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post 1615829141 09-07-2020, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted By rgnx⏩
Dave, stfu, nobody has to live life by your standards. (which are chit, btw)

I'm somebody who never had my chit together at 28 years old. Listened to people like you talking down to me all my life, and according to you I would be a man child.

It took me later than most to make something out of my life, but now I'm 30 and literally make 4x what you make in a month.

Not everybody's path in life is the same, *******
So being a deadbeat for 10 years is not a chit standard?
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Originally Posted By rgnx⏩
Ok, that's immature memcap.

Whether or not I am handicapped is irrelevant, making fun of handicapped people is straight up douchebag move.

Everybody has a handicap in one form or the other, live is hard and difficult for each of us in our own ways.
Handicapped is the only excuse to stay home that long. I'm not making fun of handicappers. The little fuggers are so cute with their little munch faces. Hearts of gold.

Otherwise you are a man baby.

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post 1615829271 09-07-2020, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
This is the half of the story that is missing. And this is the most likely scenario.

Oh well, another simp was born.
this!

Father might be kicking him out due to the kid being mischievous in one of many possible ways.

I don't think Westerners have a mindset to kick their kids out - all of my friends who are from London and work in London live with parents and contribute to chores/bills.

That way, saving for a deposit for a flat is much faster because a tiny bit of your annual salary is spent compared to full-blown rent. Just throwing money away, really.
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post 1615829351 09-07-2020, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted By spacecowb0y⏩
So being a deadbeat for 10 years is not a chit standard?
It definitely is. But shouldn't define that person.

After all, life is a continuous journey.. always improving.

I'm not advocating that rotting is a good thing, it's just that I am a perfect example of a rotter turning his life around and becoming successful.
post 1615829561 09-07-2020, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
Handicapped is the only excuse to stay home that long. I'm not making fun of handicappers. The little fuggers are so cute with their little munch faces. Hearts of gold.

Otherwise you are a man baby.

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Memcop, I literally had 3 days off in 2019. and 1 day off in 2020. I put in the work, and am the farthest thing from entittled.

That's from a former manchild rotter. All it took is me finding my purpose and something to work for. That's not easy to find for many young men now days, you should know that.
post 1615829691 09-07-2020, 12:59 PM
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Honestly if the mom is telling the truth here (kid spends time studying, wants to delay college to figure out what he wants to do first) I think she’s in the right. Kicking your kid out just because they’re an “adult” is stupid. Family should always stick together.
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post 1615829801 09-07-2020, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted By rgnx⏩
It definitely is. But shouldn't define that person.

After all, life is a continuous journey.. always improving.

I'm not advocating that rotting is a good thing, it's just that I am a perfect example of a rotter turning his life around and becoming successful.
Then why do you take issue with people discouraging that behaviour?
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Originally Posted By DassItMan⏩
Then why do you take issue with people discouraging that behaviour?
Because I believe the issue is with young men, finding purpose and goals.

Young men are simply misguided, I was one of them.

They need help finding their path, not being put down constantly by the world around them. I always thought I was just a loser, thought about suicide more than most people, etc.

But turns out I wasn't a loser, I just needed an opportunity to prove myself. And for me, it just happened a lot later than most.
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Originally Posted By esmile⏩
Honestly if the mom is telling the truth here (kid spends time studying, wants to delay college to figure out what he wants to do first) I think she’s in the right. Kicking your kid out just because they’re an “adult” is stupid. Family should always stick together.




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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
I believe most "men" these days need a good kick in the ass.
And I agree. I wish I had some kind of mentor figure or guidance to kick my ass in the right direction. But most young people don't have that. For me, personally I think having the right person to kick my ass (for my own good) would've been a tremendous help.

Unfortunately, for most people, the people kicking our asses are people trying to drag us down into further negativity.
post 1615832201 09-07-2020, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted By rgnx⏩
Dave, stfu, nobody has to live life by your standards. (which are chit, btw)

I'm somebody who never had my chit together at 28 years old. Listened to people like you talking down to me all my life, and according to you I would be a man child.

It took me later than most to make something out of my life, but now I'm 30 and literally make 4x what you make in a month.

Not everybody's path in life is the same, *******
You lived at home till you were 30??? **** sake, is this the standard nowadays???
post 1615832321 09-07-2020, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted By rgnx⏩
Ok, that's immature memcap.

Whether or not I am handicapped is irrelevant, making fun of handicapped people is straight up douchebag move.

Everybody has a handicap in one form or the other, live is hard and difficult for each of us in our own ways.
Wait........are you handicapped?
post 1615832381 09-07-2020, 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
I disagree, and by seeing you post that I now question the validity of everything else you posted ITT.
Don't see why you would.

You think the average person has people around them trying to build them up? I never did.

I had a lot of people judging me, looking down at me, and that's about it.
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Originally Posted By rgnx⏩
And I agree. I wish I had some kind of mentor figure or guidance to kick my ass in the right direction. But most young people don't have that. For me, personally I think having the right person to kick my ass (for my own good) would've been a tremendous help.

Unfortunately, for most people, the people kicking our asses are people trying to drag us down into further negativity.
I took that negative energy and transmuted it into fuel for the flame that was my drive to make good money.
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post 1615832701 09-07-2020, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
You lived at home till you were 30??? **** sake, is this the standard nowadays???
I still live at home actually. But I work 7 days, and literally only go home to sleep.

I live in Hawaii where a decent 1 bedroom is $2k/month. Even a police officer like you would struggle to rent here with a officer's salary.

I don't care what the standards are, I make $20k/month and it's growing every month. My only standard is making atleast $20k/month, now days.
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Originally Posted By rgnx⏩
I still live at home actually. But I work 7 days, and literally only go home to sleep.

I live in Hawaii where a decent 1 bedroom is $2k/month. Even a police officer like you would struggle to rent here with a officer's salary.

I don't care what the standards are, I make $20k/month and it's growing every month. My only standard is making atleast $20k/month, now days.
You still live at home while supposedly making 20k a month???
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I can picture some of you people having a babysitter till they were 16 years old, not getting a DL till they were 21, and now owning their own personal car till they were 25......
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Originally Posted By rgnx⏩
I still live at home actually. But I work 7 days, and literally only go home to sleep.

I live in Hawaii where a decent 1 bedroom is $2k/month. Even a police officer like you would struggle to rent here with a officer's salary.

I don't care what the standards are, I make $20k/month and it's growing every month. My only standard is making atleast $20k/month, now days.
My brother in law is HPD. It's not as hard as you think. He bought a home there when he was a rookie.
I was also hired but declined and went back home. He does just fine there.


Plus I doubt this Dave dude is an actual cop for what that's worth. Anyone who's a misc cop or even a fake one gets known in the LE thread as either or.

Unless I'm mistaken. I think hes the racist poster from R&P.
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post 1615834831 09-07-2020, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
Plus I doubt this Dave dude is an actual cop for what that's worth. Anyone who's a misc cop or even a fake one gets known in the LE thread as either or.

Unless I'm mistaken. I think hes the racist poster from R&P.
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Originally Posted By hotsaucebrah⏩
The forcing your children out of the house at 18 and having them take on a bunch of student loan debt is a bizarre American tradition.
This, wouldn't even consider "forcing" my kids out if they want to stay until they're done with school. Unfortunately the environment is such that it takes much longer to be prepared to leave a home unless you want to saddle yourself with substantial debt.
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
My brother in law is HPD. It's not as hard as you think. He bought a home there when he was a rookie.
I was also hired but declined and went back home. He does just fine there.


Plus I doubt this Dave dude is an actual cop for what that's worth. Anyone who's a misc cop or even a fake one gets known in the LE thread as either or.

Unless I'm mistaken. I think hes the racist poster from R&P.
Not a fake cop, not a racist either. Miscers will call me racist but....they're miscers, they call everyone racist.

And I don't post in the LE thread, because.....why should I?

But if you think I'm lying, then I don't know what to tell you. I'm working another 12hr day today on labor day, so I'm gonna make over 16brs of comp time today.
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Lol the dad is an idiot. Probably has some weird complex toward his son.
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Mom is right, the dad is most probably a broke mfkr (carsalesman) and afraid of potential financial burden but trying to pass it as tough love.
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
You still live at home while supposedly making 20k a month???
Yes, but last year at this time I was in the red. I own a new business.

I work every day, all day so I only go home to sleep. I don't need to pay someone else $2k/month for somewhere to sleep, I'd rather give half of that to my retired parents (for now)

and thanks for the angry rep
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Originally Posted By rgnx⏩
Yes, but last year at this time I was in the red. I own a new business.

I work every day, all day so I only go home to sleep. I don't need to pay someone else $2k/month for somewhere to sleep, I'd rather give half of that to my retired parents (for now)

and thanks for the angry rep
Just returned the favor, and you're telling me that you can't find a place in all of Hawaii, that won't charge you 2k a month for rent?

And if you're making 20k a month, that would be nothing.
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Originally Posted By BigElephant⏩
Bad situation all around. The dad is an idiot, and the mom will definitely end up spoiling him now without the balance of a more stern parental figure in his life.
Well, at least he won't have to pay child support.
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
Plus I doubt this Dave dude is an actual cop for what that's worth. Anyone who's a misc cop or even a fake one gets known in the LE thread as either or.

Unless I'm mistaken. I think hes the racist poster from R&P.
I mean maybe we should indeed take his views about how to treat 17-year-olds more seriously. Considering his mental capabilities never seem to have improved since his late teenage years, he might have more insight into a teenager's mind than most people ITT.
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Just returned the favor, and you're telling me that you can't find a place in all of Hawaii, that won't charge you 2k a month for rent?

And if you're making 20k a month, that would be nothing.
Honestly, $2k isn't a huge deal, but I wouldn't say it's nothing. Last month I spent $30k on business expenses, so all these $2k, $3k, $4k expenses add up to quite a bit.

If i'm spending $2k on a place, I want value out of it. I already have somewhere comfortable to sleep that I don't need to pay $2k for.
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Incels itt hate women so much they think they are always wrong.

Nothing more retarded than forcing a kid into college right after college. And if it is exactly like how the mom told us that dad is a retarded kunt.

Then again there could be a story that she didnt tell us so who knows.

Edit: learn from Jews a bit. They support their own children instead of bashing them/ kicking them out without turning them into basement dwellers. They pay no 'student' loans or whatever loans and make the money grow within the family instead of giving it all to the government.

And from the Jewish community that I know from my city 30-40ish dudes living with their parents is not frowned upon. Lots of Jewish family mansions here where at least 3 generations live together.
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