted to that kind of immaturity.
Originally Posted By HayZues
A large percentage of women have those traits. Most men fail to realize they themselves aren't worthy of somebody dedicating time and energy to nurture and serve.


I'm relatively convinced that men who complain about how low quality women are, tend to be low quality themselves.
Only dates high quality women crew*
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Originally Posted By HayZues
A large percentage of women have those traits. Most men fail to realize they themselves aren't worthy of somebody dedicating time and energy to nurture and serve.

I'm relatively convinced that men who complain about how low quality women are, tend to be low quality themselves.
I'm relatively convinced you have some sort of superiority complex. Always suggesting you're a higher quality man than other posters. Didn't you admit in some thread recently that you treat your wife like garbage or was that someone else?
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