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05-08-2019, 09:22 AM
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Wow.. made a tinder 2 months ago and I have 165 matches total. 2 dates lined up for Saturday and 1 for Sunday evening. Downloaded Bumble last week and I only have 2 matches LOL. What’s the deal? Am I “attractive” or not.
05-08-2019, 09:27 AM
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05-08-2019, 10:00 AM
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Originally Posted By TacomaLust⏩
Same chit for me when I was on apps. My hinge popped right off, my tinder did *okay*, bumble was awfulWow.. made a tinder 2 months ago and I have 165 matches total. 2 dates lined up for Saturday and 1 for Sunday evening. Downloaded Bumble last week and I only have 2 matches LOL. What’s the deal? Am I “attractive” or not.
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05-08-2019, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I would love to see what flirting looks like between you and your FWB?Yeah your texting/flirting style is really cringy to me, but she obviously likes it and you’re getting results so that’s all that matters.
Originally Posted By jimbong⏩
Dooooo iittI think it is more just the feeling of seeing something semi-personal that you are normally not privy too. I'd guess most people would laugh at another's text game when they aren't engaged directly in the heat of the moment. Can't argue with results though, so I like seeing it.
And yaknow, I don't flirt regularly over text with my wife(at least not purposefully). I'm going to sprinkle some in now from time to time; props for the reminder.
And yaknow, I don't flirt regularly over text with my wife(at least not purposefully). I'm going to sprinkle some in now from time to time; props for the reminder.
Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
The cost of making a connection? Can't happen unless you make yourself vulnerable.but at what cost
Originally Posted By HayZues
True. I know there's a fine line and can't go overboard, but I'm pretty good and sensing where that line is and when to back off. Like I went completely cold after that. She happened to be just down the street from me when we were texting. I knew it, but she didn't. If I had suggested coming to give her that kiss in person would have been crossing that line.The problem is if a woman thinks you are more into her than she is you, it kills attraction.
Though that short text exchange ain't much. Read a to me like pondus was a few glasses of wine in and feeling mushy.
Though that short text exchange ain't much. Read a to me like pondus was a few glasses of wine in and feeling mushy.
I use my value to increase attraction and I have a way with words to make people feel good about themselves, build trust, and raport, so my mush comes off more and genuine than try hard. Wich is what I don't show you because it's pretty boring stuff.
I wasn't drinking. I'm just a mushy guy at times. LOL.
Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Honestly, you have to be a bit beta at times. That's the bait, then you release, and let her catch up.If you good looking, it will be assumed you a player. Good looking and smooth social skills/comfort around women, even more so. They will also throw it out there as a test to see if you dating others. As always, mystery is best unless you having exclusive talks as you are
Pondus: I'm sensing a sprinkle of beta developing in the text game
. Don't think I saw an update on how the date went with her.....

Pondus: I'm sensing a sprinkle of beta developing in the text game
. Don't think I saw an update on how the date went with her.....But it's all a balancing act and every women is different.
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05-08-2019, 11:02 AM
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05-08-2019, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah, boring, lacks creativity, could be talking to anyone one that way, not just you.Well the guys I talk to don’t really flirt or banter. They talk in a different style that’s more direct. They give compliments which I love but they do it in an outright way. Not a flirtatious banter innuendo type way. Examples:
You’re so beautiful
Damn you’re so hot
You’re fine af
Your body is perfect
I want you so bad
Etc
But again results are all that matters and your style is working for you because those girls like it.
You’re so beautiful
Damn you’re so hot
You’re fine af
Your body is perfect
I want you so bad
Etc
But again results are all that matters and your style is working for you because those girls like it.
Exactly what I expected. How do you not roll your eyes when you get texts like that?
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05-08-2019, 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Never BE beta. Go ahead and fake it if the situation calls, but dont ever BE beta.Honestly, you have to be a bit beta at times. That's the bait, then you release, and let her catch up.
But it's all a balancing act and every women is different.
But it's all a balancing act and every women is different.
The balance is very true. If you are only one person all the time, at best you will attract one type of female. Be liquid and take many shapes and your pool becomes an ocean.
Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
These guys aren't that into her though, so they aren't going to put in as much effort.Yeah, boring, lacks creativity, could be talking to anyone one that way, not just you.
Exactly what I expected. How do you not roll your eyes when you get texts like that?
Exactly what I expected. How do you not roll your eyes when you get texts like that?
I agree with SS though that the dad jokes and innuendo flirting by some of the O35 miscers on here are pretty cringe.
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05-08-2019, 11:50 AM
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05-08-2019, 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Or you just like getting your ego boosted.Well I like their direct style. To me flirtatious banter and innuendo are boring and that would make me roll my eyes. So just depends on the woman I guess.
Like HC, said, they are just looking for an easy target. I'm not. A woman that likes that kind of attention is not my type.
A lot of women I date ask me why men are like that and I can only ever come up with one reason: It works on some women. That's the kind of **** that drives away the type of women I am looking for. I want a woman that has high self esteem.
What sucks is women can't get away from it. Doesn't matter the dating app. Match.com, Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, men use the same shallow tactics. Which is why I always say, it doesn't matter which app you are using. It's all the same.
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05-08-2019, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
That kind of texts women like. I agree 100% with SS here.Yeah, boring, lacks creativity, could be talking to anyone one that way, not just you.
Exactly what I expected. How do you not roll your eyes when you get texts like that?
Exactly what I expected. How do you not roll your eyes when you get texts like that?
05-08-2019, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I refuse to be that shallow over text. I save it for in person, or at least until after we have already slept together. Then I will do it. Until then, I assume I would just be boosting her ego and getting nothing out of it.That kind of texts women like. I agree 100% with SS here.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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05-08-2019, 12:43 PM
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testing to see if this post works
MediocreGains:
I do apologize for being rude/sound offended and not clear in my post. I tried 6 freaking times to post my reply to you with details but this site won't let me. It must be something in my post that this site doesn't like
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I do apologize for being rude/sound offended and not clear in my post. I tried 6 freaking times to post my reply to you with details but this site won't let me. It must be something in my post that this site doesn't like
05-08-2019, 12:47 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
If your goal is to attract as many women as possible, sure. Mine isn't.If you are only one person all the time, at best you will attract one type of female. Be liquid and take many shapes and your pool becomes an ocean.
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05-08-2019, 12:59 PM
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Sometimes it rejects character sequences like "--". Next time remove all (non-alphabetical) chars like "-" and "(" etc. and attempt to post again.testing to see if this post works
MediocreGains:
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05-08-2019, 01:00 PM
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It's funny another woman I dated a few times that I felt was wasting my time texts me today
"It's been a while, but I just wanted to say hey! Hope you are doing well!"
If I were single I'd throw out some feelers because I found her attractive but she had a bad habit of cancelling on dates at times last minute. **** that.
"It's been a while, but I just wanted to say hey! Hope you are doing well!"
If I were single I'd throw out some feelers because I found her attractive but she had a bad habit of cancelling on dates at times last minute. **** that.
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05-08-2019, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
She's attention seeking.It's funny another woman I dated a few times that I felt was wasting my time texts me today
"It's been a while, but I just wanted to say hey! Hope you are doing well!"
If I were single I'd throw out some feelers because I found her attractive but she had a bad habit of cancelling on dates at times last minute. **** that.
"It's been a while, but I just wanted to say hey! Hope you are doing well!"
If I were single I'd throw out some feelers because I found her attractive but she had a bad habit of cancelling on dates at times last minute. **** that.
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05-08-2019, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
What's your goal? Is what you are doing working?If your goal is to attract as many women as possible, sure. Mine isn't.
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05-08-2019, 01:44 PM
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05-08-2019, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Being right... It never gets old.Yeah it is really nice and I love it.
And it’s a funny contrast with misc lol.
Brb texting with Chads:
You’re so beautiful
Damn you’re so hot
You’re fine af
Your body is perfect
I want you so bad
Brb switch to misc:
You’re so ugly
Damn you’re so old
You’re boring af
You’re so fat
Negged
And it’s a funny contrast with misc lol.
Brb texting with Chads:
You’re so beautiful
Damn you’re so hot
You’re fine af
Your body is perfect
I want you so bad
Brb switch to misc:
You’re so ugly
Damn you’re so old
You’re boring af
You’re so fat
Negged
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05-08-2019, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Ye, what's interesting about women is they almost want a guy to lie to them (as long as he doesn't admit he's lying so they can rationalize it as truth) for feeeellzzzz. I won't; if I think you're fine af or wanna fuk you, I'll let you know. Otherwise I'm not throwing fake compliments around.Yeah it is really nice and I love it.
And it’s a funny contrast with misc lol.
Brb texting with Chads:
You’re so beautiful
Damn you’re so hot
You’re fine af
Your body is perfect
I want you so bad
Brb switch to misc:
You’re so ugly
Damn you’re so old
You’re boring af
You’re so fat
Negged
And it’s a funny contrast with misc lol.
Brb texting with Chads:
You’re so beautiful
Damn you’re so hot
You’re fine af
Your body is perfect
I want you so bad
Brb switch to misc:
You’re so ugly
Damn you’re so old
You’re boring af
You’re so fat
Negged
I do have more tact than I used to though; like I'll withhold negative or critical observations unless they're constructive.
Example:
- In a clothing store and she tries on a dress. "Do I look fat in this?" "Ye, kinda. It doesn't fit well tbh."
- About to go to an event and she's spent an hour getting ready. "Do I look fat in this?" "You look good."
I think white lies/dodges like that are okay in very limited circumstances, where the truth is gong to be entirely destructive. Open to arguments against that though.
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05-08-2019, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Maybe for SS... I still feel like she's trolling us though...Ye, what's interesting about women is they almost want a guy to lie to them (as long as he doesn't admit he's lying so they can rationalize it as truth) for feeeellzzzz. I won't; if I think you're fine af or wanna fuk you, I'll let you know. Otherwise I'm not throwing fake compliments around.
I do have more tact than I used to though; like I'll withhold negative or critical observations unless they're constructive.
Example:
- In a clothing store and she tries on a dress. "Do I look fat in this?" "Ye, kinda. It doesn't fit well tbh."
- About to go to an event and she's spent an hour getting ready. "Do I look fat in this?" "You look good."
I think white lies/dodges like that are okay in very limited circumstances, where the truth is gong to be entirely destructive. Open to arguments against that though.
I do have more tact than I used to though; like I'll withhold negative or critical observations unless they're constructive.
Example:
- In a clothing store and she tries on a dress. "Do I look fat in this?" "Ye, kinda. It doesn't fit well tbh."
- About to go to an event and she's spent an hour getting ready. "Do I look fat in this?" "You look good."
I think white lies/dodges like that are okay in very limited circumstances, where the truth is gong to be entirely destructive. Open to arguments against that though.
05-08-2019, 02:39 PM
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05-08-2019, 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I think she's semi-trolling.Maybe for SS... I still feel like she's trolling us though...
- She's being honest about what she likes (which isn't normal for a 40-something year old women, and I'm surprised she tried to refute that with me after admitting it before).
- She's also kinda trolling because she knows how ridiculous it is and that it'll get a reaction on here.
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05-08-2019, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You strawman way too much, but I suspect it isn't intentional and you're just a poor debater. Next time before you respond to a post, think to yourself "am I refuting the point here, or just refuting a strawman that's easy and obvious".Well hopefully they’re not lying.
And of course dating, sex, and love are about feelings. What else would they be about??
Now once you’re moving toward marriage then yes you have to look at practical things like will this person be a good husband/wife, a good parent etc. Or some people look at it as a business partnership and an exchange of money or services. But love and sex itself are about feelings.

And of course dating, sex, and love are about feelings. What else would they be about??
Now once you’re moving toward marriage then yes you have to look at practical things like will this person be a good husband/wife, a good parent etc. Or some people look at it as a business partnership and an exchange of money or services. But love and sex itself are about feelings.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Yeah I don't know anyone IRL that texts like that. Everyone is different though...I think she's semi-trolling.
- She's being honest about what she likes (which isn't normal for a 40-something year old women, and I'm surprised she tried to refute that with me after admitting it before).
- She's also kinda trolling because she knows how ridiculous it is and that it'll get a reaction on here.
- She's being honest about what she likes (which isn't normal for a 40-something year old women, and I'm surprised she tried to refute that with me after admitting it before).
- She's also kinda trolling because she knows how ridiculous it is and that it'll get a reaction on here.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It's almost as if men will butter a woman up to get what he wants. But no I'm sure the misc is completely wrong about you.Yeah it is really nice and I love it.
And it’s a funny contrast with misc lol.
Brb texting with Chads:
You’re so beautiful
Damn you’re so hot
You’re fine af
Your body is perfect
I want you so bad
Brb switch to misc:
You’re so ugly
Damn you’re so old
You’re boring af
You’re so fat
Negged
And it’s a funny contrast with misc lol.
Brb texting with Chads:
You’re so beautiful
Damn you’re so hot
You’re fine af
Your body is perfect
I want you so bad
Brb switch to misc:
You’re so ugly
Damn you’re so old
You’re boring af
You’re so fat
Negged
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
Apology acceptedtesting to see if this post works
MediocreGains:
I do apologize for being rude/sound offended and not clear in my post. I tried 6 freaking times to post my reply to you with details but this site won't let me. It must be something in my post that this site doesn't like
MediocreGains:
I do apologize for being rude/sound offended and not clear in my post. I tried 6 freaking times to post my reply to you with details but this site won't let me. It must be something in my post that this site doesn't like
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Pretty much. True of men at times too, but to a lesser extent.Ye, what's interesting about women is they almost want a guy to lie to them (as long as he doesn't admit he's lying so they can rationalize it as truth) for feeeellzzzz. I won't; if I think you're fine af or wanna fuk you, I'll let you know. Otherwise I'm not throwing fake compliments around.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
This post sounds absolutely salty at SS. Her FWB has been in her life for 2 years. lol You really think he's not attracted to her? We've all seen pics of women who are in their 40's and look incredible. Why would you assume SS doesn't? She gets 22 year old Chads and matches with models and athletes on Tinder FFS. The guys who've seen her pics admit she's attractive. There's really no reason for you to be so nasty to someone that's never been nasty to you and is doing no one any harm, unless you're just salty about something.Ye, what's interesting about women is they almost want a guy to lie to them (as long as he doesn't admit he's lying so they can rationalize it as truth) for feeeellzzzz. I won't; if I think you're fine af or wanna fuk you, I'll let you know. Otherwise I'm not throwing fake compliments around.
I do have more tact than I used to though; like I'll withhold negative or critical observations unless they're constructive.
Example:
- In a clothing store and she tries on a dress. "Do I look fat in this?" "Ye, kinda. It doesn't fit well tbh."
- About to go to an event and she's spent an hour getting ready. "Do I look fat in this?" "You look good."
I think white lies/dodges like that are okay in very limited circumstances, where the truth is gong to be entirely destructive. Open to arguments against that though.
I do have more tact than I used to though; like I'll withhold negative or critical observations unless they're constructive.
Example:
- In a clothing store and she tries on a dress. "Do I look fat in this?" "Ye, kinda. It doesn't fit well tbh."
- About to go to an event and she's spent an hour getting ready. "Do I look fat in this?" "You look good."
I think white lies/dodges like that are okay in very limited circumstances, where the truth is gong to be entirely destructive. Open to arguments against that though.
When you tell a woman you're involved with that she's sexy or hot or whatever, are you lying?
~ In a world where you can be anything, be kind ~
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