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post 1638888273 05-18-2021, 08:01 PM
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... this is high school stuff OP.. For someone that downgraded her to FWB status, you sure care a lot about her friends and family gaslighting you. This should be an open and shut case.
post 1638888533 05-18-2021, 08:05 PM
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Yeah, this is an instance of Misc suspicion and stereotypes being correct.
post 1638888553 05-18-2021, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
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... this is high school stuff OP.. For someone that downgraded her to FWB status, you sure care a lot about her friends and family gaslighting you. This should be an open and shut case.
Nah don’t care. Really just sharing with the misc an amusing story and crazy girl logic
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post 1638889013 05-18-2021, 08:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Dyel1991⏩
Nah don’t care. Really just sharing with the misc an amusing story and crazy girl logic
hope you're tellin the truth breh. good luck
post 1638889213 05-18-2021, 08:21 PM
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These kinds of women, for all the pros they may bring, are fuggin dumb...just no other way of putting it. If you want a relationship with someone, be prepared to make sacrifices. If you can’t, then don’t force a relationship...simple. You can’t have it all. Women like this deserve all the depression they experience and antidepressants they’re about to chug for making the stupidest fugging decisions.

They never understand your reasoning unless the roles are reversed. Had one ex a long time ago that I’m assuming was trying to make me mad just before breaking up. She was hanging out with a guy and saying they were just friends throughout college and didn’t understand why I was being so controlling. Another girl who I had been friends with for a time asked if I wanted to hang out around the same time. My gf got word and kept blowing up my phone saying “she’s trying to get with you” and throwing a tantrum...pulling out all the stops to make sure I didn’t hook up with her. She immediately promised never to see that guy again and even to move back home from college if I’d stop hanging out with that chick alone lol.

It’s like a power thing...when they’re dating you, their ego makes them think they are the prize and you’ll be there fighting for her no matter what. This chick and her family/friends think they own you and are lucky to be with her. If I were you, I’d definitely explore other options and relegate her to the back burner. Have your fun with her if you want, but look for serious dating options elsewhere. If you do that, be comfortable with the fact she may come to you one day and say she’s dating the brother or back with her ex...be comfortable enough and distanced enough to not let that bother you. Nothing like another prime piece of poon to clear your head.
post 1638889403 05-18-2021, 08:24 PM
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post 1638889693 05-18-2021, 08:28 PM
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You did good. Girls should know better when they decide to have a guy “best” friend. Next
post 1638889733 05-18-2021, 08:29 PM
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mind=blown @ women who expect a man to be okay with keeping contact & apparently oversea travels with an ex lovers family

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post 1638889803 05-18-2021, 08:30 PM
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She actually probably really thinks they will be “friends” and that nothing will happen. But 100% they will bang. Girls are dumb.
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post 1638890223 05-18-2021, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Dyel1991⏩
Started talking like January 2020. I was too busy slaying and then covid happened. She wasnt a high priority. Started hanging out and going on dates in June. I was still seeing other girls at the time. She finally brought up the "what are we?" convo in september. I like her and she had the qualities I liked so I was down to give the whole girlfriend thing a shot. Late November is the first time I started hearing about this dude. Shut it down. Did the whole christmas with her family, flied me out to florida twice to meet her dad, etc. All the couple ****. Broke up with her in february. She came back like 2 weeks later. Been doing the whole hangout fuq buddy on my terms since. Just heard about this trip yesterday and went NC
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post 1638890493 05-18-2021, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted By jlick⏩
I mean, 5 years is a long time. Long enough to form some real relationships with these people (brother/sister). I would be kind of weirded out too but if she hasn't given you a reason not to trust her, why start now? A good conservative woman is hard to find these days. at least in california.
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post 1638890953 05-18-2021, 08:53 PM
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What a stupid and pointless LARP.


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post 1638891223 05-18-2021, 08:57 PM
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Haven’t read thread but I agree it’s weird. There are circumstances I wouldn’t care if my girl was around her ex, that’s not one of them.
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post 1638938133 05-19-2021, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted By mulletwarrior⏩
She actually probably really thinks they will be “friends” and that nothing will happen. But 100% they will bang. Girls are dumb.
I agree with this. I truly believe she genuinely thinks they are just friends and he has no other motives... girls really don’t get guys
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post 1638938453 05-19-2021, 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Dyel1991⏩
I agree with this. I truly believe she genuinely thinks they are just friends and he has no other motives... girls really don’t get guys
There's something else off about this tho.

Like, if this guy is Chad enough to bang all of her friends, why would he hang around your girl for 5 years like some orbiter?
post 1638938613 05-19-2021, 11:25 AM
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Imagine that you two get into an argument....who is she going to go cry to?

This simp. He will give her a shoulder to cry on while he trying to get in her panties.
post 1638938683 05-19-2021, 11:25 AM
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Didn't read, but not a chance. I don't make a girl my gf if she has ANY male friends. Acquaintances, mutual friends in the social circle etc., are fine, but friends in the term that those two have a relationship and see each other. However, I don't tell girls what to do. There's no point, it makes you look weak, and they'll eventually do what they want anyway. So if a girl does this kinda ****, demote her to fuk buddy. You don't even have to tell her you demoted her lmao just do it in your own mind
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post 1638939063 05-19-2021, 11:29 AM
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post 1638939233 05-19-2021, 11:31 AM
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post 1638939373 05-19-2021, 11:33 AM
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Naw you ain't crazy bro. She has a past life with her ex that she can't let go and move on. It's weird as fuk and childish IMO, only time ex needs be involved is if ya had kiddos and were coparenting.

I'd nope outta that so fast and it's not fair to ask her to drop them to be with you as that would lead to resentment. Sad to say but due to her clinging to her past ya gotta move on. My .02 some dudes would be fine with it and pretty sure they cuckholds.
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Originally Posted By Dyel1991⏩
I said hell no and went NC, but now her family and friends are hassling me. Saying I shouldn’t have a problem with it and they are just friends and he is like a brother to her.

I’m not crazy, right? That’s Fukin weird to be hanging with your ex’s family, right?
He thinks if he sticks around he can be the white knight and slay the poon. I was on the other end one time. This girl ended her friendship with her bestfriend because the bestfriend told me about her boyfriend lmao. But because big tittays are hypnotizing I thought maybe since she lied about him, she still wanted me. At the end I dipped and went NC.
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The more I think about this situation, the weirder it is. Are you leaving something out, OP?

I can see a situation where someone stays casually in touch with an ex's parents or cousins or something if they were together for 5 years and became part of the family, so to speak. It's not exactly normal but I've known of similar situations like that before.

But to then become "platonic best friends" with the BROTHER who's allegedly a slayer that banged all of her friends?

OP, take her back, so I can find out how this plays out. I'm fascinated.
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Every "female Friend" I've ever had I've had sex with at some point. That doesn't mean that I would on am overseas trip, but there has always been sexual history.

There's a funny video of a podcast getting a female perspective on if men and women can be friends, and she said she has a guy best friend who's like a brother and they wouldn't cause their relationship isn't like that. The people on the podcast tell her to message him "I'm horny" to see his response, he face times her immediately and she goes with it and asks him if hes down to have sex and instantly he says "Yes!".

It given the opportunity, it will always come down to this
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Originally Posted By soberchuck⏩
The more I think about this situation, the weirder it is. Are you leaving something out, OP?

I can see a situation where someone stays casually in touch with an ex's parents or cousins or something if they were together for 5 years and became part of the family, so to speak. It's not exactly normal but I've known of similar situations like that before.

But to then become "platonic best friends" with the BROTHER who's allegedly a slayer that banged all of her friends?

OP, take her back, so I can find out how this plays out. I'm fascinated.
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fukn women. Ask her the same thing in reverse. Say you want to go fly somewhere to meet your ex's brother. See how she responds.
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Originally Posted By Jaydawg08⏩
Every "female Friend" I've ever had I've had sex with at some point. That doesn't mean that I would on am overseas trip, but there has always been sexual history.

There's a funny video of a podcast getting a female perspective on if men and women can be friends, and she said she has a guy best friend who's like a brother and they wouldn't cause their relationship isn't like that. The people on the podcast tell her to message him "I'm horny" to see his response, he face times her immediately and she goes with it and asks him if hes down to have sex and instantly he says "Yes!".

It given the opportunity, it will always come down to this
And after all of that, did she bang?
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Sloots gon sloot. Especially when on vacation. I'm gonna say it cuz no one else said it yet. She gonna get DP'd by the brother and her ex while overseas. Since she hang out with the whole family the dad might even join in.

But srs. Seems like a huge hassle. The choice is clear OP

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so she's perfect in every way except for some miscer insecurity on your part

hm
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
so she's perfect in every way except for some miscer insecurity on your part

hm
Nah, I don't think he's overreacting here.

Most girls are going to have guy friends but this is her ex's brother that she wants to meet up with, on her own, in another country.

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