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Thread: Required reading on the problem with modern dating

post 1642829313 07-14-2021, 11:00 AM
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I'm not gonna read the whole through bro but you should wear shoe lifts
post 1642830123 07-14-2021, 11:10 AM
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more and more peopel are fat now. even in 20's.

that makes pool of ATTRACTIVE single people even smaller.

guess what that does to the dating market? Go to Europe where there's tons of hot women everywhere. Guys don't GAF.

Men in western countries here are sexually deprived and it shows with how much they sepdn on onlyfans.
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post 1642830283 07-14-2021, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted By BigDeeps01⏩
I'm not gonna read the whole through bro but you should wear shoe lifts
Shoe lifts aren't going to solve the sweeping societal trends the article discusses
post 1642830423 07-14-2021, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Redundanteater⏩
There willalwaysbe opportunities for smart, strong, consistent and persistent men. Think hard, and optimize your life to the best of your ability.
We can't all be kings. We can't all be in the top 20%. Average women need to accept average men
post 1642830503 07-14-2021, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Can confirm looks is everything.

I’ve never gone for anything else.
probably explains why you are old, washed up, single

and post all day on a gay Indian bodybuilding forum no?

no insight = no future

most well adjusted females have a family, child etc...

good luck SS
post 1642830533 07-14-2021, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By RocknRollMuscle⏩
more and more peopel are fat now. even in 20's.

that makes pool of ATTRACTIVE single people even smaller.

guess what that does to the dating market? Go to Europe where there's tons of hot women everywhere. Guys don't GAF.

Men in western countries here are sexually deprived and it shows with how much they sepdn on onlyfans.
This is a missing piece that applies specifically to America. Something like 30% of women are obese and thus out of the dating pool for any man with any self respect
post 1642830893 07-14-2021, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted By miscbro333⏩
lol he was right all along.

It's like the matrix. There is no spoon
Or in OPs case, there is no poon.
Nah bro I’m sweet.
post 1642831303 07-14-2021, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
Not a bad article, but, just like most Incel arguments, it's trying to get young women to change their behavior when it comes to sex and dating and relationships. Good luck with that.
everything in the article is spot on

I don't think he is trying to get anyone to change their behaviors,

just commenting on what may be the precipitant behind the societal changes we see

Trying to get individuals to stop making poor decisions for their future is like trying to prevent the sun from rising. Everyone knows it is futile.
post 1642832183 07-14-2021, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted By Jhamaican⏩
everything in the article is spot on

I don't think he is trying to get anyone to change their behaviors,

just commenting on what may be the precipitant behind the societal changes we see

Trying to get individuals to stop making poor decisions for their future is like trying to prevent the sun from rising. Everyone knows it is futile.
Well at the very end he warns that we better come together as a society and make changes for the good of everyone.
post 1642832213 07-14-2021, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted By Supaduck0⏩
Who gives a fukk, just fukk them and dump them. If you aren't doing that, try. If you can't, that's fine just accept whatever blackpill necessary and enjoy life on your own terms in other ways.

Every other modus operandi has been proven to suck balls completely. Don't simp, don't betabuxx, don't be a cuck. It's as simple as that.
good posted.

based and true

control what aspects of life you can, and do the absolute best for what is in your control

outside of that,

let the cards fall where they may
post 1642832313 07-14-2021, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Well at the very end he warns that we better come together as a society and make changes for the good of everyone.
gotta be honest,

didn't read to the end

but appreciate you posting the article

interesting discussion,

so long as you have analchron, with his worthless comments and smilies on ignore
post 1642832493 07-14-2021, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes couch potato sports fans are the absolute cringiest.

Brb spending your weekend on the couch stuffing your face while watching Chads run around.
Imagine living vicariously through the lives of other men, or wearing another mans name on your back. Inherently is a beta male activity. You’re always better off competing yourself then watching others compete , even if at a lower level


Don’t get me wrong watching football or going to games is fine. But blocking off every day your team plays is pathetic, as is making that team your main identity


Isn’t limited to sports either. All the people nut hugging Musk or politicians are just as sad. Be your own man
post 1642833093 07-14-2021, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Jhamaican⏩
good posted.

based and true

control what aspects of life you can, and do the absolute best for what is in your control

outside of that,

let the cards fall where they may
This is true in theory but if a man knows his very best might not get him any pussi he's not going to bother.
post 1642833263 07-14-2021, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
Imagine living vicariously through the lives of other men, or wearing another mans name on your back. Inherently is a beta male activity. You’re always better off competing yourself then watching others compete , even if at a lower level


Don’t get me wrong watching football or going to games is fine. But blocking off every day your team plays is pathetic, as is making that team your main identity


Isn’t limited to sports either. All the people nut hugging Musk or politicians are just as sad. Be your own man
This is an incredibly limp dcik, insecure take.there is nothing wrong with loving your team and being a fan. Its fun.
post 1642833533 07-14-2021, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
. Average women need to accept average men
They generally start to realize this after a certain age when they realize that they are going to be alone unless they settle. That's when a lower level guy can snap up a hotter woman, who probably has some serious personality flaws. Look at examples like the pastor wifing up a porn star.
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator
Not a bad article, but, just like most Incel arguments, it's trying to get young women to change their behavior when it comes to sex and dating and relationships. Good luck with that.
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Well at the very end he warns that we better come together as a society and make changes for the good of everyone.
Saying this isn't sustainable/good for society (and society as a whole should change) is a big difference from waaaah women are dumb sloots and should change.
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post 1642835823 07-14-2021, 12:31 PM
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post 1642835863 07-14-2021, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted By RocknRollMuscle⏩
more and more peopel are fat now. even in 20's.

that makes pool of ATTRACTIVE single people even smaller.

guess what that does to the dating market? Go to Europe where there's tons of hot women everywhere. Guys don't GAF.

Men in western countries here are sexually deprived and it shows with how much they sepdn on onlyfans.
Most people are fat

This is just the facts unless you live in certain parts of the west

But the blame keeps getting put on men while fat acceptance is completely normalized

It's literally clown world
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post 1642836133 07-14-2021, 12:36 PM
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post 1642836153 07-14-2021, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
The girl I'm dating now commented on this last night, and told me all about her friends who jump from guy to guy. But the main problem is THEM, not the males. Their expectations and the way they approach things is geared towards creating drama and emotion, which far less men are willing to put up with now.

There's a ton of stupidity out there among women in terms of the way they approach relationships, and then they wonder why they can't land a high value male. News flash - you're not worth the drama or effort. And if you're overweight, expect even less options at least from any man with a small amount of self-respect.
I'm still somewhat social with friends, so we go out for drinks. Women at other tables seem to be quite loud and they're always in packs. The topic is always about what guy they're jumping to next. They probably do it to create more drama and have something to talk about, because I simply hear it so often.
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If the guy who did all this work (I assume it was a lot of work, not opening your poverty link or reading that chit) instead spent that time not being a tool he would have run down tons of hood rats. You can see by mv avi that I am no chad, I'm pretty average all around actually (except height I guess but 6'2" isn't that giant), and I do great in the 'modern dating' environment. Married now, but if I ever were to be single again I'd have a new girl around as soon as I wanted.

The reason you have problems dating isn't because you're goofy looking (unless you're really goofy looking, like 2/10 style) it's because you think like the guy who did all this 'research'. You think like a loser, you bring nothing to the table of dating, and aren't fun. Why would a woman want that in their life? They wouldn't. Similarly I wouldn't want a woman in my life who added nothing but pussy. Pussy isn't that valuable and neither is dink, you can find it anywhere so why tolerate it being attached to some boring ass lame?

Go be interesting and you'll have women beating down your door.
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post 1642839013 07-14-2021, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
They generally start to realize this after a certain age when they realize that they are going to be alone unless they settle. That's when a lower level guy can snap up a hotter woman, who probably has some serious personality flaws. Look at examples like the pastor wifing up a porn star.
A lot of these chicks get used to chads cawk and refuse to settle for what they feel is beneath them. These women might use a beta provider, but that isn't good for a man to slave away for a washed up woman out of her prime who just wants kids now
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
The Chads I like play sports. So they are out practicing and playing games instead of watching them.
How do you know? Are you with them 247
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
That is not fair. As a 6’2 guy you have literally no idea what life is like for a 5’4 guy. It is truly not comparable.
One of my best friends is 5'5" and has a non stop train of 10/10 blonde southern girls when he's single, real 10/10s too not some common tier hotties you get from the local bar. He got enough of them that it made me jealous when I was single, srs. He's now married to a solid 9/10 doctor who owns her own practice. He's not a doctor and she makes more than he does.

The secret? He's the most fun dude I've ever been around. Always out doing fun ****, boating, ATV'ing, getting hammered at the pool, travels a lot, etc...

While being a short or ugly dude can be tough you can completely overcome it by actually being fun to be around and adding to people's lives.
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩
If the guy who did all this work (I assume it was a lot of work, not opening your poverty link or reading that chit) instead spent that time not being a tool he would have run down tons of hood rats. You can see by mv avi that I am no chad, I'm pretty average all around actually (except height I guess but 6'2" isn't that giant), and I do great in the 'modern dating' environment. Married now, but if I ever were to be single again I'd have a new girl around as soon as I wanted.

The reason you have problems dating isn't because you're goofy looking (unless you're really goofy looking, like 2/10 style) it's because you think like the guy who did all this 'research'. You think like a loser, you bring nothing to the table of dating, and aren't fun. Why would a woman want that in their life? They wouldn't. Similarly I wouldn't want a woman in my life who added nothing but pussy. Pussy isn't that valuable and neither is dink, you can find it anywhere so why tolerate it being attached to some boring ass lame?

Go be interesting and you'll have women beating down your door.
Lmao you're 6'2. You have the golden ticket. At that height all you have to do is not be hideous and not be creepy.

You have no fuking idea what its like to be short. The overwhelming majority of women will not consider you no matter what else you have going on and that's including fat chicks.

Of the very few ones who are fine with manlets, there aren't enough to go around for all the manlets
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩
One of my best friends is 5'5" and has a non stop train of 10/10 blonde southern girls when he's single, real 10/10s too not some common tier hotties you get from the local bar. He got enough of them that it made me jealous when I was single, srs. He's now married to a solid 9/10 doctor who owns her own practice. He's not a doctor and she makes more than he does.

The secret? He's the most fun dude I've ever been around. Always out doing fun ****, boating, ATV'ing, getting hammered at the pool, travels a lot, etc...

While being a short or ugly dude can be tough you can completely overcome it by actually being fun to be around and adding to people's lives.
One guy you know doesn't change the trend. The fact is the vast majority of women will not give short men a chance.

For every random manlet you know with a hottie, many more are dying of desert dick
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