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post 1634103273 03-18-2021, 09:04 PM
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American Brahs - Is Women Who Want A Man Who Makes 6 Figures The Norm?

I've been watching podcasts with American women, and surely it's only in areas like Miami, white collar New York, and California (where a lot of these women seem to be from) that so many women want a man who makes 6 figures a year as their ideal?

Practically every single show, regardless of race, the women say the exact same thing. They want a man who earns 6 figures as their ideal. From girls who are literally still in college, to women who make 6 figures themselves.

I'm genuinely curious.

(Of course, I understand that there's a difference between a stated ideal and practice.)
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Imagine thinking six figures is a lot of money to women lololol
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It signifies high status. You may see people wanting a more traditional and resourceful man but I think six figures is just a standard thrown around for a man who has money.
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Originally Posted By sword_
It signifies high status.
Interesting thing is that on one podcast I listen to they purposefully ask women what they rank in terms of importance; looks, money or status. Money and Status overwhelmingly are listed as 1st and 2nd ranked, in different orders.
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Want? Yes. Get? No. It's just natural to want the best deal available.
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Originally Posted By turdburglar9021
Want? Yes. Get? No. It's just natural to want the best deal available.
Brah, I acknowledged that in the first post.

I'm asking if women openly say in America that they want a 6 figure guy say on dating profiles, when describing their ideal guy in a social setting, etc.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Imagine thinking six figures is a lot of money to women lololol
Nothing dries out a female quite like sitting down to work out a budget
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Women are hypergamous and will naturally go for the top 20% of men in terms of physical appearance, wealth, and social status.

Obviously not all of them will settle with their ideal man, so some of them will have to eventually face reality after all the pumps and dumps -- and marry a guy that's closer to average. The rest of them will become grumpy old post-glow feminists who will post hateful tweets about 40 year old men dating 25 year old women.
It was all just satire. Sorry if I offended anyone with my trolling and sickening posts. Peace and love to everyone.
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Originally Posted By turdburglar9021
Nothing dries out a female quite like sitting down to work out a budget
One time I sat mine down just to outline expenses, all the thousands of dollars I was spending every month just to keep her entertained.

She thought it was 1/5 of what I was actually spending and boy did she dry out like the sahara after that talk.
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Originally Posted By Liberal3lite
Women are hypergamous and will naturally go for the top 20% of men in terms of physical appearance, wealth, and social status.
I agree, there are cross-cultural studies that have lead me to believe that women are 'soft wired' to be hypergamous.

However, here in the UK at least, women do not openly talk about a particular figure that they want a guy to have. If anything they will describe class/socio-economic status (e.g. they want a man who works in management/executive job, Solicitor, a Doctor, etc) but not outright a salary. Women on these podcasts do not speak about the kind of job, just that they want their man to earn a particular salary.

In fact, no other country I've come across has women openly talking about what salary they want their partner to earn. It seems to be Americans (and 1 Canadian).
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Imagine thinking six figures is a lot of money to women lololol
six figures was a term used for high status in the 80/90s. Since then, inflation has made six figures just above average in most of the country. It's even just below average in high COL areas.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
One time I sat mine down just to outline expenses, all the thousands of dollars I was spending every month just to keep her entertained.

She thought it was 1/5 of what I was actually spending and boy did she dry out like the sahara after that talk.
Found a pic of Ernie Mccracken talking to his girl, about how they are going to have to cut back on nights out to save money...

Spoiler!
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Women want men with status and money. Guys want women who are fit and hot. How are we any better or "less shallow"?

Don't over-complicate things and don't be bitter.
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck
Found a pic of Ernie Mccracken talking to his girl, about how they are going to have to cut back on nights out to save money...

Spoiler!
It was the cost of a second mortgage... on a nice house. And she looked at me like I was Shekel Von Goldbergenstein for suggesting we tone it down a little.
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Sure. But that is for women you don't marry.

Marrying a woman over money equals divorce, which equals syphoning away your money and getting dragged in court.

Any woman that expects more than what is comfortable to live on is just money or false "status" chasing. And the funny part is a lot of those type of men love it because they think they're cool af until they get divorced or cucked.
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Originally Posted By isawthesign
Women want men with status and money. Guys want women who are fit and hot. How are we any better or "less shallow"?

Don't over-complicate things and don't be bitter.
Noone has said that men are less shallow or better than women ITT.

However... It's far easier to be fit and hot, than it is to be part of the top 10% of earners in the nation.

It takes a what a decade + from 18 to get to be part of the top 10% earners, along with dedication and networking? Dieting, exercise, and good make up can make a woman attractive to the majority of men IMO.

Not bitterness, one takes a lot more work.
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Lots of people have 6 fig incomes, along with massive debt, high col, and few major assets or sources of passive income. Wealth isn’t your paycheck. The wealthy don’t even need paychecks.
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Originally Posted By sword_
It signifies high status. You may see people wanting a more traditional and resourceful man but I think six figures is just a standard thrown around for a man who has money.
This.


Until you get there and realize its not really all that much. Still many do it on much less.

I think really its relative to the womans status. Her worth, background and looks let you know how much you need to make.

My gf is from a poor background, has a degree that doesnt yield a high salary was making barely 30k when I met her. She thinks my salary is a fortune and has very modest desires.
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My wife was making 130kish when I met her (pharmacist) and I was a firefighter making 35k. I remember taking her to this one dinner and spending $140 which was a ton for me then lol.

She must have wanted me bad bc she bought me a PS4 like 3 months after dating loll bc she knew I wanted one and couldn’t afford it

This is first year I’ve ever made more than her since I changed careers to NP and i should be doing 250-300k next year when I open my psych practice. I had more money in my pocket when I was a fireman making 12/hr though lol
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From Canada and in my experience, it's usually the women who grow up in big cities and in certain circles that throw that number around.

It's overblown, IMO.
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Originally Posted By Orion166
more misc delusional nonsense


about 0.1% of people can survive without paychecks and it's typically people born into generational wealth


becoming truly wealthy is very very very difficult...you need to make a stupid amount of money to save that much and it's just not realistic if you're not born into it... and BTW, I'm not some loser. I make 180K a year in sales but even I am nowhere near rich because I don't come from any wealth
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Found a girl who makes 7 figures. She's flying here next Friday and wants me to move in with her. She drives a lambo and makes weekend trips into the caribbean on her yaht. Srs
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck
I've been watching podcasts with American women, and surely it's only in areas like Miami, white collar New York, and California (where a lot of these women seem to be from) that so many women want a man who makes 6 figures a year as their ideal?

Practically every single show, regardless of race, the women say the exact same thing. They want a man who earns 6 figures as their ideal. From girls who are literally still in college, to women who make 6 figures themselves.

I'm genuinely curious.

(Of course, I understand that there's a difference between a stated ideal and practice.)
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God damn it feels good to be in the top 1% of males for wealth, intelligence, and physique

Not even a brag though cause I’m like bottom 1% in social skills so the second I talk I ruin it all lol
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This just in, women like providers and stability
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
God damn it feels good to be in the top 1% of males for wealth, intelligence, and physique

Not even a brag though cause I’m like bottom 1% in social skills so the second I talk I ruin it all lol
Someone mentioned that there are groups/classes dedicated to public speaking, specifically to help those with poor social skills. Maybe try that?

Or join some improv classes. As gay as it sounds, I know a couple of social autists who swear by these for their newfound social success.
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Originally Posted By ramimotemem
Someone mentioned that there are groups/classes dedicated to public speaking, specifically to help those with poor social skills. Maybe try that?

Or join some improv classes. As gay as it sounds, I know a couple of social autists who swear by these for their newfound social success.
Social skills are just that, skills.



Classes may help but so does bitting the bullet and just throwing yourself put there.
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Originally Posted By ramimotemem
Someone mentioned that there are groups/classes dedicated to public speaking, specifically to help those with poor social skills. Maybe try that?

Or join some improv classes. As gay as it sounds, I know a couple of social autists who swear by these for their newfound social success.
I actually found an acting class I want to try once this retarded mask **** goes away

Cant see the point with everyone wearing a god damn mask
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
God damn it feels good to be in the top 1% of males for wealth, intelligence, and physique

Not even a brag though cause I’m like bottom 1% in social skills so the second I talk I ruin it all lol
Im pretty sure I remember you telling us your salary was mediocre.

You and Fraud Lefticle should compare notes on how to lie about moneymogging.
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
I actually found an acting class I want to try once this retarded mask **** goes away

Cant see the point with everyone wearing a god damn mask
Dasitmane, hope you can go there soon.

Agreed, I forgot the percentage, but facial expressions are a huge part of social interactions and killing that is fkn retarded.

You could always show up with these for the entire group lol

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