Still amazes me some of you *******s can't figure dating out. I literally have 3 or 4 girls on rotation at any given time and i never stop going out with new ones. Use all of your tools at your disposal. Every single girl for the most part uses apps. Going out to bars is a waste of time. Swipe, match, make some sort of small talk and secure her real number and a date on the calender within 2 days of swiping on the broad. Guys excel at the in person game. Girls talk big chit online but are usually submissive in person. Be a well groomed, well spoken dominant man in person and they will likely want to see you again. Some girls flake out after a few days (most do). You need to establish a first kiss on the first date to gauge her interest. If she wants to see you again, make it so that you end up back at your place. You have to constantly work on leveling up your relationship with women or you will be friend zoned. Keep her mind intrigued. As soon as you lose her interest or you become too predictable, its going to be over for you.

You're right. Your previous point about it not being about women was important too though. I would like to have more experiences and hobbies in general.Last part sounds exhausting.

for real. And people look up to these dudes. they get like 20k views a stream. its sad.

lol if sloots aren’t approaching you are

Most incels can't fathom doing a fraction of this. That's fine but then they should accept the results and stop crying about women.

It's like skipping class and whining about why you get bad grades. Direct result of your actions, stupid.

Yeah man, life isn't all about getting girls. But having more going on increases your chances of meeting someone.

While I agree with you, most of these guys are probably average in looks or slightly below average. Online dating is gonna be a nightmare for them.

I can understand that.Thats kind of where Im at. Not bald but balding so I shave my head. Got a decent head though and great beard genetics so its not a total wash. Im taller but overall just not handsome. Ive had women tell me I look good but tough to tell if its the truth. They are usually friends or randoms I assume are being polite.

In HS I did ok. Was super ****ing awkward and blew a good 3 potential relationships. Had 2 gfs in HS and lost my virginity my senior year. Girls I could pull are usually 5-6s. Got out of HS and entered into a horrendous 11 year relationship with a solid 8 who proved to me looks sure as **** arent eveything. Then again I hung around for 11 years.


Overall Im probably not as bad as I think I am but **** that mental block is killing me. Its like I dont believe in myself anymore. I went after my oneitis recently and bombed so hard it ****ing rattled me. Ive known her since we were in the 2nd grade and that woman can just mop the floor with me. I think the test I failed was I wasnt supossed to want to contact her at all. Instead I turned into the 6 year old version of myself.

I wouldnt mind trying tinder again but Im the type that looks worse in pictures, plus Im horrible at taking them and in a new city. Did make a new friend though.

None of the bolded happens if a girl doesn't match with you.

Lol

This.

Getting a match as a guy with facial flaws is damn hard and even if you do they’ll barely respond

why the **** are you hitting on your friends ex? Scum

cuz she hunts and isnt fat.

Show her the picture of that coues you shot. Guarantee she’ll leave a snail trail all the way to your place.

I DID! thats what i opened with. shes down with coues, but i asked her to hunt mule deer friday morning. i think she must be with some other instagram coues hunter fml.

Y'all need to dress better also.

Sad if true. Have you tried dating apps?

just be a chad works everytime

i have, used to do good. but now only match with ugly and overweight chicks. the only pics i have of myself im wearing sunglasses and holding a fish though.

This phucking thread right here....my god.

I try to help you guys as much as I can, because I have a full busy life, but then I see threads like this and just go "WTF?!?!"

How is it possible that so many of you, have such an impossible time understanding that NOBODY (men or women) will find you to be an attractive PERSON if you are a meek little beta with nothing going on in your life, no accomplishments (real life, not video games), no profession, no skills, no growth, no solid foundation of who you are, what you believe in, what you stand for, etc.

I don't have the time to spell it all out for you plebs, so I'll refer you to Jordan Peterson, he lays it out pretty well, as a MAN you need to have competence, you need to have control over your life...start small, manage your room, manage your house, manage yourself, ALWAYS dress well, ALWAYS be well groomed, keep stepping up in your job, take on more responsibility, get promotions, more money = more freedom, more freedom to do interesting things with the money, learn to control your money, finances, investing, have this on lock down (this alone is attractive).

None of this chit happens overnight, you can't just take a couple decent pics for you online dating profile and think you will slay, while the rest of your life is undeveloped garbage.

Men need to continually grow and stack their talents, keep improving, start with the basic stuff listed above, and grow from there. This is not a process of days, weeks months....this is the process of your LIFE.

So many of you sit in your damn rooms doing nothing.....I don't want to pick on anybody in particular but this jumped out at me:
Imagine being this guy.....

Imagine you have any clue who these losers on these stupid streaming sites are

Imagine watching the lives of OTHER people

Imagine being such a beta you identify with the slightly-less betas in the video....."bro that's my man Sliker!" What the literal phuck!

Imagine knowing not only who that bald guy is, but knowing his personality quirks off the top of your head

Imagine being able to quote what he's said in other streams, about premature ejaculation....

Then imagine taking the time to type that up, and thinking its a reasonable thing to say to people who who live their lives in the real world (rather than existing exclusively in virtual worlds, which so many of you clearly do)

.....imagine being surprised, confused, frustrated or whatever, that you can't get girls, or suck socially, when you are THIS disconnected from reality.

GET OUT OF THE VIRTUAL WORLDS - YOU NEED TO LEVEL-UP YOUR REAL LIFE AVATAR!

words of wisdom

that sounds like a massive amount of effort srs

the key is to become a bar fly srs

you're not investing your time meeting girls, you're enjoying your time being a drunk

you're not "cold approaching" sloots, you're trolling random broads for your entertainment

always works for me

the downside is that even if you find a seemingly perfect gal, she's probably gonna fukken piss you off and not necessarily make you happier overall

hole is hole though, i suppose

Started doing this. I wont lie even I noticed the **** makes a difference.

Women atleast ones of quality like a well dressed man. Honestly it doesn't have to be expensive clothing either. If you have a good physique and dress decently with good fitting clothing, they will notice.

Now that I think about it, I haven't either. This includes ugly and short guys.

Even if you have zero talent for something, you put enough effort into it and you're going to be at least mediocre at it unless you're disabled or retarded in some way.True, but a lot of these guys don't even drink.Fukin lol. Far more common that incels either come from single mother households, had sloots for mothers, or both.Yes and no. I've said this before, but you have no understanding of attraction. Yes, it's because she thinks he's attractive, but it's not because she has some weird fetish for ugly dues or is delusional. There are other factors to attraction besides the face.I think that's completely fair. You play the hand that you're dealt, and it makes sense to focus on what you're better at instead.

The only problem I have is the constant whining from eod and the like. It's annoying and also extremely unmanly.

I’m torn on this topic.

On one hand, there is more to life than just women. Doing other things that make you happy, hobbies, achieving your goals at work, in the gym, starting your own business etc.

But then on the other hand I feel it all circles back to women. The point of life is procreation and furthering the human race. In the age of equality and sexual liberty we think everyone deserves a mate. The lowest percentiles do not reproduce for both men and women. This sad truth is this is a fact of life, has happened for thousands of years and will keep happening. Just focus on yourself and being the best version of you. That is while on the hunt and in the relationship too.

This is the fckn truth. This needs to be post needs to be stickied somewhere on the front page of the misc. Whinny little incel bitch crew would die instantly.

I've been that guy. A neet weeb living in his moms house no job afraid of the world staying in my comfort zone. Now I'm actively getting out of it. Making a ton of progress trying new things. Even though this is the toughest transition of my life I wouldnt go back for the world. I love these growing pains and looking stupid. I love the potential I see ahead.

you werent scared of getting metoo'd brah?

I've never said anything like the bolded and underlined, so I don't know why you wrote that to me. I don't know why you seem to think I'm an incel.

If you don't like streaming sites... That's cool.

The misc is a virtual world too, so are you going to ask for a permaban?

Also, regarding the misc I can talk about some miscer's personality quirks, and I can remember some posts that miscers made. I think that if a person spends time on any site that will happen, you become familiar with the personalities... I'm honestly not sure why you seem to be so surprised and disgusted by that.

Good to hear. I recently made a dumb mistake. My new place is a complex that just opened. They threw a white elephant party for residents and I skipped it. Caught the end when I was coming back in from work.

Bunch of cute chicks. Everyone chatting and enjoying themsleves. Realized im new to the city and skipping this was a dumb move. Vowed to attend the next "event"